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My problem is simple. I am an 18 female going into college this fall and I'm jealous of this one girl that my bf of 20 years of is friends with. I too have many guy friends that I hang out with as well. We both love each other very much and we have a healthy relationship. We both spend get time to ourselves, for school, to our friends and other important things so we are not smothered. The problem isn't him, it's me. I am the baby in my family and I know this sounds bad but I think I have this problem since I'm used to getting all the attention. I am not a snotty person but this one girl just really irritates me. My bf has never cheated on me and tells me to trust him. However, I always get mad at him when they hang out, they never hang out alone but I just feel jealous when they are together because she gets to be with him but not me. Other than this, we have no issues. I've had this problem for a long time and it would kill me if I lost him over this one thing. I feel like if I don't stop bitching at him, he will leave me (even though he says I would be the first one to do that). I drive myself crazy over this and I want to just stop and enjoy our relationship instead of freaking out over this girl. She's in the same friend circle as his other friends so she will be around even if I asked him to stop being friends. My point is, there's nothing I can do to stop it, I jsut need help in not freaking out on him and avoiding the whole "i-love-you-dont-worry-i-dont-like-her-and-you-are-my-eveyrhting" talk every time they all ahng out. Help? (link)
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What i think you should do is become better friends with this girl. Figure out who she is and what she likes to see the common interest in friendship between your boyfriend and this girl. I know how you feel though. Most girls have this problem with their boyfriends friends. I just think you should be calm and if there really is some jealousy ask him to take you with him when you hang out with her sometimes. And if u love him and he loves you, there really shouldn't be a problem. I know jealousy is a big deal but i mean so is trust. If you trust him then you don't want to make a big deal out of this cause then he might think that you don't trust him. So be very careful. But i do think you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel because communication is very important in a relationship. Maybe he feels this way bout one of your friends. You never know. Just stay calm. And now that your going to college and he isn't goingto be with you as much i could assume, get a webcam and talk through them just to be able to keep everything good! i wish you the best of luck =)
~Sealgirl07~
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I Have this friend she is 14 like me. we hang out alot but she lies sooo much. its not little lies either there is many many things she's done. she lies to everyone.she tell my secrets to everyone and tells everyones to me. most arnt my secrets she lies and tells them i have done something that i have not. she's is bi. but she tells everyone she is not. i have no problem with bi people i am not bi myself. she has tryed kissing me and she's tryed humping my leg.i said no. i told my friends about this..they dont belive me she did some things with one of my other friends (like made her do it) and then got mad at her for it. she lies and lies and she tells me to my face that she will lie if she wants to get out of something. so you get that she lies a lot right? well thats not my main problem i dont want to be her friend anymore but i can stop hanging out with her. if i do then my friends will ask why im being mean to her and why i wont be her friend. they will get mad at me for "being mean" but i am not. i've tryed to explain to them what she does but she is so good of a lier that they believe her not me. so i will have no friends..if i stop hanging out with her. they are good friends really good friends nice and everything. its just they believe her over me. going with out friends is hard...i'll have no one to talk to..and i'll be very alone. i have no idea what to do.. should i stop being friends with her and lose all my friends...or should i keep being friends with her and let her walk all over me with her lies...HELP! plzzzz!!!!!!! (link)
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ok..well i think that it isn't the best thing that you stay friends with her. but instead of hanging out with her a lot start making it less and less untill u don't hang out at all. Just if he asks if you want to hangout, make up an excuse so you cn;t hang out with her like i have a big test to study for or i have an appointment. just try and make you and ehr less and less of friends without saying it to her face. as for your other friends, if they were really your friends then they wouldn't yell at you for doing somthing that is comfortable to you. just do what makes you happy and your freinds, if htey really are your freinds they will stick with you through it all!
Good luck
~Sealgirl~
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15/f
my boyfriends 16, and we've been dating like a year and three weeks and we started dating like the day after we met so everything is getting to the point where i'm really comfortable with him and everything. we don't really go on dates due to no money or rides because neither of us can drive and i'm fine with that so we just normally hang out at each others houses. he has only been to my house like 2 times and i go to his house like 2 or 3 times a week so i wanted to start inviting him to my house a little more often. it's just hard at my house because most days someones arguing and crap. anywayyyys my question is what are some fun things we can do that don't really cost much? or nice things i can do for him?
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you could alwasy go for walks which is fun cause u get to hold hands and jsut talk with eachother. or you could watch movies or somthign taht you both just enjoy. find somthing that you both love to do. maybe if you have them, play some video games. take random picture of eachother and then make something out of it. that would be kinda fun thing that you could do for him. or you could just sit and talk.and jsut cuddle with eachother. Good luck and hopefully you find some fun stuff to do.
~sealgirl~
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hi.
um im thinking about moving.
i live with my dad.
i have been since 5th grade.
[15 turning 16 now]
yeah i live in a really small town in mn and like my mom lives in a city 60 miles away in nd.
yeah.
um i cant live with my mom tho because she drives me insane but my sister said i could live with her. my mom, who has full custody over me, said that i would be able to live with my sister.
i dont know if i should move.
i hate it where i live now.
its so small and like everybody knows everything.
i have some friends where my mom lives and yeah..
if i lived with my sister i could get my license because im 15 and thats the age there and mn 16 yeah so that would be a plus but a thing holding me back here is that i golf. like im really good.
best in the confrence. and i just wonder if i'll still golf if i live with my sister because its my dad that usually takes me and gets everythign for that. and my dad has also said that if i move that he wont be in my life anymore. which im scared of. do you think hes just saying tht so i dont move? because he really loves me; and i dont think that he would just not want me in his life..
hmm.
please any advice would be nice. im just really confused.
i have about a month to think what i wanna do.
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Well if your not happy where your at and you have the chance to move, then i say go for it. as long as you and your sister will get along then i don't think you moving in with her would be a problem. as for golf, if you love to do it then no matter where you go, you should find a spot to go golfing at. and your school that you will move to might have a golf team. I think you will still do golf but you will have different experiments with it because you won't e usd to were you are at. And as for you dad, if he loves you, he won't just stop talking ot you. he most likly will still be in your life if you move. but if you decide to move, which i think is a good idea, then just sit him down and have a talk about this with him and explain your situation about what you think will be better and what you dont like where you are at. try to make him understand your point of view on moving. i am sure he will understand. well hopefully everything goes well and you make the right decision. so GOOD LUCK
~Sealgirl~
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I just got prescribed Yaz birth control. I need it for preventing pregnancy and to regulate my periods. My periods have been very irregular and I am extremely cautious when having sex. I took a test today and I am not pregnant. I just want to know what will happen if I start taking the pills before my period. The doctor told me she recommends me to start the Sunday after starting my period. Since I do not know when that will be, can I just start the pill anyway?
NOTE: I will still be using condoms to protect myself.
thank you
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I DON'T KNOW if you should start to take the pills. since they are irregular its kinda hard to tell. but the doctor said to take them after your period so i would wait. but if you are really wanting ot take them now, they just call your doctor up and ask them i am sure they will be willing to help you! Good luck and i hope it all works out!
~Sealgirl~
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I been friends with this girl for a little over a year now, and we've become pretty close to best friends since we met.
We tell each other pretty much everything.
I really started liking her after a while, but was always too scared to ask her out or anything.
Then one day, we were asking each other who we both liked, and I told her, and she told me she liked me too.
After that, we started dating, but she broke up with me after just 6 days, saying her mom wouldnt let her date because her grades werent high enough.
After that, we both seriously never talked about it again, at all...
That was last March.
She has now recently become like best friends with my other best friend, who Im really close with, and a few weeks ago, she was telling me that the girl I like, thought we were too good of friends to date.
It killed me inside, but it made sense.
She also told me that she liked another guy, one of my best guy friends. That just killed me even more.
So yesterday I was talking to her, and I told her she was beautiful, and all that stuff...
Today, I was talking to my best friend, and she told me that the girl I like, likes me too, and is waiting for me to ask her out, and that she said she would be happy with either me, or the other guy asking her out, which ever is first.
Now, I need to know..
Should I actually ask her out?
I like her more than Ive ever liked anyone before, and I dont think it would ruin out friendship or anything, because I think we both trust each other to never let anything like that get in the way of out friendship. (link)
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i would say just to go for it. i mean...if she doesn't like you then you can just continue being best friends...well that is if they don't get affected by this kind of stuff. but i mean..if htey are your best friend, i think they will just let it pass and contiue to be your best friend if they turn you down. But honestly..i think you should go for it! if you really like her then you totally should. its a 50 50 % chance that they will say yes..and with everything going on saying that she will be happy with anyone of you guys..then go for it..you got nothin to loose! Good Luck!
~Sealgirl~
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ok so there is this new guy who came in our class and he's really cute and nice. at first i thought he didnt like me but then we went on a classtrip thingy for a week and we got to know eachother and are sort of friends.
I'm a bit of a 'weirdo' in my class. i get along with everyone but i dont really have any close friends and hang out on my own more. so he talks to me when he get's the chance, like he talked to me a lot at a party last week and also asked me to sit next to him today. but the problem is that he's flirty with every girl. like he's always joking around with them and pokes them, always makes body contact etc.
and with me he's always quite serious unless I'M the one being joky, then he starts to be funny with me as well. like he was kind of making fun of me a bit in not a rude way or anything though so i kind of poked him and THEN he started to poke me back, but he only does it when hes sure. and i mean he talks to all the othe rgirls more than to me but WHEN he talks to me he seems to be a bit different. im not too sure if he likes me though because he is SO open so it kind of seems like he likes every girl.
so how can i get him to like me? it's ind of difficult to talk to him because hes alaways surrounded by girls and WHEN i talk to him we often get interrupted. :S (link)
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My opionion is that he likes you. He doesn't tlak as much to you because that he is neverous around your probally. He doesn't want to like joke around and stuff with you because he might think that you won't like it or somthing. and as for flirting with every other girl...he might just be a natural flirt..or that you like him so much you are just trying ot pick out things about him that you noticed and it jumped out at you and you thought bout it as a little overexagerated...but idk! i reall ythink that he likes you. and as for you guys being surrouned by girls..every other girl might like him too that is why they interupt you beecause they want a far shot with him! but asking you to sit by him..its just soo cute! i hope everything works out! Good luck
~Sealgirl~
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well there is this guy that i like and he really likes me. he just dumped his girlfriend (they were only casual--like a month a half?) and so hes going to wait a couple weeks but then hes going to ask me out and i just dont know if i should say yes or not. im afraid to get hurt again because this spring i had a truly terrible breakup. but i told him my deepest secret and he totally understood! so i feel much closer to him and like i can really trust him. i just started at a new school (tho i met him this summer) and moved here in june so i wasnt going to date anyone for a while but he is really nice and like a lot of things that i would want in a relationship. he says im the girl hes liked the most and he thinks hes ready for a long term relationship because thats what i want. but now i dont kno and im all nervous about dating. but everyone tells me to not just go off of one bad relationship and its true but still. i cant bear that pain again. please give me some advice and tell me what you think is best :)
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Getting dumped and getting hurt is all apart of your teenage life..it happens and there is nothin you can do to prevent it. excpet for not going out with someone. If you like the kid go for it. you will be happy once you do it! so i think that you should totally go out with him. he says he likes you so go for it. and bout being nervous...everyone is nervous. Its just apart of life but maybe a way not to be is jus think, you have done this before its nothin different. nothin to be nervous about. its all just general stuff that you should have no worrying about. just be yourself and i'm sure you will be fine! Good luck hoepfully it all works out!
~Sealgirl~
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ok, so within the past year 1/2 i've become best friends with this kid Chris. lately, we've been talking everyday on the comp. and every night on the phone. however, yesterday a girl from my school IMed me and asked me if i liked him because someone told her i did. but i told her i like him as a friend. . .then I told him what happened, and all he said was "oh"...but now he's been saying he has to go a lot, and he hasn't called me, and he gives me 1 word answers, or none at all. but he has a GIRLFRIEND who he does not talk about. so im not sure if he likes me or not. and it's been on my mind since it happened, so i don't know if i like him too.
but his friend (& my friend) likes me too...
maybe he feels awkward about it?
maybe i shouldn't have told him?
maybe he likes me?
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my oppion on this means that he likes you thats why he is actingall distant because he knows that you don't feel the same way bout him. and it might make him sad so he is tryign to stay away to not htink bout it. but knowing that he has a girlfriend makes it a little bit werid. and cahnges everything around. i still think he likes you and knowing that he doesn't tlak bout his gf much might mean that he might not like her that much or somthign like that. but things that are on your mind like this, kinda tell you somthing too. you might like him because you think about this sicne it happened but i dont' knwo whta to tell you. Just listen to yourself and do waht you think is best. but i honestly think tha he likes you and you scared him away. so i'm sorry if you lost a good friend to you. but all you need to do is talk to him and tell him waht is going on. GOod luck and hopefully everything works out.
~sealgirl~
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Okay, so in the song 6 minutes by The Jonas Brothers who is singing?
There's like to of them singing?
One with like a little tiny girly voice.
And one witha a normal-er voice.
Who was it that was singing? (link)
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i have that song..its old so nick jonas is teh girly voice..and joe is hte other one..kevin doesn't sing unless its background so u never hear him..so its always nick and joe!!
~Sealgirl~
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This kid and i have been on and off for a while. We've been through a lot and hes hurt me a lot. I dont know why i keep getting back together with him. He screwed me over once and promised me he wouldnt again and than he basically did. I sent him like two texts and he ignored them so i sent another saying it was over. he didnt say anything. This was 4 days ago, and he still hasn't said anything. We go to different schools so its kinda different. I don't know what to do. At first i was like "im over this" but now i misss him sooo much and i almost want to get back together but he doesnt treat me right. when we hang out hes amazing, but when it comes to calling and communication, he sucks. I dont know what to do! I know that relationships dont last forever and that i need to get over this sooner or later, but i dont want to. what should i do?! (link)
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i say that you should forget about him. If he doesn't treat you right or talk to you much then forget it, he isn't the right guy for you because it doesn't seem like he cares bout it. So get over him and find someone new. He isn't worth all your energy and time if he doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated. so good luck and hopefully it will work out without him!
~sealgirl~
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well i have this friend who is a total player and he can be a total jerk but i kissed him like 2 months ago when i first met him then i stopped talking to him but now we are friends again..anyway i want to makeout with him because hes a really good kisser and i have no one to kiss lol and it would be fun but i really dont want people to think im pathetic or something. is just making out with him gonna make people think that? at my school hes like a loser because of the girls we messes with and he USED to do drugs and parties and stuff but i would NEVER date him or anything. i just want to kiss him. what do you think? and please dont be mean!!! (link)
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Well that technacaly would just make you a player in a way. the thing is you just want to "hook up" with him and not go out. that isnt' a bad thing at all but it isn't nesecairly a good thing eaither. people might say a few things about you but really its no big deal. its what you want. so go for it. there really isn't problem with it. Just messsin around with people is normal for many so just do it and it will be fine...i think at least. But honestly...i don't think people will thing that you are pathetic..i really don't...So good luck and have fun!
~Sealgirl~
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Okay, since like ever I've always been the guys best friend. Theres been prettier girls then me, and thats who my friends go for. Most of my friends are guys. I've always been flat chested, like a board and it would sometimes bother me when someone pointed it out, but then i just realised-- Whatever.
Well over the summer I went from like nothing to a C. I don't honestly know how.. but I did. And my Mom also said that I got curves.. [embarrasing..] No one failed to notice the changes over the summer and its weird. because most girls went through this like in the 6th grade, and im going through it in the 8th but now all the 'friends' I have which are guys are diffrent around me. I'm really into sports, and we usto always play football, and Im not good at it but I can run. They catch up with me and Im dead.. and I dont care that they tackle me but some either tackle me to hard and claim I got hurt cuz "She has those huge tits to worry about now." or are way to soft. Yeh Ben actually said that to me and I was like =XX Im not into makeup, or skirts or any of that and they didnt care before... but now I guess there flirting with me. My only girl-friend Becky says that they all are- we can choose our seats this year and Im always at the guys table and they're always poking me, and love to make me scream from some reason. Its all diffrent, and it used to be okay to walk into a room full of guys where I knew they were my friends. But now they look down my shirt, compliment me constantly, which isnt so bad but i cant walk into the room without known There The Oppiset Sex. its weird.
I dont know how to make things go back the the way they were... =[
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I'm sorry to say this..but you can't change what has happened. Your body had changed and this is how the boys are being affected by it. i'm sry to say this..but boys like hot bodys and stuff. they apparentally think you have one because the way you are acting. the only real thing you can do is sit down and talk to htem all saying that you don't appreicate what they are doing and you want things back to the way they used to be but if they don't change, then they never will...its just the way they are..i'm sry. Good luck with everything
~Sealgirl~
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THIS IS GONNA BE LONG BUT PLAESE BARE WITH ME :)
So school started on Wednesday Sept. 3
And in my 6th period i found this guy -- the first time i saw him, i knew i wasnt gonna keep my eyes off of him. i swear he's my first CRUSH in high school..
The second day-- i was so excited to see him again, he is cute, has nice style, cute voice, i can tell he's a little shy cause when the teacher would call on him its like he wants to hide in his little shell. (HOW CUTTEEE) even though i dont know him, theres something about him that gets me attracted to him... i actually think he caught me staring at him!! haha first question, 1 IF HE CAUGHT ME STARING AT HIM, DOESNT THAT MEAN HE WAS LOOKING AT ME TOO?
The third day (which was yesterday) --
I wasnt really focused on him, but i did look and glance at him every 5 minutes or so . To tell da truth, I'm really intimidated .. well because, i dont know how to act! yea yea "BE YOURSELF!" but you know that feeling when you "like" someone and your shy and dont know what to do or HOW TO ACT round him? Yeaaaa, thats what i mean.
So 6th period ended and I WATCHED HIM WALK OUT THE DOOR. I wanted to see where he was going. I was trying no to seem obvious that i was stalking him (haha) but i did follow him. I pretended i was talking on the phone too . and then he stopped walking so, i KINDA stopped walking and pretended i was waiting for somebody.. but then i just went on and walked to my locker to get my book. i met up with my bestfriend in the locker and while we were walking, i was like "Duuuudeee, he's SOOO CUTE!!" and she was like "haha youve got to show me him someday" and as we were walking outside the hallway.... THERE HE WAS!!! he was talking to this dude.. umm probably 20 feet away from me and my bestfriend. i was like "OMG there he is!" but he was turned around so we couldnt see his face so we pretended we were gonna get something in the student store (he was near the student store) and turned around and tried to see his face..
Then i asked my friend if we could just stalk him for a while.. so we were following around faking that we were gonna get something here and there and then all of a sudden i saw him walking with this chinese girl (no not his type, a lil chubby..) and they were talking .. i was telling my friend "omg go away girl go away girl!!!" and we kept on laughing and then the girl who was about 15 feet in front us TURNED AROUND AND SAID "Hey! He wants to meet you guys! He's just shy!!" at that moment my heart just stopped beating.. i swear i was like ohhh myy gooodd.. its like that moment and i couldnt stop smiling!! my friend and i didnt know what to do, cause i dont wanna be the one who comes up to the guy you know? im a girl!
So he ran to the stairs cuz i guess he WAS shy & of course, a little embarrased!! ----
Second question:
Do you think the chinese girl was serious, and when they were conversating, they were talking about me and my friend? Or was she just talking to him, got pissed off at something he said and decided to embarrass him by saying "Hey!! he wants..." by saying that?
Third question:
If the chinese girl was serious, Do you think he wants to meet ME? since i have him in one of my classes, and he doesnt know my friend, isnt it most likely that he wants to "meet me"? or is it ... me and my friend? i dont know why.. maybe he think.. were pretty? idk. OOORRRRR do you think he just wants to meet MY FRIEND?!? (THAT WOULD GET ME MAD.) But heres the one that i want!! -->
Do you think he wants to meet ME? since i have him in one of my classes, he obviously at least KNOWS ME ; doesnt know my friend, most likely he wants to meet me riiighhtt.
Goshh.. from this tory. whats da deal? what should i do on monday when i see him again? i dont wanna be the one who acts like THE GUY -- i mean COME UP TO HIM, ASK HIM QUESTIONS, SMILE AT HIM, you know-- all those things guys do to get at girls. i dont wanna say i want to be "hard-to-get" but i really dont wanna be the first one to start everything with this guy. but I HAAVE THIS HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE CRUSH ON HIM. i cannnnooot stop thinking about him. this morning i woke up, and thought about him in my bed for about an hour. i couldnt stop rewinding what happened yesterday after school i am currently looking for his myspace right now and CANNOT FIND IT. im not despearate... i just wanna get to know this guy cause obviously.. yeah.. i guess i LIKE HIM.
so im asking you all three CONFUSION QUESTIONS AND PLEASE.. answer the best way you can. it would really help me a lot..
please add some advice, example: what you think this guy thinks of me, what should i do on monday, how should i act, should i smile at him, talk to him after school, etc.
add everything you can!! im suuuuper confuused.. i cannot stop thinking bout this situation.
Thanks a lot.
p.s. he's the first guy i liked in 2 years. yes-- the last guy i had this big crush on was in 7th grade.
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Wow..sounds like your havein a fun time in high school. ok..so my opinion is that you really need to get up the curage to talk to him and "be the guy" because if you don't, he might loose interest or think that you aren't interested in him. so ifi were you, i talk to him soon. and it really doesn't matter who talks first or goes up to eachother. it isn't nessecairly the guys job. if you are interested the go for it. i think the guy actually likes you, or is interested in you. i really don't think that the chinese girl would just make that up. but he probally ran away cause he was of course shy and embarassed. As for how you should act on mondaay...just be yourself. Smile be happy and just be yourself. Don't push anything tho. But yeah..i really think he wants to meet you and get to know you more..so good luck..
~Sealgirl~
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there used to be a disney original movie i think call once upon a star ? it was like when the two sisters get switched in the others bodies. it was like a 13 year old and a 16 year old i think ? but i have been wondering what it has been forever !! (link)
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omg..that was such an amazing movie..but they don't play it anymore..its called wish upon a star!! but it was great...u can buy the movie on like ebay or smthing..or a disney website thing...its out there..i love that movie! :D
~sealgirl~
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ok so i've been friends with this girl for 2 and a half years and we're really close and i've liked her for about that long too i've waited for my chance but everytime i would try someone would beat my to the punch and the same thing would happen everytime they'd end up cheating on her she always dates older guys which i think is stupid because they're more likely to cheat really anyways well she's been dating this one guy for about a year now and back in november they broke up and so and i told her how i felt about her but she was still unsure because she still had feelings for her ex so then about 3 weeks later they're back together and i was sad i didn't talk to her for about 7 months because i never saw but then finally i got to see her and surprisingly she was more friendlier than usual she gave me more attention than usual we run cross country together and she always wants me to run with her and one she texted me which she never does and then one she IMed me which she never does so i'm wondering did she miss me does hse have feelings for me o and she's still with that guy though too but is she finally starting to like me? (link)
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well its kinda hard to tell. you see, once you tell a girl that you are really good friends with that you like them, they usually get all scared and don't talk to you anymore ecause they just want to be friends. but your friend here seems like she is trying to get closer to you. so i would say that she likes you. But not over thetop liking because she is still with that guy. but i mean, if she just watned to stay friends then she would have been acting normal but if she is doing things she doesn't normally do... then it seems as if she wants to be with you and talk with you. she most likly misses you and wants to be frieds with you too. well as the time being, beecause of her boyfriend. but i bet if you give it time, seh will come around and fall for you. Well good luck with her! and i hope everything works out great.
~sealgirl~
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Alright, so I'm 14 and I REALLY want a nose ring, but my mom won't let me get one =(
Does anyone know anyway I could get even more on her good side and convince her to let me get one? (link)
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Well i got my nose ring and my mom let me do it but it was my dad with the problem. i had to convince him so much to jsut let me do it. just let your mom know that if you take good care of it, nothin bad will come out of it. and that she can trust you with anything. show her how grateful you are for her being around and just e really nice to her but don't annoy her about it or hse will just getangry and won't let you do it. just be really nice and sweet! and don't get into any trouble! Good luck and i hope you get one! i love mine :D
~sealgirl~
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i feel like i have the worsest problem to deal with. it is because my mom is going out with someone i hate and not benefiting us. i feel like things that i want to go right doesnt go right. everyone makes me feel irritated about myself. (link)
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the only thing you can do is talk to your mom and tell her the truth. She doesn't know what is happening and i think that she might want ot know. Just tell your mom that you don't think this guy is right for her and i do'nt approve of him. and tell her waht is going on in life so she can do her best to make it better. communication and telling the truth are two very important things that family needs. i wish you good luck and hopefully everyting works out ok! contact me if you need anything else!
~sealgirl~
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Where can I find like a GORGEOUS homecomming dress?
Nothing like Macy's, Carson's, or Sears.
Something that no one else will have.
I want a short one not a long one ideas?
Also, if their are sites can you give me the DIRECT LINK, not what to type in on google.
thanks a bunch! (link)
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Deb has some pretty nice dresses but other people might have them. sorry to say. but they are really cute and lots of them are very short. teh website that you can go to to look at them is debshops.com and i'm pretty sure they will have some cute ones...good luck!
~Sealgirl~
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so, i recently got a puppy who i absolutly LOVE! she's my first dog, she's a german shepherd mix and she's so hyperactive! we've got a problem though. we also have a cat, she's the complete opposite of my dog. she's calm, lazy, and almost always grumpy. she's always staring at the dog, and if i get them close to eachother she starts to hiss and the dog gets scared. there's been several times when she's attacked the poor puppy. i'm scared the cat might really hurt the puppy one day. i love them both and hate having to put them in different rooms just so they won't kill eachother. my cat's around 7 or 8yrs and the dog is 4 months i believe. help? i've gotten scratched up pretty bad by the cat whenever i break up the fight. she's just so stubborn..
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Well waht you might have to do is put them in the same room together and watch them and if it starts to get bad then take them away and keep doing this untill they actually know that it is ok to be around eachother. They will eventually warm up to eachother but you have to give them time and let them know that it is ok. you have to make sure the cat knows the dog wont' hurt her. so try picking up the cat and holding it infront of the dog and letting the cat know that the dog won't do nothing. just experiemnt with it and make sure the animals know they wont' get hurt but when u r gone you might need to split them up so nothin happens but when they are together, always keep an eye on them! Good luck!
~sealgirl~
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