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Starting a relationship with this boyyy.
Ok so I'm 15/f, not for long though cuz in a week i'll be 16 :D But the thing is, I've never been kissed, or even had a real boyfriend, and I'm sick of it.
so anyway, I like this kid, kevin. He's in one of my classes, but I only see him 3 times a week because he and I have bio labs on different days.
Now, maybe I'm just getting my hopes up too high, but he seems kinda interested. My best friend is in that class with me too, and she kinda likes kevin's friend. Soo, one day my best friend and I got to sit next to each other, and kevin, his friend, and a couple other guys they talk to came over and sat right behind us, when there were all these other seats in the room. Then, the other day we had a substitute and got to do whatever, and all of a sudden kevin was sitting right behind me. Of course I got up and went over to my best friend since there were no other seats near me though for her to sit. ANd today in class, out of my like, peripheal vision (not sure if i spelled that right) I could see him either looking at me, my best friend (NOO!) or out the window. It was like this.. (the windows) (my best friend) (me) (empty seat) (him). And one time he bumped into my arm, I don't know if it was purposely or not though. See i don't know. It's just little things like that. So he's kinda shy.
The thing that sucks though, is I'm really shy too. At this rate, I don't know how I'll start a relationship with him. I want this to finally happen, I don't want to lose my chance if he actually does like me..
Soo my question is. How do I start a relationship with him?! Howww. Ah. I added him on facebook, but I don't think he goes on a lot, he never accepted me. I don't want our relationship to be online though, because that happened to me in the past but didn't work out too well. I want him to be my boyfriend. But how?!? lol end of storyyy! thanks so much :]
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Yeah you're right, cyber relationships can become a sticky situation, so you're better off talking with him in person. And being shy is not a bad thing, you both have something in common! Woo-hoo! That's a plus, and maybe you guys could open up to one another and become less shy. It also seems to me like he IS trying to get your attention, so make the fist move, say a simple, "Hey, what's up?" and try to sit next to him in class, I'm pretty sure your best friend wouldn't mind. Also, Make sure you try extra hard to make conversation with him, it shows, but please PLEASE don't act ditzy, because girls do that all the time to get boys attention, and the truth is...IT DOESN'T WORK! (not that I am implying you would, just saying) Just talk to him and be yourself.
I hope a budding romance is about to bloom for you two!
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Yeah that is a tough situation since he is shy as well. Also, your best friend likes him a little too. If you really want to find out if he likes you or not then you need to gain a little confidence and go up to him. Don't let this go on like it is. Nowadays girls have to make the first move to make things happen. Guys like confidence in girls.
Just find something to talk to him about or ask him a question about the class. If he adds you as a friend on facebook send him a message or a wall post and make conversation so you have something to talk about in person. You don't have to have an online relationship with him but it helps warm up the converstation in person.
Anyways, bottom line girl is to just get your courage up and show him that you are interesting and that he should get to know you.
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