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making out :[
so, theres this boy i like a lot and we might even date. but the pronlem is that all the relationships i've been in before weren't that serious, maybe a hug or a kiss sometimes but not much really. and now that im older im kinda worried because i know when your older and in a relashionship you make out or go further, and i've always worrid about that kinda stuff. i really want to do this stuff but im scared ill mess up and embaress myself, help!!!!
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You cant mess up because theres no right way to do it. And if he cant handle a mistake, hes not worth it anyways
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hey, i wouldnt be scared, you just dont do anything you arent comfortable with. if you guys really click, maybe someday down the road you will do something more, but its completely up to you. dont worry about anything, it all comes naturally and as long as you wait to do things until you are totally ready, there is nothing to worry about :)
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if he likes you enough to want to go out with you, then he respects you and accepts your concerns. don't be fearful of the future, but know what you want out of a relationship and what you're ready for. if you trust him, then know that he won't push you to a point where you're not comfortable with. just go with the flow and let that time come on its own, and you know what, everyone starts somewhere so you're definitely not alone on being scared!
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breath hun, breath. its ok. your age isnt posted but i assure you theirs nothing to worry about. kissing and such isnt something you practice and get good at. you get good by just doing it. and if u do "mess up" then that guy should understand and like you for you and not how well you kiss and such. if he does then hes not the right guy for you, you deserve better. just make sure when and if you ever do somethings like that, that you do it when your comfortable. if he tries making a move and your not comfortable, then tell him, he should understand, and if not, again hes not the right guy for you. hope i helped, let me know if you need anything else
good luck
~katie~
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