ok so as you all probably know by now me and my boyfriend have not been doing so well.
we live in different states and that makes it harder.
he hasnt called me since tuesday. and ive texted him and stuff but i got no text back but i think his phone ie off again.
and last night around 230 he called me from his friends phone (he lives with him) but i didnt feel like talking to him
cause later that day i took a nap and i woke up and went online and saw that he signed into myspace for the first time in like 3 days
but didnt even bother to message me saying anything
and i went to look at his top friends and this girl who ive had problems with him talking to her before, is first
he never put me back first after this fight we had about two weeks ago cause he barely goes on ever since his aunt kicked him out.
and that made me really sad/mad.
so i thought since he never called me or texted me back and seemed to care about this girl more
that i thought we were over
so im like wow whatever. hes an a*sshol*
and then this morning he called me and woke me up and we talked. and of course like always he acted like everyhting was fine. and he told me he loved me and stuff. and he told me that he forgot to tell me that he bought me something for my birthday and that hes gonna have to mail it to me. so i thought ok whatever were fine now.
butttt about an hour ago i went on the girls myspace and saw that he had commented yesterday
and it said i love you baby you mean everything to me.
and that seriously made me so mad. cuase i know they dont have just a friendship
but the weird thing iis, that he isnt on her top and her thing still says single. and she tends to flirt with guys. anddd she lives farther then i do from him.
and i really dont know what to think
i commented him and told him to call me when he gets this comment
because im tired of being so nice and acting like nothing is wrong
so im finally just going to tell him off and how miserable i have been and what is up with him and this girl.
someone help me :/
Anonym answered Monday August 11 2008, 12:37 am: It looks like you don't need help really, due to the fact that you're already talking it out with him. That's probably just the best course of action, but if he is having an affair he most likely wont admit to it. [ Anonym's advice column | Ask Anonym A Question ]
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