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Okay, I met a guy some time back and we are school mates. I'm 16, female. We started off as teasing each other from time to time but now we are really good friends. My palms do not go sweaty when I see him, nor does my heart palpitate as fast as a train. Although when he was absent from school I was pretty concerned.
Is this a sign? I hope not. I need to focus on my studies. And I don't get emotional over him.
So, any advice?
I wish i could one hundred percent say, yes or no you don't like this guy, but i can't. Friends get semi-concerned when another friend is gone from school. And since you don't want to get emotional over him, then don't. Just stay friends. Try not to tease each other in any flirty manner. If your heart beats faster and you get all sweaty, then reconsider your feelings. Until then, enjoy having a great friend, no worries. Best of luck! :)
I'm really obsessed with this girl and i really not sure what to do, i know she doesn't like me but i know i still have hope, shes a friend and once in while we hug but i want to get in a relationship. I know its love cause i think of her all the time, sometimes at night i make up stories of her and me. I even cry sometimes... I'm asking please if you people could help me make her interested in me, i know i cant MAKE her like me, i believe that too, please tell me what girls really like and i also would like to make her interested in me without other people noticing what I'm doing... PLEASE HELP!!!
The best thing to do is take baby steps. Just be friends first, then one day ask if she wants to go get lunch. Get to know her, find out her likes and dislikes. Get her something just because it made you think of her. Girls tend to usually fall for there guy friends because they trust them and can tell them anything. Flowers, gifts just because. I really hope things work out for you, take things slow, be yourself!
So I've avoided the leather jacket trend-and I was wondering if anyone knows whats on trend for spring/summer 2013?
Any advice thanks in advance
So i tried to do a bit of research i posted a few sites that may help.
Hope this works for you! :D
http://www.stylebistro.com/Spring+2013's+Biggest+Runway+Fashion+Trends/articles/nP-VcuYpVye/Spring+2013+Runway+Trend+Gold+Eveningwear
Hi there Katie,
Someone brought your bio info to my attention, and I thought I would write to see if I can help you.
Please inbox me (DangerNerd):
http://www.advicenators.com/question.php?u=16820
... and tell me about your old username.
I will see what I can do to work out restoring access to your previous account.
Once we get that done, I will merge this account's contents into your previous account so you won't lose any effort you have put in here. :-)
Thanks, and welcome back!
DN.
Hey thank you so much for your help!! My accounts are now merged perfectly! :)
Katie
Me and my boyfriend has sex he had a condom on while it was on before we started my nail rubbed against the condom could this tear it ?
If the condom is out of the package, and your fingernail is sharp or long enough, yes it could possibly. Don't freak out to much it is still possible it didn't. If it did such a small tear may not cause any effects.
i love to boys one of them is a old friend of mine nd he loves nd cares for me the other one i know goes to my school im attending know he just likes me to get head if u know what i mean i love them both but the second one we went out before but were just know i think sex buddies can you please give me advice i need asstiance.... i am a famale 19 yrs old
Go for the first one for sure! The best thing for a long lasting relationship is for your boyfriend to be like a best friend. Someone you can talk to about almost anything. That cares about you and RESPECTS you. Your heart may be a little confused right now, but you need to lead your heart with your head. Use them both! (if that makes sense)haha. If you already are telling us the second guy isn't exactly prince charming...then you probably deep down know the answer. Take some time, write pros and cons if you need to. Look at yourself down the line with them both. Do whats best for you :)
Best of luck!
Well I have a weird way to express myself. I will either dance or sing. So my question is: Would it be weird to sing or dance to my crush to express my feelings?? I'm 13 btw and im a girl
I think that is so artistic and cute! I am sure he would love it. It really depends on the guy but make sure you do it in private to make it more special! Or an adorable idea if you are up for it, try writing a song of your own or a poem and give it to him in a note or letter. That way he can cherish it forever :)
Best of luck!
I went through a divorce, lost my home, lost my job, and declared bankruptcy in the last year. I am 57 and feel totally hopeless. I am on medication but I don't think it is helping. I am suicidal but haven't act ed on it. Deep down I know I don't want to die; I just want the pain to stop.!! Any suggestions please?
I think the others had some really great advice, i guess i would just like to add to it. If you don't think the medication is working, try something different. Asking for help is one of the bravest things anyone can do! I know this may be an obvious thing to say but try to get a new job, even one that you like. Stay close to any friends and family that you have. With there love you may see things more clearly.Its a new year and anything is possible when you set your mind to it. Never give up hope.
Wishing you the best of luck,
Katie
I get so jealous when my best friend talks to this one specific person. That person is my best friend from school. She doesn't know my best friend like I do and I get jealous when they talk. My best friend knows i get jealous and sometimes i start to think she does things on purpose to make me jealous. I know it is hard for my best friend ans I hate it when I'm like this. But I can't help it.
Your not the only person that feels this way. Some people are very protective of friends and best friends. I also get this way with my two best friends (that don't know each other very well) start to hit it off and start making plans without me, ect. The best thing you can do is talk to your friend about your jealousy. Everyone can use more friends! Maybe start all hanging out together! Everyone gets jealous, the best thing for it, is to figure out the best way to overcome it! Best of luck!
Hi. I have been goin out with my boyfriend for like 6 months now, but I dunno wat to do that will kinda turn him on but yeh he kisses my neck, squeazes my bum n shizz, but like I wanna give him something but not SEX, something that gonna turn him on, I love him really but just wanna give him a little pleasure without acto sex xxxxx n I'm 15, sooo if u know anything I could do to make him horny while making out or something please help
Let me just start off by saying at age 15 im glad your making the decision not to have sex. But, to answer your question. Try to be a little aggressive, make out with him, bite his neck, some people like there hair played with. When your kissing sit on his lap with one leg on each side, with your hands playing with his hair. He will go crazy for sure!
Remember if he loves you, you can do anything and he will be happy!
Have fun and be safe! :)
So I like this guy and I think that he likes me back but I'm 16 and he is 18 about to turn 19. I have never dated an older guy before so I don't know if that is weird or not. We know each other pretty well. I was a freshman and he was a senior last year. He is really cute and nice and I really like him but I don't know if the age difference is weird or not. Is it?
Love is love. The age difference may seem a little odd now, but imagine if you were 20 and he is 22. People now a days make age such a big deal, but it is just a number, and the older a couple gets, the less age matters. If you like him and he likes you, GO FOR IT! :) Best of luck!
Why do girls use the word Love so much?
Im friends with a bunch of girls and they always use it. Im good friends with them but do they like me or sumthin? Its also really akward becuase i dont use it unless its actuall love,
Well not all girls do this. but i'm a girl and i ONLY say it when i really mean it to the person i'm dating. or girls will say it to their friends. becuz love isnt just for a guy to say to a girl when their dating. love is willing to do anything for someone. so it doesnt nesacarly mean they like you.
so dont feel awkward, i think its great your saving the meaning of love, for when you really mean it...not many people do that anymore.
Kt
I'm dating this guy and we've been together for about 2 weeks but known eachother for a long time. We had sex and we talk a lot. We've told eachother we loved eachother, but he never calls me anything sweet like baby or etc. Does that mean he doesn't really love me all to much??
SOrry if its long.
well i cant really anwser for 100% accuracy because i dont know this guy. but if you two shared this experiance and said "i love you" i would assume he would mean it. just because a guy doesnt call you baby or babe,etc. doesnt mean he doesnt love, guys are all diffrent and soem dont feel right calling a girl by those names. i wouldnt worry about it. but if you really are, just talk to him and ask him why he never says that...i'm sure he'll anwser with complete honesty...
KT
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okay,.... I got this old friend that I were like full in love with him once
Now I am single and I happen to find him very atractive but I don't want to go too fast ,...
help me ,..I really want to start something with him but how to go slow ,..what to say and how to act ????
the best way to act, is to be yourself, you never want to start or be in a relationship when the other person doesnt know the real you, including the good things and the flaws you have. its best just to tell this guy how you feel and when you two start going out. tell him that you want to go slow, i'm sure if you tell him he'll completely understand. telling him in person would be the best way to go, when you 2 are alone....if he doesnt understand or accept how you feel then hes not the right guy for you, and thats ok...becuase the important part is finding someone who will understand and acept you for exactly who you are, and when you do...you'll be glad you found him :)
best of luck, hope i helped
KT
13/f
From your guys's/girl's point of view, how do you tell if its really LOVE you feel or just REALLY REALLY Like?
Like, how do I know the difference coz i'm curious.. and curious when and how to say "i love you" and how do I/you know that i MEAN it?
well first of all, your 13...love is a VERY powerful word, its meaning you'd jump in front of a car or a bullet for this person. you think about them all the time and you cant get them out of your head.
you'll know when your REALLY in love...its an amazing feeling, and this feeling only usually is real when the perons you love, loves you back.
the best way to say it is when you 2 are alone somewhere usually quiet and its kinda like in the movies when the 2 of you are lookign into each others eyes and you say it very quietly and in a 'gentle' tone...
but i'm sorry this isnt the exact anwser you wanted but you will really know..when you'll do ANYTHING for this person and you couldnt imagine life with out them...thats love...and you'll know when it happens....probably when your older...
hope i helped
Kt
so, theres this boy i like a lot and we might even date. but the pronlem is that all the relationships i've been in before weren't that serious, maybe a hug or a kiss sometimes but not much really. and now that im older im kinda worried because i know when your older and in a relashionship you make out or go further, and i've always worrid about that kinda stuff. i really want to do this stuff but im scared ill mess up and embaress myself, help!!!!
breath hun, breath. its ok. your age isnt posted but i assure you theirs nothing to worry about. kissing and such isnt something you practice and get good at. you get good by just doing it. and if u do "mess up" then that guy should understand and like you for you and not how well you kiss and such. if he does then hes not the right guy for you, you deserve better. just make sure when and if you ever do somethings like that, that you do it when your comfortable. if he tries making a move and your not comfortable, then tell him, he should understand, and if not, again hes not the right guy for you. hope i helped, let me know if you need anything else
good luck
~katie~
I feel like I can't attract guys... I want a boyfriend so badly but I do not want to be the person who asks the guy out. I don't want to be chasing the boys, I want the boys to come to me! But everytime I see I guy i like, I'm friendly, funny and happy. But they either just think of me as a friend or they just think i'm being nice and they forget about me in a little while.
I don't want to flirt or give out any hints. I want to be completely normal(as if I was talking to my best friend.) but how do I get guys to be attracted to me? Or at least think about me when I'm not there.
Like what can I do to make guys notice me more and stand out?
15/f
i wont lie and say i know alot in the "guy department" but sometimes you do have to give little hints and flirt. if you dont then their never gonna know that your intrested as more then a friend. and sometimes it doesnt work out, but thats ok, your only 15, no big rush. but i do agree that you should be yourself, "normal as you said" but without those little hints or fliry ways then the guys wont know that you even want to be more then a friend...so try being yourself but also giving some hints..things may change..
need anymore help let me kno!
~katie~
i have a boyfriend and we use to talk like all the tyme but now we bearly talk and i still want to go with him but it just doesnt seem right....but i just wish we talked like we used to and everything was solved
wat do u think i should do
Well i use to have this problem alot cuz my ex-boyfriend lives in Ohio, and i live in Michigan. but anyways you should really try talking to him about how your feeling. it may sound cheesy but really...guys can be really weird but i bet if you talk to him things will soon go back to normal. you can always try thinking of what you use to talk about and try talking bout them again.
best of luck!
~Katie~
can you wear grey skinnie jeans with brown ugg boots...
yea..but it would match way better if you wore a brown top w/it...just letting you know.
I know theres a site where you can actually have ringtones sent to your phone for free, does anyone know it?
I rate.
www.phonezoo.com
u just got to fill out some info.but its a really good site