i like this guy and i think he likes me back. we see eachother on the bus and i usually sit next to him. he flirts with me and one of his friends told me that he wants to ask me out but hes too afraid. so what do i do? im desperate! :(
not_over_him07 answered Monday March 10 2008, 2:04 pm: Hey,
I think we all have definitely had this happen to us before.
my suggestion's
- you could write him a note, keep it short and simple don't ramble on about nothing, then he will think your trying to hard.. if he gets off the bus before you, you should hand it to him when he gets off. if you get off before him you might want to think this threw more carefully because theres always a possibility that he might show everyone the note you wrote him and embarrass yourself. depends on the guy, if you know for a fact he wouldn't do that, then you should definitely try it
JerZ answered Sunday March 9 2008, 10:49 pm: I know it's very difficult to ask a girl out if you're a modest kind of guy that's happy just talking to a pretty girl, because me personally I'm afraid I'll scare her off.
What my girlfriend did to make it easy for me to ask her out was just say that she didn't want to go home while I was alone with her at the end of the day. I didn't just hope into asking her out the first time, but after a few days I made the nerve racking question: that if she wanted to come over to my house to watch some movies. Shes been the best thing that's ever happen to me ever since. [ JerZ's advice column | Ask JerZ A Question ]
MichaelaMarlene answered Sunday March 9 2008, 10:20 pm: hi
well i wass thinking about your question and well maybe you should give alot of hints but not to strongly that you like him to and he shouldnt be afraid, maybe you should direct your attention to him more, but delicately. [ MichaelaMarlene's advice column | Ask MichaelaMarlene A Question ]
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