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dumping my friend
ok i have a friend her name is stephanie and we're in 7th grade.
i dont really know why but sometimes when she gets mad at me she'll take it out by pinching me or hitting me
should i dump her?
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Nobody can make that decision for you, you need to talk to her about it, and tell her that you dont like it. If she understands, then just be aware that she might have to adjust for a few more fights, and remind her. But keep your cool, and if weeks or however long go by, and no results, you should make it more clear to her... tell her that you do not know how much longer you can go on like this. Hope it all works out!!!
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It all depends. If you guys are only friends you should tell her not to hit you. If you are close ask her why she hits you or just hit her back.
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Before you dump her as a friend, tell her to
knock it off or you're gonna bust her one!
Friends don't come easily, and if shes been
your friend for a while, it might be worth it
to just make her stop.
It is probably a habit she picked up somewhere.
Just let her know you don't like it and you will retaliate if she does it ever again. :)
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7th grade was a really tough year for me and a lot of other girls I was friends with. Your friend may just be going through a hard time and doesn't have any other way to take out her frustrations. If she keeps on doing this you may just want to confront her about it. If she does it for no reason then I would definately seperate myself from her. There's no point in putting up with that if she doesn't have a reason for doing it.
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No real friend hits another.
If you don't want to lose her, give her an ultimatum. Either she stops abusing you, or your friendship is over. Hear her out first. She may be having a few problems.. and she's taking it out on you without really knowing it's hurting you physically and mentally.
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