Gender: Female
Age: 18
Member Since: December 12, 2007
Answers: 14
Last Update: April 15, 2008
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so my boyfriend i wanna do it,but it is both his and mine first time.we wanna know how it will feel and also what to expect afterwards? (link)
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First off make sure you're really ready. You may not think it's a big deal but it's a huge deal. Find a comfortable spot like a bed (you wouldn't want your first time to be in a car). My boyfriend and I were really nervous but we did it missionary and he put it in really slowly. It hurts really bad the first time and you may bleed a little. Just keep going with it. If it hurts too bad take a break and then try again in a few minutes.
good luck!
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I will be attending college in the fall. I am looking for some cheap alternatives to decorate my room (everything is so expensive) I am looking for lots of cute ideas for my wall/ door etc. We aren't allowed to paint the walls or anything and I can't nail anything to the wall.. I have to use that sticky poster hanging stuff.. I want it to be super personalized but even posters are like $15-$20 a pop.
Any ideas for a girls dorm are totally appriciated
(I am super girly, outgoing, bubbly, loves dancing, gymnastics, cheerleading and sports, and lots of color) (link)
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I bought cheap large picture frames/poster frames and made huge colages from old magazines and ticket stubs and album covers. I hung them up with those sticky hooks. It made my room really personalized.
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my bff and i are really tight but there is one problem..
i never know what to get her for christmas!! i want to get her something personal, but not home-made. or maybe more than one thing.
please give all suggestions. i have about 35 dollars to spend if that helps. (link)
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You could make her a collage and frame it or get her a sterling silver necklace with her initials in it (those are usually about $30) or a ring with her initial in it. I always love things like that. Or you could get her something for her room like a picture holder that goes on her wall. Or a polo or a movie she likes on DVD. I sometimes make my friends CDs with music that they like.
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Not too big on rap .. but what are some REALLY good rap songs that sound like Tech N9ne's Carribou Lou
Not songs that are played on the radio (link)
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Haha I love that song. Well, I usually download things from Lil' Wayne or Young Jeezy. I don't know many songs that sound like that but you could try Savage- Hips Swing, Lil' Wayne- My Daddy, Project Pat- Good Googly Moogly, Gucci Mane- Pillz, Lil Boosie- Swerve part 2, etc. Any of these are good songs that aren't played on the radio.
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13/f
what can i get my bf for christmas? im going shopping tomorrow and then otherwise i cant get it to him until school starts again.
btw he likes ice hockey and biking...
any suggestion will help..thanks!:) (link)
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Get him something he'll use everyday. Like a hat or some nice sunglasses or even cologne. I usually get my boyfriend a nice polo or some cologne and he always appreciates it.
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16 f.
I always get good grades. Last semester my GPA was a 1.67 & I'm a junior! In 9th n 10th grade I got 3.2, 3.5. I switched schools and my grades & learning got twisted! Did I really ruin my chances into getting into a good university? I'm so depressed! :-( (link)
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Don't beat yourself up. You switched schools and I can understand how that would mess up your learning. You had to get used to all new teachers and you had to focus on other things that come with switching schools. You've learned your lesson and you have 3 more semesters to help your overall GPA. Honestly, your GPA isn't the most important thing. It's your ACT and SAT scores. I am a freshman in college and I had to go through the whole applying for college thing and if you show the colleges you brought your grades up and you made a decent score on your SAT you won't have a problem getting into a University.
Good luck and just study a lot next semester.
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Ok so I'm 15/f, not for long though cuz in a week i'll be 16 :D But the thing is, I've never been kissed, or even had a real boyfriend, and I'm sick of it.
so anyway, I like this kid, kevin. He's in one of my classes, but I only see him 3 times a week because he and I have bio labs on different days.
Now, maybe I'm just getting my hopes up too high, but he seems kinda interested. My best friend is in that class with me too, and she kinda likes kevin's friend. Soo, one day my best friend and I got to sit next to each other, and kevin, his friend, and a couple other guys they talk to came over and sat right behind us, when there were all these other seats in the room. Then, the other day we had a substitute and got to do whatever, and all of a sudden kevin was sitting right behind me. Of course I got up and went over to my best friend since there were no other seats near me though for her to sit. ANd today in class, out of my like, peripheal vision (not sure if i spelled that right) I could see him either looking at me, my best friend (NOO!) or out the window. It was like this.. (the windows) (my best friend) (me) (empty seat) (him). And one time he bumped into my arm, I don't know if it was purposely or not though. See i don't know. It's just little things like that. So he's kinda shy.
The thing that sucks though, is I'm really shy too. At this rate, I don't know how I'll start a relationship with him. I want this to finally happen, I don't want to lose my chance if he actually does like me..
Soo my question is. How do I start a relationship with him?! Howww. Ah. I added him on facebook, but I don't think he goes on a lot, he never accepted me. I don't want our relationship to be online though, because that happened to me in the past but didn't work out too well. I want him to be my boyfriend. But how?!? lol end of storyyy! thanks so much :] (link)
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Yeah that is a tough situation since he is shy as well. Also, your best friend likes him a little too. If you really want to find out if he likes you or not then you need to gain a little confidence and go up to him. Don't let this go on like it is. Nowadays girls have to make the first move to make things happen. Guys like confidence in girls.
Just find something to talk to him about or ask him a question about the class. If he adds you as a friend on facebook send him a message or a wall post and make conversation so you have something to talk about in person. You don't have to have an online relationship with him but it helps warm up the converstation in person.
Anyways, bottom line girl is to just get your courage up and show him that you are interesting and that he should get to know you.
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theres this boy that i like and he likes me too. the problem is we never see each other. i dont want to be pushy and i know i cant invite him. hes really flirtatious so he'll make pretend plans for us. how do i get him to be serious because i want to see him (link)
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Honestly, if he is making these "pretend" plans he is not very serious. He may just be leading you on. Don't get caught in the middle of this and end up getting hurt. I wouldn't waste my time. But if you are intent on getting him to settle down with you then I would say to him "if you aren't going to be serious with me then I'm moving on". If he really likes you then he'll make the time to see you.
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I'm sixteen-female
I'm so lonely lately, I honestly dont know how to put myself out there, I dont know how to meet guys. I dont know what to do. There is a guy I like, but I dont know if he even likes me, we dont even know each other formally. I went into where he works, and we had a mini conversation that included a lot of smiles. But really I cant tell from that. I plan on going back to that store, just to see if I can talk to him, but I'll be "buying" something, so I can talk to him.
Anyways, the point is,
I dont know how to tell if a guy likes you,
I dont even know if that guy I like up there has a girlfriend. I'm sick of being by myself. (link)
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When I was 16 I definately felt the same way that you are feeling now.
Once I quit worrying about what others thought of me and focused on myself then I became a lot happier and that showed. Do something that boosts your confidence like go and buy a hot new outfit or new make-up. Once you realize that you are beautiful and that you can get any guy you want,then you will have guys all over you. Just wake up and say "today I'm going to talk to some guys and be confortable about it".
With the guy that you like, you definately have the right idea. Go back to the store and casually bump into him. Act confident and he will notice it. Guys love what the can't have. So act like you're not that interested in him but don't feel nervous to flirt a little and ask him a few questions.
P.S. If things don't work out with this guy...it's not the end of the world. Realize that you don't need to settle for anything less than your perfect guy. The guy that persues you is worth going after because he is really interested in you.
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i know this guy adam and hes absolutly gorgeous! but hes a jock, and im just one of those people that is like bff's with everyone you know? but hes the kind of jock that will only like girls who are blond, and i have pitch black hair! and he likes cheerleaders and he talkes to me sometimes, but thats only if i go and talk to someone who is near him you know? and he just talks to me about random stuff like " whats on your phone" i know he dosent like me cause hes always flirting with this other girl. but today, i saw him looking at my a couple times, but he may have just been looking at something behind me or something else close to me.
i dont even know what im asking lol. im so sorry. i just dont know what to do about this, cause i really like him. but i need to know how to get him to notice me more, and how to get him to like me a little bit. (link)
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Well I've been there plenty of times. But in the end if he's not in to me I don't waste my time. I want a guy that's going to persue me and give me the respect that I really deserve. If he's off flirting with other girls then he's prob. not that into you. I personally wouldn't waste my time or change my self image to make this guy like me, he's obviously not worth it.
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alright so im going to a party this weekend and everyones drinking and i wannna too. dont get me wrong im not being peer pressured into it, but the thing is i don't really want to be flat out drunk cause i dont know what im gonna do when im like that because i've never been drunk before and the hangover? i've never experienced any of that before. so the thing is, how can i just get a little tipsy? how much should i drink to get like that? im 22/f 135 pounds 5'4" thanks so much. (link)
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Okay well since you have never been drunk before I would definately take it easy. There's a first time for everything but I would definately do it with people that you trust because you don't know how you will act once you do start drinking. I think you would prob. get tipsy after about 2 beers. Don't do liquor your first time. Trust me. Don't. Anyways have fun.
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um sometimes i feel so ugly and not worth anything....how can i believe tht im beautiful when inever have bfs or anything.....and the only person tht made me feel incredible likes my best friend and hes was talking obut makingout with her so wat should i do i want feel beautiful (link)
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I remember feeling like that most of the time when I was younger in middle and high school. I thought that the most important thing was to have a boyfriend because that would actually make me feel beautiful. You are beautiful. You don't need to worry what others think of you and worry about what you think of yourself. Once I became happy with my self image I realized I was beautiful and others then began realizing it. Take on some hobbies like a sport or take a modeling class. Things that will make you feel successful and you can focus most of your time towards. It will help boost your confidence. Don't worry you will grow into yourself but right now don't focus too much on what other's think.
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ok i have a friend her name is stephanie and we're in 7th grade.
i dont really know why but sometimes when she gets mad at me she'll take it out by pinching me or hitting me
should i dump her? (link)
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7th grade was a really tough year for me and a lot of other girls I was friends with. Your friend may just be going through a hard time and doesn't have any other way to take out her frustrations. If she keeps on doing this you may just want to confront her about it. If she does it for no reason then I would definately seperate myself from her. There's no point in putting up with that if she doesn't have a reason for doing it.
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They say if you stop looking for love, it will find you. How do you do this? I currently like this guy that I know i will never be with. Therefore, I want to stop liking him/looking for love. What do I do? By purposely avoiding looking for love am I doing something wrong? (link)
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I have wasted a lot of time looking for someone and worrying about what guys thought of me. Just to sit back and relax may not work right away but I was so much happier not worrying about guys for a while and letting them come to me. That's how it should be in the first place. If a guy makes the first move and persues you then he's worth going after because that shows a lot about him. Raise your standards because every girl deserves a guy who goes after her and makes her feel special. Don't settle for anything less, it's a waste of time.
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