Question Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 7:43 pm
I been friends with this girl for a little over a year now, and we've become pretty close to best friends since we met.
We tell each other pretty much everything.
I really started liking her after a while, but was always too scared to ask her out or anything.
Then one day, we were asking each other who we both liked, and I told her, and she told me she liked me too.
After that, we started dating, but she broke up with me after just 6 days, saying her mom wouldnt let her date because her grades werent high enough.
After that, we both seriously never talked about it again, at all...
That was last March.
She has now recently become like best friends with my other best friend, who Im really close with, and a few weeks ago, she was telling me that the girl I like, thought we were too good of friends to date.
It killed me inside, but it made sense.
She also told me that she liked another guy, one of my best guy friends. That just killed me even more.
So yesterday I was talking to her, and I told her she was beautiful, and all that stuff...
Today, I was talking to my best friend, and she told me that the girl I like, likes me too, and is waiting for me to ask her out, and that she said she would be happy with either me, or the other guy asking her out, which ever is first.
Now, I need to know..
Should I actually ask her out?
I like her more than Ive ever liked anyone before, and I dont think it would ruin out friendship or anything, because I think we both trust each other to never let anything like that get in the way of out friendship.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sealgirl07 answered Wednesday September 17 2008, 4:32 pm: i would say just to go for it. i mean...if she doesn't like you then you can just continue being best friends...well that is if they don't get affected by this kind of stuff. but i mean..if htey are your best friend, i think they will just let it pass and contiue to be your best friend if they turn you down. But honestly..i think you should go for it! if you really like her then you totally should. its a 50 50 % chance that they will say yes..and with everything going on saying that she will be happy with anyone of you guys..then go for it..you got nothin to loose! Good Luck!
LagunaBabe answered Wednesday September 17 2008, 10:50 am: Usually, I would say, "Go for it!" However, in this case, I'm a little weary because she likes your best friend, which could potentially get in the way. If you can handle that and know that she could end up leaving you for your best friend, then I do say, "Go for it!" Otherwise, I wouldn't chance it. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
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