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I need advice quick
Hi. I have been goin out with my boyfriend for like 6 months now, but I dunno wat to do that will kinda turn him on but yeh he kisses my neck, squeazes my bum n shizz, but like I wanna give him something but not SEX, something that gonna turn him on, I love him really but just wanna give him a little pleasure without acto sex xxxxx n I'm 15, sooo if u know anything I could do to make him horny while making out or something please help <3xxxxxxx
Thank u <3
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Hiya mate! Well, half a year's a long enough time to have built up a good deal of trust and knowledge in each other. But you're not ready to commit to full sex yet? That's absolutely fine. Have a think about how much you're comfortable with. You might like to allow him to stroke you intimately between your legs. Outside, with just the tips of his fingers? That way you'll get to know about your own responses and he'll learn too. You decide the cut-off point, agree that beforehand. If that's giving you a 'no way!' response right now, that's OK. Try it if or when it sounds good. Not until. Of course, us blokes get aroused just being around a girl we really fancy. Putting it bluntly, well...we get a pretty urgent 'hard-on' from time to time! Possibly you might like the idea of making him come, using your hands? Usually called a 'hand-job' or something similar. It's a neat way of relieving all that tension that builds up when your being intimate. We do feel a strong urge to come and it can be mad frustrating for us blokes when we don't get to do it. But I'm going to make a VERY important point here. YOU have to feel happy about doing it and actually want to, or NO SHOW! It's not his, or any other boyfriend's right! If these ideas are appealing to you then it's pretty common and natural behaviour at your age. Which can help a young couple really 'bond' and enjoy a more adult level relationship, without the perils, pressures and anxieties of full sex. You sound firmly assured that this isn't an option yet, and that should prevent things running away with you, if you see what I mean. But stay focussed, things can get a bit heated! If your thinking 'OK...but still not for me YET' then carry on with the kissing, cuddling and less intimate caressing until such time that you want to go a little further. That's fun too. Right, as in everything else means 'right for YOU'. Hope I've been a little help. Best wishes.
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I agree, it is really good that you are deciding not to have sex yet. The only problem is that if you get too crazy it is going to be harder to resist! The other advice was good, sitting on his lap straddling him will definitely turn him on, especially if you kind of grind your hips down into him in a circular motion. I have found they like it when you run your fingers through their hair. You could also put your hands under his shirt in the back and lightly scratch. You can bite his lip softly while kissing, or moan a little. I hope this helps but be careful!
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Let me just start off by saying at age 15 im glad your making the decision not to have sex. But, to answer your question. Try to be a little aggressive, make out with him, bite his neck, some people like there hair played with. When your kissing sit on his lap with one leg on each side, with your hands playing with his hair. He will go crazy for sure!
Remember if he loves you, you can do anything and he will be happy!
Have fun and be safe! :)
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