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choosing between two boys
i love to boys one of them is a old friend of mine nd he loves nd cares for me the other one i know goes to my school im attending know he just likes me to get head if u know what i mean i love them both but the second one we went out before but were just know i think sex buddies can you please give me advice i need asstiance.... i am a famale 19 yrs old
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You should pick the first one. Being bestfriend always makes for a loving, caring, and more fun relationship. I'm dating my bestfriend and i dont ever want to let him go he treats so right and really cares. That you already said he loves and cares for you is awesome and shows he is the better choice since the other one is just your sex buddy. That'll never get anywhere and prob lead to him cheating on you later in life. Your best friend would never do that and since you guys already have a strobg best friend relationship your love life will be great! :D Goodluck!!
Your friend,
Lenore
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Go for the first one for sure! The best thing for a long lasting relationship is for your boyfriend to be like a best friend. Someone you can talk to about almost anything. That cares about you and RESPECTS you. Your heart may be a little confused right now, but you need to lead your heart with your head. Use them both! (if that makes sense)haha. If you already are telling us the second guy isn't exactly prince charming...then you probably deep down know the answer. Take some time, write pros and cons if you need to. Look at yourself down the line with them both. Do whats best for you :)
Best of luck!
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haha, i think we know which one is the keeper here ;). we all accept the love we think we deserve! that is a quote from a book called "the perks of being a wallflower".. i don't think i need to tell you which one you should choose, you know the truth inside your heart and your only fooling yourself if you think that you don't.
namaste my friend,
amber
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sweetie.. you cant love 2 people at d same time.. if you would have loved d 1st.. d 2nd guy wouldn't be the in d picture.. ask yourself what do you want or precisely whom do you want.. I think you should stay away 4m d guy with whom you are sex buddies. I think it wont last cause may b he is just using you.. N about dis friend.. well you wouldn't want 2 screw up your friendship with him.. would you ?? I'd suggest get away from both of them.. Others r waiting :) just make sure you stay happy with whomever you are..
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I would start fresh if you are looking for a real relationship. The friends with benefits guy probably will not work because you both have a history of being fuck buddies with boundaries. Therefore, Try someone fresh out of the sea.
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