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This is going to be a very confusing story, please bare with me haha.
Ok, so last weekend i hooked up with this guy John. John and I had been sort of a thing for like a couple weeks and this was the first time we've hooked up. Things were like fine between us for a few days but then he started excessively calling me and i got really annoyed and decided it was time to move on, though he doesn't know that yet. This past saturday we were all out and john and i werent talking that much because he was in a pissy mood and i didnt want to deal with him. so i just flirted alot with my good friend james who i like now, and he likes me. later that night he called me upset and blamed it on me, and i felt really bad. i have absolutely no feelings for john anymore though. I have no idea what to tell john or even to follow through with things with james. what should i do?

ps. sorry its so confusing if you need me to explain further let me know. thank youuu

Just tell John what you see...that things are going down hill and you should break off before things get ugly. Only in a much less blunt and more polite way of course. And I think you should go for it with James...but wait for a few weeks. that way it won't look like you left john for James. hope this helps...good luck.

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Hi. I have almost all the sims games. But when I put in the last downloaded game it says the file is corrupt or unreadable. Please run the Chkdsk utility. So I undownloaded the last game. And put in the other game CD and it says the same thing. Whats wrong with it? (( my boyfriend did the chkdsk think too.))

if you have a really old cd-rom drive...this might be the problem...thats what happened to me...I have 2 cd-rom drive...one old...one new...i put it in the old one and that message popped up when i put disk two in...then i put it in the new one and it worked just fine.

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i like this guy and i think he likes me back. we see eachother on the bus and i usually sit next to him. he flirts with me and one of his friends told me that he wants to ask me out but hes too afraid. so what do i do? im desperate! :(

the idea below was good...but notes can come back to bite you VERY EASILY....i think you should call him or IM him...if you sit with him everyday asking for his number or screename (if you don't have it) is not a big deal at all.

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15/f.... i have this friend who i met in the september of 2007 in gym class. it was like an instant friendship and we got along so well. we never faught or anything, the only difference we had was that she was a year older than me but it was not even a big deal. we joked and could talk for forever. then out of nowhere a few weeks ago an akwardness started between us everytime we spoke and it was obvious. our conversation would run dry within a few minutes. i try to keep the conversation going but i don't know, it seems like something about me is bugging her or like she always has something on her mind. i dont know what to do because she's a real good friend of mine but i can't even talk to her anymore without feeling like a stranger...i need to know what to do.

ask her if anything is wrong. if she denies it, wait a few weeks. If she doesn't admit that anything is wrong,just give her some space. This happens with friendships of different age groups, not matter how small of a difference there is...its weird. but...i'm almost positive that before you know it you'll be back to how it was soon enough. =) good luck.

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Ok... my bf is all of a sudden ignoring my calls and all of a sudden soooo busy. He is so obbessed with his car and cant even put it on his car that he cares about me. Should I give him up or just leave him alone and let him come to me.

tell him if he doesn't make time for you the relationship isn't going to work. In a nice way, and prepare back-up reasoning that he'll understand...guys don't even really hear reasoning if it's not in a way they understand it. If he disagrees or agrees and doesn't follow through...don't give him a second chance.
good luck.

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Okay, so last sunday my verizon phone died. And it was my second one. So my mom took me to get a new one, and they gave me a "refurbished" phone.

Now, my phone will turn on, and none of the buttons will work. And then it will turn off.

Should i just try to clean it or somthing? or should i take it back. It really wont stay on at all.

Please help

refurbished phones are total crap. return it.

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we're getting a new victorian bulldog puppy. any cute names?!

lunchbox.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and lately we've been going through a hard time. I thought I could trust him, but like I have issues with sites like myspace and facebook and stuff like that because of things that have happened in the past. But like he was having a hard time of having his friends know about me so I asked him if he would change his status on facebook to in a relationship. After a while of trying to convince him, he finally did. That was a few months ago though and the other day I looked on his facebook and it said single... I feel like he's maybe trying to tell other girls that he's free and stuff but I don't know. And like I also asked him if he wouldn't use it that much anymore and the last week I had a feeling he was using it still, and I asked him if he was using it and he lied straight to my face and said no. But then tonight I wanted to see if it was true and it wasn't... he was on it..and like I don't know. I'm in love with him, but like... I can't trust him online..

Dump him. if you can't trust him online, you can't trust him anywheres.

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what is "electric" when put together with pink or blue? does it just mean "bright"?

neon.

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my bf's ex gf from like a year ago WONT leave my boyfriend alone. like she will try anything to talk to him.. but my concern is i think hes actually talking to her telling her he loves her. i dont know what to do.. i want to break up with him but.. omg. AHHH
what should i do? confront him?
17 f

but what? if you want to break up with him break up with him. maybe ask him if he loves his ex...if there is any other reason you want to break up with him don't bother asking.

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yeah anybody know some good makup that doesnt look pated on your face? and that is really not expensive? and some good eyeliner also? :D

Burt's Bees. i know it sounds weird but it's some of the best makeup I've ever had. It's cheap too. and try drugstores for good cheap eyeliner.

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well im 13 old and a female and i have this amazing boyfriend who is 14. the relationship is fine and everything except there's one problem. his ex girlfriend still wants him back. she's determined to get him back. she even told his sister that she's going to marry her brother ( my boyfriend) she keeps saying that she loves my boyfriend more than i too. and she's leaving messages saying that someone else is was telling my boyfriend all these things and that kathy( the ex) isnt real. but i know she is. what can i do to stop her please help

tell that beotch thats YOUR man...stand your ground but don't threaten her.

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Well, I'm 5'6 1/2" and I weigh somewhere around 135-140. I was just wondering if that's average or overweight? A lot of people say,"Oh my gosh, you're a stick! You look like you weigh 110 pounds!" but I know that I'm not that skinny, I look like it, but I'm not. So, am I overweight for my height!? Thank you!

no your normal weight. maybe you just hafta add some muscle on you!

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I want a really pink lipstick of lipgloss that really shows its pink. I live in MO and i've checked walmart and walgreens ... so what places should i check.?

target...just STAY AWAY from the brand "Karma" i bough their mascara and it stunk SO BAD.

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ok im sorry and this is embarrassing but i think i have a hemorrhoid but i dont know what to do about it. will it just go away? its been there a while and hurts and itches a bit but nothing too bad. i dont want to tell my mom tho because that would be mortifying. so im hoping it just goes away soon? please tell me what to do and what they do. thanks so much-i will rate! :]

whoa!!! O_O

...get some like cream. they sell it in drug stores.

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these are expensive. $40 for 7 days! i hear they work but still.. can they undo the damage of not not teeth that have touched coffee/tea/teeth-staining beverages but years of bad/barely brushing teeth that have become yellowed? anyone know?

it's freakin a waste of money

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Do you think it would be great if Miley's permanent partner (lover) in the show (hannah montana)is David Archuleta? (It was my friend's idea)
Anyway if not, who do you suggest?

Remember just Asking

i think miley cyrus should jump off a cliff and die alone. =)

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how do i become better friends with my casual friends. i just transfered to a private school in the beginning of the 2nd quarter and i have made some really good friends and a few good friends and some casual friends but i want to improve the friendships (the casual and good ones)to something closer. thanks so much! :)

its called talking...do it more. =)

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hey guys

so a couple of days ago, pretty out of the blue, almost all my maxis hair and clothing in the sims 2 started showing up like this:
http://i30.tinypic.com/23htyk9.jpg

none of my custom content is affected, however.

it's kinda awkward.

any assistance would be really appreciated :)

delete any mods and custom stuff. If that doesn't work...you may have to re-install the game.

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There was this girl who I was friends with for five years, & we were in a really big fight last year over stupid things & we didn't talk for four (maybe five?) months. The thing is, this afternoon, we talked for the first time in a long time & she apologized. She really has changed. The thing is, two of my ex-best friends told me that she tried to get them to drink, & their mom told my mom. SO, my mom already doesn't like the girl, PLUS now she thinks she drinks. I know it's not true, cause the girls who told me that turned out to be liars. My mom still doesn't like her & doesn't want me hanging out with her. Everytime I try to talk to my mom about the conversation I had with her & how she apologized, she just changes the subject. How can I convince her that she's changed, so I can actually hang out with her?

write her a note explaining the whole situation....put it on her night stand or something while she is not there. she can't change the subject of a note. if she gets mad about the note just tell her you had to do it because she won't listen.

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