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Should I let him go
Ok... my bf is all of a sudden ignoring my calls and all of a sudden soooo busy. He is so obbessed with his car and cant even put it on his car that he cares about me. Should I give him up or just leave him alone and let him come to me.
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tell him if he doesn't make time for you the relationship isn't going to work. In a nice way, and prepare back-up reasoning that he'll understand...guys don't even really hear reasoning if it's not in a way they understand it. If he disagrees or agrees and doesn't follow through...don't give him a second chance.
good luck.
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Hello,
Your question is a very tipical one Should i stay or dump him. Well in your situation I think you should tell him how you feel and say that you feel he is not spending any time with you and you feel like he is ignoring you. If he still does not have the time for you then I think you should leave him. I mean why wait for him to come to you when you could be with someone else who actualy cares enoughto spend some time with you. Well I hope that helped
Yours truly,
helper101_67
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This all depends on how long you've been with this guy and how long he's been ignoring you. If you've been with him for a decent amount of time (maybe 3+ months) and he's only been ignoring you for a little while, you could give him a chance. Maybe sit him down and maturely and calmly tell him what you're concerned about. Give him strong examples of times when you felt ignored and explain that when he ignores you it hurts. Don't accuse him of ignoring you because hey, he might really just be busy, and if you accuse him, he might get really defensive and we don't want that. :) If you don't feel comfortable confronting him about it, you could just see what happens over the next couple of weeks. Like I said previously, he might really just be busy with school or work or something. If he keeps ignoring you, or he doesn't communicate with you well when you confront him, I think it might be time to let him go.
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