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i feel so akward.....
15/f.... i have this friend who i met in the september of 2007 in gym class. it was like an instant friendship and we got along so well. we never faught or anything, the only difference we had was that she was a year older than me but it was not even a big deal. we joked and could talk for forever. then out of nowhere a few weeks ago an akwardness started between us everytime we spoke and it was obvious. our conversation would run dry within a few minutes. i try to keep the conversation going but i don't know, it seems like something about me is bugging her or like she always has something on her mind. i dont know what to do because she's a real good friend of mine but i can't even talk to her anymore without feeling like a stranger...i need to know what to do.
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ask her if anything is wrong. if she denies it, wait a few weeks. If she doesn't admit that anything is wrong,just give her some space. This happens with friendships of different age groups, not matter how small of a difference there is...its weird. but...i'm almost positive that before you know it you'll be back to how it was soon enough. =) good luck.
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there may be something that's been bothering her.I know it may seem awkward, but it'll probably be worth it in the end if you just try to talk to her one on one. She may want to talk to you about something, but feels like she can't. It may be up to you to see what's going on. I hope everything works out! write me back if it does, it'd like to know how it went. hope i helped. ~ Skyla ~
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I know it would be weird talking to her and saying how you felt. You should invite her over for a sleepover, just you two. It would get you guys talking again. I had a similar problem but I talked to her about it and everything is better.
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