orphans answered Saturday December 15 2007, 1:58 pm: your soulmate is the guy/girl, that you are blown away by. You want to spend every second with them, and miss them when they are not with you. You love them, and they love you. Who is your soul mate? Only you can know.
Soulmate (or soul mate) is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, sexuality, and/or compatibility.
A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one's soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join.
WittyUsernameHere answered Saturday December 15 2007, 1:18 pm: There is no such thing as a soul mate. Love and life don't work that way.
At any given point in your life, there are people you are compatible with and capable of falling in love with.
Now, you may not meet all these people in the course of your life. Most people might only know one or two people whom they are really, really compatible with at any given time. But they are the ones you have to keep your eye out for, the ones who think like you think and who you are just as good for.
The reason love is special, is that when it comes to a life partner you get to choose. The fact that it isnt fate, that you get to pick a person and say "I choose to spend my life with you" is to me more meaningful than anything like soulmates or fate. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
missbananafontana answered Saturday December 15 2007, 12:17 pm: Well, no one besides yourself can tell you who your soulmate is. Your soulmate is someone who you have a deep and natural affinity with, as a basic meaning. There are many definitions for soulmate:
Soul lovers: someone you love, and would do anything for, and someone who loves you, and would do anything for you. And in that love, nothing is required for either person, because everything is already given. You love them more than anything in the world and could not live without them.
Soul brother/sister: someone belonging in the same soul group as you and therefore having an unusually strong bond and likeness to you
Spiritual and religious: concepts of reincarnation and karma. Soulmates have spent many previous lifetimes together
Twin flame soulmate: A popular romantic belief that there is only one true soulmate.
Balance partners and messengers: The people you meet along the way who help you create balance in your life.
Scientific soulmate: If a relationship can be quantified, and scored according to an internal happiness scale. A scientific soulmate is the person with whom you are the absolute happiest. You would therefore be less happy with any other person in existence.
If you believe in that stuff, you just sort of know when you meet your soulmate. You don't expect it, but when it happens, it happens unannounced, but you just know it.
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