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how do you get rid of shyness at first?
so my boyfriend i wanna do it,but it is both his and mine first time.we wanna know how it will feel and also what to expect afterwards?
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aw i think thats really cute that you guys are eachothers first time. i wish that happend to me.
since this is your first time, make it something you two will never forget.
for you it might hurt a little bit, so when it does just let your boyfriend know and tell him to slow down some. also, make sure hes wearing a condom. thats a must (:
if you guys are comfortable with eachother, then the afterwards part wont be anything akward or anything, so dont worry. just cuddle when you get done; its great.
i think you should set the mood and have the lights dimmed and have candles and such around the room. it will get you in the moment and you will love it.
also, make sure to have fun! (:
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make sure that you both are really ready, and by ready i mean that you guys have talked everything over. how it's going to make you feel, and how he needs to be gentle. how you need to use protection & make sure you have discussed consequences such as pregnancy & stds.
talk about how sex isn't going to be your entire relationship.
once you guys have discussed everything, then the sex won't be awkward. & if it is awkward, then you guys aren't ready to be having sex.
your first time is painful, very, very painful for the girl. and more than likely if it's his first time, then he isn't going to be able to last very long & all you are mainly going to feel is pain, and lots of it.
but eventually the pain fades.
the sex should be enjoyable because that is the closest you are ever going to be to that person no matter what.
make sure he is the one person you want to do this with, before you do it.
because once you do, you can't take it back.
good luck
:)
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First off make sure you're really ready. You may not think it's a big deal but it's a huge deal. Find a comfortable spot like a bed (you wouldn't want your first time to be in a car). My boyfriend and I were really nervous but we did it missionary and he put it in really slowly. It hurts really bad the first time and you may bleed a little. Just keep going with it. If it hurts too bad take a break and then try again in a few minutes.
good luck!
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