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15/f
So I'm trying out for my school soccer team in a couple of weeks. The problem is my endurance is awful. I can only run for a couple of minutes without being completely wiped out. Are they any exercises or special workouts that I can do besides just straight running that will help build up my endurance? all help appreciated! (link)
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anaerobic exercises would help you a lot (basically sprints) anything that would make you feel like you cant breathe...I wrestle, we do sprints every day for endurance for at least 20 minutes...its a pain...but it must be done also you can look into aerobic exercises but they take longer to do
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ok so as you all probably know by now me and my boyfriend have not been doing so well.
we live in different states and that makes it harder.
he hasnt called me since tuesday. and ive texted him and stuff but i got no text back but i think his phone ie off again.
and last night around 230 he called me from his friends phone (he lives with him) but i didnt feel like talking to him
cause later that day i took a nap and i woke up and went online and saw that he signed into myspace for the first time in like 3 days
but didnt even bother to message me saying anything
and i went to look at his top friends and this girl who ive had problems with him talking to her before, is first
he never put me back first after this fight we had about two weeks ago cause he barely goes on ever since his aunt kicked him out.
and that made me really sad/mad.
so i thought since he never called me or texted me back and seemed to care about this girl more
that i thought we were over
so im like wow whatever. hes an a*sshol*
and then this morning he called me and woke me up and we talked. and of course like always he acted like everyhting was fine. and he told me he loved me and stuff. and he told me that he forgot to tell me that he bought me something for my birthday and that hes gonna have to mail it to me. so i thought ok whatever were fine now.
butttt about an hour ago i went on the girls myspace and saw that he had commented yesterday
and it said i love you baby you mean everything to me.
and that seriously made me so mad. cuase i know they dont have just a friendship
but the weird thing iis, that he isnt on her top and her thing still says single. and she tends to flirt with guys. anddd she lives farther then i do from him.
and i really dont know what to think
i commented him and told him to call me when he gets this comment
because im tired of being so nice and acting like nothing is wrong
so im finally just going to tell him off and how miserable i have been and what is up with him and this girl.
someone help me :/
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It looks like you don't need help really, due to the fact that you're already talking it out with him. That's probably just the best course of action, but if he is having an affair he most likely wont admit to it.
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this is gonna sound so lame but i've never been the the movies with a guy before and im going with one that i really like. he really likes me too. what should i expect to happen? and what should i do? like if he puts his arm around he do i lay on his shoulder ? please don't tell me whatever feels right cause i know that but like if we start kissing where do i put my hands and stuff? thats my main question. thank youu! (link)
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Honestly, if it's your first movie with him and you haven't been dating he probably wont kiss on the first date, though he might, I don't know him. Anyway, if he does the simplest place to put your hands would be his face or around his neck. If he puts his arm around you and you feel it's right, go for it and put your head on his shoulder. If theres no arm rest, which there probably will be, and he puts his arm around you lean on him. You'll be fine. =D
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I REALLY NEED HELP! i have a 6 week old puppy, he is a lab/pit bull. he was crated when he was with his mom and brothers. but now that hes crated here even if hes falling over tired he still cries! he wont stop. all night long. non stop.. we have to put him in the basement where we cant hear him but i feel so bad!!! even in my room if the door is shut he starts yelping. i know the crying is just cause hes out of what hes intouch with but everything people have said to do does NOT work. even if i lay down with him and my fingers inthe crate singing or talkign to him he SCREAMSSSSS and i cant take it. i start to cry. if anybody has ANY tips pleaseee help me.
*a vet told me not to put any hot water bottles, school clocks, blankets, or toys unless they are kongs. they choke on toys and blankets, pop the water bottle, pee on the toys and blankets. it makes a mess... so i cant put anything int here!! i put his stuffed animals outside looking in thinking that would help. it didnt.
*I take his water and food up about 2 hours before being crated and i take him to go to the bathroom and run him around alittle bit untill he gets SUPER tired and is falling over. (he still wakes up when he is put in there and starts howling)
any tips, stories, anythiiinnngg!!! just please help me! thanks sooo much in advance. (link)
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I'm no expert, but I'd say to put in a doggy bed, something that he couldn't chew up and choke on you know? Put some of his toys in there, and make it as warm as possible. Also, I know when we first got our puppies that to put them to sleep easier we would heat up warm milk and put it in a bowl and give it to them during or before they go outside to play, so it has time to set in and relax them. And this sounds completely ridiculous, but for my chihuahua it worked. We got a second chihuahua and crated them together and he stopped yelping all together.
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okay so, there is this kid that I REALLY like. lets call him kevin. well I told only my three best friends about liking him and they are just like awwwww. but like I really don't think he likes me because whenever he is online he NEVER i/ms me and if we are talking he will sometimes just stop anwering me. but then I tell my friends I was like okay he doesn't like me he doesn't i/m me I should just give up and then my friend goes "well you like him a lot and you aren't iming him either cause you think you are being annoiny, maybe he is doing the same thing." and that got me thinking what if that is the case? so then without my permission my best friend claire texts him and goes "awww! do you like heather (me)?" and he was like "no why" and she goes "because you guys would be so cute together" and he was just like "haha" so then I was like okay guys he seriously doesn't like me I should just give up... then my friend comes in and says "well, if kevins best friend asked if you like kevin you would probably say no too because it would be awkward" and that got me thinking again what if that's the case??? so like now I don't know what to do! I really really like him but he's confusing me way too much. I mean like we hung out every single day with a bunch of people when we had a week off from school and he kept talking to me and teasing me and stuff. I just want him to talk to me online too. my friend said that I should ignore him in person and online cause it will make him want to talk to me. is that true? I just really badly need help I am so confused. thank you! (link)
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He probably would say no to your friend because he knows you're friends with him and it's soo much easier to deny it than to tell the truth when you know that the person it's about will be hearing it eventually. In the case with the IMs, I see it as one of two things, he doesn't IM you because he doesn't have anything to talk about, and doesn't want to have you think he's stupid for babbling, but does like you. Or, that he thinks that you both are just friends and that it should stay that way, and he just talks to you when you do him.
I'd say just to talk to him more often and see where it goes, if it seems to be going well ask him. Guys like to be asked out just like girls do (as long as its not obsessively).
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17 female.
i have a best friend, his name is nick :)we do go to different schools. me and nick have been friends for about 5 years now. i've always had a thing for him, but i dont think either of us saw us being "more than friends" until i started having feelings for him about 2 years ago. and thats when he started going out with his girlfriend that he is STILL going out with. i can tell they're in love..which is soo hard for me to watch. i hardly get to see him anymore, but when i do i fall sooo hard for him, it gives me butterflies when i see him. i dont think he knows that i have a thing for him but now i think, whats the point if he has a girlfriend that he is in love with. he makes me so mad sometimes because he wont hang out with anyone BUT his girlfriend. we only hangout when his girlfriend is out of town, or busy doing something :\ he is such a flirt though, like i hung out with him two days ago with a group of people and we went out to dinner, and my friend was sitting in between us, and i felt someone like grabbing my leg and rubbing it and it was him and i just start laughing and then he kept playing "footsy" with me. i just dont know what to do anymore, i like him alot and i can never stop thinking about him. i dont want to ruin our friendship that we have by telling him how i feel, because obviously he is not going to dump his girlfriend. all the girls want him, i think it's funny but he treats me different. he is always there for me. and he doesnt care what i look like, i could be wearing sweats and a sweatshirt with no make-up, but i always feel like i have to look cute when im around him. he always notices the little things i do, like if i dye or cut my hair he is ALWAYS the first to realize and no other guy does. if anyone has heard the song "my best friend" by tim mcgraw, thats exactly how i feel...
any suggestions? i dont want to stop hanging out with him, because he is my best friend.
thank you so much! (link)
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It seems to me like he likes you both, but values your friendship too much that he doesn't want to mess it up. Definately don't hanging out with him, my advice is to simply just say, "I miss you we never hang out any more," that kind of thing. I understand that you don't want to be around her, but you might have to if you want to spend more time with him.
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I am 15 and about 5'2/3 short for my age. I have been trying to loose weight for about 2 years now, but i never ever stick to eat. I always find myself binging when i get home from school. Its like a race between me and my friend, we are the same size. But shes lost so much weight and i really dont no what to do the obvious thing is to stop binging but its sosososo hard i get really hungry. I do exercise quite alot but it justs turns into muscle so i look even bigger. I need to loose weight fast for the summer especially!! (link)
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Ah, weight loss, my expert subject. I've healthily cut 15 pounds each year, and kept it off during the entire winter (which was when my diet was over, wrestling season ends =p). What I do to lose weight is simple really, but takes discipline. Instead of eating nothing all day and then eating one big meal at the end, which actually makes you gain a LOT more weight (your body thinks it's starving and it stores the food as fat instead of digesting properly and being burned off), what you should be doing is actually eating FIVE times a day, in smaller portions. It makes your metabolisim kick in more often and burns more calories without even working out! Also, instead of eating junk food or greasy food, I always ate salads and that kind of thing during my sport's season. If salad's taste gets old to you, eat fruit, make smoothies, whatever you need to do to keep yourself from eating bad things. The main thing is that you eat the correct amount, five times a day (or more/less if you choose, the more the better as long as you DON'T over do it) and eat healthy foods.
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I work out in the afternoon/evening.
Is it better to eat my big meal before or after working out?
Like or should I have a snack before or what?
Thanks! (link)
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What I've always been told is that you're supposed to have 'enough food in you to go through the workout the best you can' and then eat healthily afterwords. I always ate a powerbar or two, or granola bar, before hand, something small. Then afterwords eat protein (if you're looking to build muscle that is), if that's not what you're trying for, just eat normally, if you eat more before you work out you're usually a lot less hungry afterwords so you don't over eat and it's said to burn off more calories for weight loss.
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This boy that Ive liked for 10 months hasnt talked to me in a long time.We used to talk all the time but now he just ignores me.And whenever he sees me he stares at me for a long time.My sister says that he likes me.What do you think and why? (link)
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There's a lot of different answers to this question, of course, but the few that come to mind for me are these:
He might not be talking to you any more because he wants to ask you out and can't, I'm shy and I know how hard it is. At one point I just kind of froze up and avoided a girl all together for about a month until I finally got over it.
He thinks you're too good for him, or he's too good for you (probably the first).
He's heard something about you from his friends or just random people and thinks it's true and doesn't agree with it.
At any rate, my advice is to just try and talk to him, if he ignores you ask him why he's ignoring you. As cheesy as it sounds, tell him you miss him, like miss talking to him, something like that.
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