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Wanna Kiss Him..
well i have this friend who is a total player and he can be a total jerk but i kissed him like 2 months ago when i first met him then i stopped talking to him but now we are friends again..anyway i want to makeout with him because hes a really good kisser and i have no one to kiss lol and it would be fun but i really dont want people to think im pathetic or something. is just making out with him gonna make people think that? at my school hes like a loser because of the girls we messes with and he USED to do drugs and parties and stuff but i would NEVER date him or anything. i just want to kiss him. what do you think? and please dont be mean!!!
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Well that technacaly would just make you a player in a way. the thing is you just want to "hook up" with him and not go out. that isnt' a bad thing at all but it isn't nesecairly a good thing eaither. people might say a few things about you but really its no big deal. its what you want. so go for it. there really isn't problem with it. Just messsin around with people is normal for many so just do it and it will be fine...i think at least. But honestly...i don't think people will thing that you are pathetic..i really don't...So good luck and have fun!
~Sealgirl~
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That would make you no better than he is seen. People would view you as a player or worse. Then again it's not about what they think of you but what you think of yourself and whether this feels right or wrong. If you have any doubts about doing it than don't.
In my opinion it's best to establish a relationship with someone first and rules about cheating and then get into a healthy situation with kissing and intimacy. Remember if he played a lot of girls that this may not be a good idea as someone will get hurt if not cautious. That someone is likely to be you.
Also, you should try for a relationship and give him the benefit of the doubt. If you're ready to make out with someone whenever you feel like it than there's not much difference in becoming boyfriend and girlfriend and having a solid reputation and free of all potential situations for rumors.
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