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My freind want to become more than a friend
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okay,.... I got this old friend that I were like full in love with him once
Now I am single and I happen to find him very atractive but I don't want to go too fast ,...
help me ,..I really want to start something with him but how to go slow ,..what to say and how to act ????
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Well just be yourself, he should like that, but if he doesnt always remember never to change just for someone elses benifet, unless its for the better...its also really good to just be upfront and honest...tell him you like him but also tell him you dont want to go to fast...im not sure how old you are and I know that a lot of guys can be really immature....but if he isnt he should completely understand
Hope I helped
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the best way to act, is to be yourself, you never want to start or be in a relationship when the other person doesnt know the real you, including the good things and the flaws you have. its best just to tell this guy how you feel and when you two start going out. tell him that you want to go slow, i'm sure if you tell him he'll completely understand. telling him in person would be the best way to go, when you 2 are alone....if he doesnt understand or accept how you feel then hes not the right guy for you, and thats ok...becuase the important part is finding someone who will understand and acept you for exactly who you are, and when you do...you'll be glad you found him :)
best of luck, hope i helped
KT
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Well, you have to slowly start 'coming onto him'...but not in a slutty way.
And if you really trust him, and all, tell him how you feel. Just say stuff like, "yeah, i heard so-and-so saying that we'd be a cute couple."
and stuff like that.
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