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stupid sayings


Question Posted Wednesday December 12 2007, 4:31 pm

They say if you stop looking for love, it will find you. How do you do this? I currently like this guy that I know i will never be with. Therefore, I want to stop liking him/looking for love. What do I do? By purposely avoiding looking for love am I doing something wrong?

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jca71289 answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 7:57 pm:
I have wasted a lot of time looking for someone and worrying about what guys thought of me. Just to sit back and relax may not work right away but I was so much happier not worrying about guys for a while and letting them come to me. That's how it should be in the first place. If a guy makes the first move and persues you then he's worth going after because that shows a lot about him. Raise your standards because every girl deserves a guy who goes after her and makes her feel special. Don't settle for anything less, it's a waste of time.

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thelaura answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 7:40 pm:
I like this saying.
Don't go out looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend. Just do things as you normally would and one day, you will meet someone when you least expect it. That's what it basically means.
P.S, if you 100% know you will never be with him, move on. and within time, you'll find someone who will want to be with you.

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sunset356 answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 7:33 pm:
Just don't look for a boyfriend, and don't look for anyone to like/love. when you walk around school or wherever, act like a whole bunch of guys like you, but you don't like them back. and just focus on having fun with friends.

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ADDiCT3DTOHiMx answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 7:28 pm:
Just don't think about it. Love will come when you least expect it. For example, I was dating a kid, but I wasn't very happy. I just kinda let it go, and stayed with him. All of the sudden, I fell for my best friend who I never thought I would like. And we are still dating (: So when you stop being so obsessed with trying to find a boyfriend or trying to get someone you like, love just comes at you. You'll be surprised, trust me.

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