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i am going into my sophmore year in high school. i am 15 years old. I am very interested in the theatre program at my high school i was in the two plays last year at my school behind stage and someday on the stage. When i get out of high school I plan on going to collage and want to be eaither some kind of nurse or a marinebiologist. I love the marine animals.
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Location: South Lyon MI.
Age: 15
Member Since: August 3, 2007
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My boyfriend is pretty much amazing - most of the time! i cheer for the highschool football team so i dont get to talk to him. but after the game he doesnt talk to me & ignores me when i try to talk to him! he said that he waves but no one saw him! his dad hates me so i dont get to even stand next to him in public i dont know what to do- i feel like he needs to stand up to his dad or somthing. i mean its been 9 months since we started dating its just rediculous. (link)
Your boyfriend should go and talk to his dad. This is not a way that anyone should be treated.
It should not matter what that parents think about you is what he feels about you and no one should be able to change his mind. You should go to your boyfriend or call him and talk to him and tell him how your are feeling.


I haven't had any longterm relationships but in 2 of my relationships I've cheated on the guy I was with. Last winter I cheated on someone and I told him how sorry I felt and then just broke it off with him and I've talked to him like twice since. And this summer I was with someone and I ended up deciding I didn't like him and then I cheated on him twice..with two different guys and broke up with him right afterward without telling him I cheated on him. I feel soooo horrible. I had been drinking all three times but there's no way I can give up drinking. I have been drinking a lot less lately but I'm just worried about my future. What if I cheat on my husband and it ruins my family and I have to have a messy divorce and screw up my kids?? Am I always going to be a cheater, even though I feel absolutely horrible?????? (link)
i can't really tell you what to do. But no one can realylanswer this question,its for you to answer.You will have to ask yourself and listen to your heart. If you truely feel that bad then why do you do it over and over again? Also think is the drinking the problem you have with the cheating it could be telling you things in your mind and have control of it.


my son got black permanent marker on my new ashley table its i believe its natural wood i payed 1,200 for it better be (link)
usually wheni get permanent marker on something i take hairspray and spray it and let it sit fora minute then rub it and it comes off.


Does anyone know the name of this song?

"I will go down with this ship
I won't put my hands up
And surrender, there will
Be no white flag above
My door, I'm in love and
always will be" (link)
The name of the song is White Flag. The person that sings this is Dido.


have you ever had a friend that's told you they've kept something from you for a long time and that they're afraid of telling you what it is because they're afraid your gonna look at them differently and not be they're friends anymore..then you ask them what it was but they don't say anything.. what would you tell them, or do in this situation??? just need some advice from other people.... thankz * Skyla * (link)
If your friend thinks that you won't be your friend anymore because of this, then thats not what a true friend should think. You should tell that person that it will be okay whatever it is i will still be your friend not matter what it should not matter what happens this is probly something that your friend needs help with and it would be nice if you told that person that you will help them and get through it no matter what it is and you will always be there friend.
Good luck!


Ok I don't know why but for the last 3 periods, the pain just keep getting worse and mroe worse each time.

I know it's already supposed to hurt but recently, when the next period comes, the pain is 2 times worse!

It hurts so bad that I cried! I feel like I have a baby or something!

Is this normal? (link)
It might not be normal or it could be i would ask to go to the doctor but untill then when you are on it you could take ibuprofen it keeps cramps to samll pain or it helps.


15/f
anyone have any really good myspace backgounds....i dont like those bland boring ones that just have poka dots or lines and patterns on them...also i dont want like a boyish one, or like too cutsy, hah its really hard to find one i like pleasseee help (link)
You might have tried this but i am not sure. Go to www.google.com and type it mysapce layouts and it will come up with a lot of pages and check them out some are pretty sweet.


Heyy

Im a girl, 15
I keep tryin to shave my pubic hair BUt I always get red bumps or stubble or it hasnt shaved or i get little scars

Grrr i cant get it right

Ive tried waxing, but thats too painful and all the wax got stuck there o"o and wouldnt wash off for a day =/

Ive tried new razors, bluntish ones , shaving along the hair [downwards] , shaving against hair growth [upwards towards my stomach]

And I cant afford an electirc razor, if tha would work.. I am willing to pay anything up to £10, but not over thanx

Im sick of not getting it right....../=[

And when i think I do get it almost right, its still really prickly and rough ..


any suggestions ?


tyyy xxx
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You could try nair. It works well and youwill get stubble but not if you keep useing it it stays gone for a couple days then you will have to do it again.


i just got back from camp so i missed the last two episodes of "Greek"
Is there anywhere i can watch them? (link)
Go onto www.abcfamily.com then go under whats hot and click greek veiw site then once you get there at top of page click episode guid and once you get there pick your episode and you can read about what happend but you can't watch it. I would tell you what happend but i don't watch the show sorry. Sorry i wasn't much help.



Yeah so I'm like the only one in my grade who thinks Corbin Bleu is hott and stuff. I'm in 8th grade. Everyone thinks he's a fag, and yeah I'll admit he does kinda act gay but I'm still in love with him. Do you guys think he's hott/gay? I wanna see if I'm like the only one my age who's obsessed with him! Haha. (link)
I don't think that he is gay where did they get that from. I think that he is a hottie. And it should not matter what your friends think its what you think about him.


I have a little bit of light-colored hair on my upper lip. However, it's enough so it's noticable. So, I'm planning on using that NAIR facial hari removal stuff. So, i'm wondinerg - has anyone ever used it for the purpose of upper lip hair removal? is it effective? for how long? etc. i've never used Any kind of NAIR, so im not sure what to expect.. (link)
Sometimes if you use nair your hair will grow back darker and thicker. But when you use it, it does not work for long periods of time what i would to is bleach the hair you can get a little kit at CVS or some place. If you don't want this hair to be noticable then i would not bleach it it could grow in darker and thicker and then it would be more noticable.


At the begining of the school year last year , there was a guy in my Spanish class. Gradually we became really close friends, and the more I hung out with him, the more I relized that I really liked him. At both of my best friends pressuring, I told him that I liked him.

How I told him is that I wrote a note telling him. I know it was very childish to do so but I am happy now that I did not tell him in person.

His response to me telleing him was that 'He would never consider being more than friends with a black person.' His words exactly, then after a few days of me fuming and wanting to kill him, he says that he only said that to spare my feelings. He said that he really did not like me the way I liked him, but I think he was lying. Now I feel a little uncomfortable around him, should I tell him how I feel about him now? Or should I leave well enough alone. I'll take any advice. I am an African American female, and he is a white male.
We have currenlty (well he believes we have) settled down and are now still good friends, although I am not sure that the hurt I feel will ever go away, and I am not sure that our friendship can last. I thought he was a very nice guy, and besides what he said he has been a very good friend to me.

My friend thought that by saying he does not like black people, he would hurt my feelings less than if he said he did not like me. I find this very stupid, andhe should have said he just does not like me, and like a stated before, i think he lied about that because he only said it when I said I did not want to be friends with him anymore.. Even now, long after the sutuation 'ended' I still don't feel as comfortable around him as I used to. Please help. He has been a really good friend to me, I'm just not sure if I can stay friends with him.

((I've asked this question before. I did not get many answers though.)) (link)
i think that you should tell this person how you feel those bad feelings now that you have can only get worse and not better. It was really wrong to say what he did but that is the way some people are you should tell this person everything you feel about it. If you don't want to be friends with a person that says things like that i don't blame you but there is a you can try and fix this relationship as friends. Talk it out.


i am going to see these guys tomorrow the first time since like two/three weeks and i am soo excited! but my friend is going to be there too and whenever i am with them and she is there she judges me and i don't want her to. i just want to have fun with them and do what I want. how can i make this happen without dealing wiht my friend judgeing me? (link)
Your friend does not seem like a friend t ome good friends don't judge people like that. You might want to talk to her and tell her that you don't really like being juged like that and if you don't like the way i am i am sorry i am not going to change it for you. I don't think you shoulld change who you are for that sake of someone else i will only make matters worse because if you chane one thing then they will want more things change. You could also try and not go everywhere with that friend that does that to you. I don't feel that, that is a very good friendship. They should not treat you this way.


my best friend lives across the street and we have carpooled to school every day since kindergarten. now we're in middle school and we're allowed to get to school an hour early if we want, to hang out in the cafeteria and talk to friends. I love doing that, but my friend isn't very sociable and she refuses to go early. Our moms are fine with driving us separately, but my friend is all mad at me now for "breaking the tradition" and not riding to school together. but going early is like the only chance we get in school to hang out with friends. what should i do? (link)
You could intoduce her to some of your other friend to make her like them more and become more sociable and will like to come with you to school early. If that dose not work then maybe you should take turns on going early to school so somedays you could go to school with you and others not.


how to find my girlfiends myspcepassword (link)
You don't really need her password. You shouldn't if you really need it then you should ask them for it. You would not be a very good frien if you went and changed somthing personal or somthing it would be like back stabbing.


my dad is really nice to me and everything and he does alot for me but when my sister or mom get him mad he takes it out on me...what should i do? how do i get him to stop? please don't say talk to him cause i already tried that and he said he wasn't taking his anger out on me. thanks. (link)
If you want to avoid him that is one way but it could turn out to take it out on you whenever you see him. But you could try and talking to your mom or sister and have them talk to him and they can tell your dad how you feel if he is not listen to you you could try that. Tell me how it goes.




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