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Nervous About Dating
well there is this guy that i like and he really likes me. he just dumped his girlfriend (they were only casual--like a month a half?) and so hes going to wait a couple weeks but then hes going to ask me out and i just dont know if i should say yes or not. im afraid to get hurt again because this spring i had a truly terrible breakup. but i told him my deepest secret and he totally understood! so i feel much closer to him and like i can really trust him. i just started at a new school (tho i met him this summer) and moved here in june so i wasnt going to date anyone for a while but he is really nice and like a lot of things that i would want in a relationship. he says im the girl hes liked the most and he thinks hes ready for a long term relationship because thats what i want. but now i dont kno and im all nervous about dating. but everyone tells me to not just go off of one bad relationship and its true but still. i cant bear that pain again. please give me some advice and tell me what you think is best :)
thanks so much!!
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Getting dumped and getting hurt is all apart of your teenage life..it happens and there is nothin you can do to prevent it. excpet for not going out with someone. If you like the kid go for it. you will be happy once you do it! so i think that you should totally go out with him. he says he likes you so go for it. and bout being nervous...everyone is nervous. Its just apart of life but maybe a way not to be is jus think, you have done this before its nothin different. nothin to be nervous about. its all just general stuff that you should have no worrying about. just be yourself and i'm sure you will be fine! Good luck hoepfully it all works out!
~Sealgirl~
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life's too short to not date him. just because you had an ugly past break-up doesn't mean that you should be scared of dating again! i'll use an analogy since i've never really had a boyfriend. in middle school, i got into an ugly fight with three of my good friends because of a stupid miscommunication. ever since then, i can't trust anyone. but you shouldn't be like me. GIVE IN to him! every relationship ends (well most.) and so you should just date him if you like him and he likes you. you can only live once, you know
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