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Taking it slow...
I'm 22, F. I've been going out with this guy for almost a month now, but we actually used to have class together for a semester. We get along well, but it's the first time that I feel like this with a guy...as though I can actually imagine something meaningful happening between us. When I'm around him I feel comfortable, but sometimes I feel a little tense, because I'm not used to being with a guy (it has been a while). We always want to hang out together but i feel like he has more experience than me.. I don't really know what to ask specifically, but I am a little aprehensive about taking things far with him. At times I just want to give in, since it just feels right. BUT i know I need to hold back. The thing is, I'm not experienced. SO for any of you who know how i feel, what's a good way to let someone know you're interested, but just don't want to jump into conclusions?
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Well its good that your are taking it slow> You dont want to jump right in thats how a lot of people reject you. So right now I would keep it cool take it slow and when you feel right and the time is right just bring it. Bit make sure you feel secure about it. You dont want to freak the guy out either. Its a good sign that you feel comfortable around him. The thing about feeling tense with someone is completely normal it will go away after awhile. But get to know him more ask him if we can hang out or something and when you feel that the time is right let him know how you really feel about him. Hope this helps!!
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hey, well i totally understand how you feel. thats why its best to go for the younger guys, because that way you will be more experienced than them. anyways just talk to your boyfriend. tell him that you love him, but you just dont feel comfortable going vyer far with him yet. explain to him that its only been a month and you like to take things sort of slow. tell him that when the time comes your sure that things will happen, but now is not the time. if he loves you, he will respect your wishes. if he doesnt respect your wishes, then who needs him? you deserve someone who will respect you and what you belive in and also appreicate you.
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