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Im confused about this guy -- READ MORE.
THIS IS GONNA BE LONG BUT PLAESE BARE WITH ME :)
So school started on Wednesday Sept. 3
And in my 6th period i found this guy -- the first time i saw him, i knew i wasnt gonna keep my eyes off of him. i swear he's my first CRUSH in high school..
The second day-- i was so excited to see him again, he is cute, has nice style, cute voice, i can tell he's a little shy cause when the teacher would call on him its like he wants to hide in his little shell. (HOW CUTTEEE) even though i dont know him, theres something about him that gets me attracted to him... i actually think he caught me staring at him!! haha first question, 1 IF HE CAUGHT ME STARING AT HIM, DOESNT THAT MEAN HE WAS LOOKING AT ME TOO?
The third day (which was yesterday) --
I wasnt really focused on him, but i did look and glance at him every 5 minutes or so . To tell da truth, I'm really intimidated .. well because, i dont know how to act! yea yea "BE YOURSELF!" but you know that feeling when you "like" someone and your shy and dont know what to do or HOW TO ACT round him? Yeaaaa, thats what i mean.
So 6th period ended and I WATCHED HIM WALK OUT THE DOOR. I wanted to see where he was going. I was trying no to seem obvious that i was stalking him (haha) but i did follow him. I pretended i was talking on the phone too . and then he stopped walking so, i KINDA stopped walking and pretended i was waiting for somebody.. but then i just went on and walked to my locker to get my book. i met up with my bestfriend in the locker and while we were walking, i was like "Duuuudeee, he's SOOO CUTE!!" and she was like "haha youve got to show me him someday" and as we were walking outside the hallway.... THERE HE WAS!!! he was talking to this dude.. umm probably 20 feet away from me and my bestfriend. i was like "OMG there he is!" but he was turned around so we couldnt see his face so we pretended we were gonna get something in the student store (he was near the student store) and turned around and tried to see his face..
Then i asked my friend if we could just stalk him for a while.. so we were following around faking that we were gonna get something here and there and then all of a sudden i saw him walking with this chinese girl (no not his type, a lil chubby..) and they were talking .. i was telling my friend "omg go away girl go away girl!!!" and we kept on laughing and then the girl who was about 15 feet in front us TURNED AROUND AND SAID "Hey! He wants to meet you guys! He's just shy!!" at that moment my heart just stopped beating.. i swear i was like ohhh myy gooodd.. its like that moment and i couldnt stop smiling!! my friend and i didnt know what to do, cause i dont wanna be the one who comes up to the guy you know? im a girl!
So he ran to the stairs cuz i guess he WAS shy & of course, a little embarrased!! ----
Second question:
Do you think the chinese girl was serious, and when they were conversating, they were talking about me and my friend? Or was she just talking to him, got pissed off at something he said and decided to embarrass him by saying "Hey!! he wants..." by saying that?
Third question:
If the chinese girl was serious, Do you think he wants to meet ME? since i have him in one of my classes, and he doesnt know my friend, isnt it most likely that he wants to "meet me"? or is it ... me and my friend? i dont know why.. maybe he think.. were pretty? idk. OOORRRRR do you think he just wants to meet MY FRIEND?!? (THAT WOULD GET ME MAD.) But heres the one that i want!! -->
Do you think he wants to meet ME? since i have him in one of my classes, he obviously at least KNOWS ME ; doesnt know my friend, most likely he wants to meet me riiighhtt.
Goshh.. from this tory. whats da deal? what should i do on monday when i see him again? i dont wanna be the one who acts like THE GUY -- i mean COME UP TO HIM, ASK HIM QUESTIONS, SMILE AT HIM, you know-- all those things guys do to get at girls. i dont wanna say i want to be "hard-to-get" but i really dont wanna be the first one to start everything with this guy. but I HAAVE THIS HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE CRUSH ON HIM. i cannnnooot stop thinking about him. this morning i woke up, and thought about him in my bed for about an hour. i couldnt stop rewinding what happened yesterday after school i am currently looking for his myspace right now and CANNOT FIND IT. im not despearate... i just wanna get to know this guy cause obviously.. yeah.. i guess i LIKE HIM.
so im asking you all three CONFUSION QUESTIONS AND PLEASE.. answer the best way you can. it would really help me a lot..
please add some advice, example: what you think this guy thinks of me, what should i do on monday, how should i act, should i smile at him, talk to him after school, etc.
add everything you can!! im suuuuper confuused.. i cannot stop thinking bout this situation.
Thanks a lot.
p.s. he's the first guy i liked in 2 years. yes-- the last guy i had this big crush on was in 7th grade.
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Wow..sounds like your havein a fun time in high school. ok..so my opinion is that you really need to get up the curage to talk to him and "be the guy" because if you don't, he might loose interest or think that you aren't interested in him. so ifi were you, i talk to him soon. and it really doesn't matter who talks first or goes up to eachother. it isn't nessecairly the guys job. if you are interested the go for it. i think the guy actually likes you, or is interested in you. i really don't think that the chinese girl would just make that up. but he probally ran away cause he was of course shy and embarassed. As for how you should act on mondaay...just be yourself. Smile be happy and just be yourself. Don't push anything tho. But yeah..i really think he wants to meet you and get to know you more..so good luck..
~Sealgirl~
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First I'll answer your specific questions and then I'll try to add advice that I can.
1. Not necessarily. I mean it definitely means that he looked at you, but not necessarily that he was "looking". I know when someone is staring at me, I can almost feel it. So I'll glance back to see who it is and what they may want.
2. I think that it is very possible that the girl was serious. I doubt that she was saying or doing that to make him mad. My guess is that they were talking and you all passed and the conversation turned to the two of you. There is no true way of knowing without asking him or the girl that was talking to him.
3. I'm not sure who he really wants to meet. I'm with you. I would have to say that since you are in class with him (and if he caught you staring) he wants to know more about you. For what reasons however, I couldn't say.
Now for the advice. I used to think like you do. I never wanted to be the first to 'conversate' with the guy. However..through the years I've learned that if you let that opportunity pass, you may never get it again. You have a big crush on him, right? Then talk to him. You don't have to ask him out, but just small talk. Hell if you have to, start with "Can I borrow a pencil". Atleast then you've let him know that you noticed him. Of ALL the people in the class, you asked HIM. If you truly don't want to talk to him, then make it a point to talk to the girl who said he was interested. Atleast then you can find out what of it was true or not.
Bottom line though..he's shy. Odds are, no matter how much he wants to, he's not going to make the first move. You have to decide which is more important to you: having him make the first move or being proactive and taking it upon yourself.
I hope that I helped atleast a little. Let me know how things go and if you "get the guy" =)
Good luck!
<3 Leslie
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