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my dad...
my dad is really nice to me and everything and he does alot for me but when my sister or mom get him mad he takes it out on me...what should i do? how do i get him to stop? please don't say talk to him cause i already tried that and he said he wasn't taking his anger out on me. thanks.
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I'm familiar with this problem actually, and the best thing to do is try your best to get away from your dad when you are aware he's angry. Go in your room, call someone, go to a friends house maybe.
Your dad loves you, and I'm sure you know this, and it's definitely not right for him to be angry at you for something else that's happened.
If there are times when you have to deal with your dad's anger, it's better to just go along and say,"I'm really sorry you're angry" and just try not to trigger his anger more by yelling back if he yells. I think eventually he'll understand that your not part of the reason he's mad, and maybe that won't happen. But do your best to just be quiet and distant when he's angry.
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whenever he's mad, you should just stay away from him and try not to talk to him or ask him for any favors.
if you have to be in a room with him for some reason while he's mad, try not to talk to him unless he asks you a question, and don't do anything whatsoever to make him mad, even the smallest thing. also, to make sure he doesnt get mad at you, you should like open the door for him or whatever and do him favors to make sure that he CAN'T get mad at you.
if that doesn't work, then you should tell your mom about it and tell her to tell him about it, or like while he's taking it out on you tell him really softly and nicely and be like "you're kinda taking it out on me cause you're in a bad mood and mad about something..." and act kinda scared so he'll know what you're thinking.
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If you want to avoid him that is one way but it could turn out to take it out on you whenever you see him. But you could try and talking to your mom or sister and have them talk to him and they can tell your dad how you feel if he is not listen to you you could try that. Tell me how it goes.
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When youre dad gets mad at you just leave him alone and dont talk to him. Just give him some time to cool off and pretty soon he will be fine. Just stay in youre room or away from him so then he cant take it out on you, somtimes people need their privacy.
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