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attracting guys!
I feel like I can't attract guys... I want a boyfriend so badly but I do not want to be the person who asks the guy out. I don't want to be chasing the boys, I want the boys to come to me! But everytime I see I guy i like, I'm friendly, funny and happy. But they either just think of me as a friend or they just think i'm being nice and they forget about me in a little while.
I don't want to flirt or give out any hints. I want to be completely normal(as if I was talking to my best friend.) but how do I get guys to be attracted to me? Or at least think about me when I'm not there.
Like what can I do to make guys notice me more and stand out?
15/f
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dude, let me just put it this way........the more desperate you are for a boyfriend, the longer it will seem until you get one.
DO NOT BE SO WANTING OF ONE. just act normal, continue to be funny, happy, whatever you are and one will come along sooner or later. honestly, guy friends are the best to have. boyfriends are too much drama.
it's kinda like christmas...the more you want christmas day to come, the longer the days go by and then it's over in an instant.
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i wont lie and say i know alot in the "guy department" but sometimes you do have to give little hints and flirt. if you dont then their never gonna know that your intrested as more then a friend. and sometimes it doesnt work out, but thats ok, your only 15, no big rush. but i do agree that you should be yourself, "normal as you said" but without those little hints or fliry ways then the guys wont know that you even want to be more then a friend...so try being yourself but also giving some hints..things may change..
need anymore help let me kno!
~katie~
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