Question Posted Wednesday December 12 2007, 7:22 pm
i know this guy adam and hes absolutly gorgeous! but hes a jock, and im just one of those people that is like bff's with everyone you know? but hes the kind of jock that will only like girls who are blond, and i have pitch black hair! and he likes cheerleaders and he talkes to me sometimes, but thats only if i go and talk to someone who is near him you know? and he just talks to me about random stuff like " whats on your phone" i know he dosent like me cause hes always flirting with this other girl. but today, i saw him looking at my a couple times, but he may have just been looking at something behind me or something else close to me.
i dont even know what im asking lol. im so sorry. i just dont know what to do about this, cause i really like him. but i need to know how to get him to notice me more, and how to get him to like me a little bit.
omgitzabbyx3 answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 9:41 pm: It's hard to tell if he's flirting with that other girl because he likes the other girl OR if he's trying to make you jealous. Just start flirting with him a lot, too. Joke around with him, smile at him, make him laugh. Make it clear to him that there could be something going on between you and that you're interested. If he sees that you might have a thing for him and he goes for it, then you might start something.
But if it doesn't work, just understand that it's okay and don't turn into the girls he likes. I'm sure he doesn't have a favorite type of girl because of their hair color. If that's true then he's shallow and it's just a waste of time.
jca71289 answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 8:20 pm: Well I've been there plenty of times. But in the end if he's not in to me I don't waste my time. I want a guy that's going to persue me and give me the respect that I really deserve. If he's off flirting with other girls then he's prob. not that into you. I personally wouldn't waste my time or change my self image to make this guy like me, he's obviously not worth it. [ jca71289's advice column | Ask jca71289 A Question ]
onlyinyourdream answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 8:18 pm: wow.... my friend clarity has black hair and like sa guy named adam... i am sure she feels the same way
well... my advice it to NEVER change yourself for a guy... show him how fun you really can be,
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