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I want to stop likeing him. he's too confusing
okay so, there is this kid that I REALLY like. lets call him kevin. well I told only my three best friends about liking him and they are just like awwwww. but like I really don't think he likes me because whenever he is online he NEVER i/ms me and if we are talking he will sometimes just stop anwering me. but then I tell my friends I was like okay he doesn't like me he doesn't i/m me I should just give up and then my friend goes "well you like him a lot and you aren't iming him either cause you think you are being annoiny, maybe he is doing the same thing." and that got me thinking what if that is the case? so then without my permission my best friend claire texts him and goes "awww! do you like heather (me)?" and he was like "no why" and she goes "because you guys would be so cute together" and he was just like "haha" so then I was like okay guys he seriously doesn't like me I should just give up... then my friend comes in and says "well, if kevins best friend asked if you like kevin you would probably say no too because it would be awkward" and that got me thinking again what if that's the case??? so like now I don't know what to do! I really really like him but he's confusing me way too much. I mean like we hung out every single day with a bunch of people when we had a week off from school and he kept talking to me and teasing me and stuff. I just want him to talk to me online too. my friend said that I should ignore him in person and online cause it will make him want to talk to me. is that true? I just really badly need help I am so confused. thank you!
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I HATE GUYS LIKE THIS! believe me. i know exactly how you feel. this was the same exact thing that happened with the last guy i liked. he would IM me sometimes, but he would take a long time to answer or stop answering or whatever. and i would be like wtf? because he would like flirt with me in person and then he actually like made a move on me later and i found out he liked me. so yeah this guy is either too shy to talk to you (he doesnt really know what to say, doesnt wanna mess up) or he just doesnt like talking to you online. its definetly more fun to talk in person.
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He probably would say no to your friend because he knows you're friends with him and it's soo much easier to deny it than to tell the truth when you know that the person it's about will be hearing it eventually. In the case with the IMs, I see it as one of two things, he doesn't IM you because he doesn't have anything to talk about, and doesn't want to have you think he's stupid for babbling, but does like you. Or, that he thinks that you both are just friends and that it should stay that way, and he just talks to you when you do him.
I'd say just to talk to him more often and see where it goes, if it seems to be going well ask him. Guys like to be asked out just like girls do (as long as its not obsessively).
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hes probly just nervous and stuff... you should ask him out, he may at first just say yes cuz he feels bad for you but then he'll get to kno you even better and he will really like you. from wat you said it seems lke he does like you.
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well heather thats what alot of girls say " that if u ignore them they'll like you more" i really dont think its true because if u keep ignoring him then he'll think your over him even . but we dont want him to think your over him cause wat if he does like you and he sees you've moved on hell move on rite? rite!!! And heather i think you should talk to him in person and ask him if he likes you and if he doesnt his loss and if he does your gain WISH YA LUCK xoxo GOSSIPBABE
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You should talk to him directly, that would be the only way that you'll ever find out what is the truth or not and where you go from there (emotions wise).
It seems that the both of you have got mixed feelings for one and another, yet one isn't telling the truth which is why I say: go and talk to the guy and ask for nothing but the truth. And be serious about it (which i know you are) because having/starting a realtionship can only happen if the couple are willing enough to have one.
Don't listen to anymore secondhand information from anyone, listen to Kevin himself. Don't do it online, face to face.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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