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shy guy
i have been hooking up with a guy from college every night we go out...say once a month, but thats as far as it goes..every time i see him were both so embarsed.he txt me few times and i got so sick of it goin nowhere i asked him 4 coffee,,, we went and it was fine but he hasnt got in touch since...his mates make it really awkward slaggin us...i dont know if i should jus forget him and end it...i know hes shy but does it sound like he doesnt care... well be goin out next wk again how do i find out wat he thinks?
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Just be straigh forward and ask him, do you like me? And if he is too shy to say yes or anything then I suggest you just move on, forget him as anything more than just a friend. It will be his loss. But, if he says yes, that he likes you. The tell him you'll need more from him if he is going to want to be with you, more as in, he is going to have to be more open and not so shy with you. You must help him with his openness and comfort with you.
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Are you confident and outgoing? If so, ask him directly where he thinks this is going or how he feels about you.
If you're shy too, make some subtle hints and see how he responds. (make some sneaky stares at him, smiling, try to hold his hand, put your head on his shoulder etc) if he lets you, he proably likes you more than a friend.
You can also ask him "Are you interested in anyone?" and if he says yes but wont tell you who, chances are its probably you.
Tell him you like someone too but say you wont tell him until he tells you, potentially driving him insane until he tells you.
Hope this helped
K-J
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