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Q: i have like this nasty looking cole sore or pimple or whatever the fuck it is and its right by my mouth is there anything that i can do to get rid of it help please im desprate

haha i just had a pimple by my lip today but i dont ahve it anymore .. ok here wat u do put tooth past on itt for like a hour or to or when u go to sleep put the tooth past on the pimple and the next mornin it should be a whitehead on iit and then just pop iit and wash your fase and keep doin that untill it gose away it should work with in liek a day or 2

Q: it's complicated.

anyway, first things first. i'm sort of... ugly. my nose is too big, it's uneven and almost witch-like. i have one of the most pointed chins i have ever seen; it almost goes past my nose when i smile. my smile is ugly too, it's not right.
i'm not looking for an answer like surgery or whatever.

it's just that my looks could seriously affect my opportunities in the future. right now, i have my circle of friends, and everyone knows me and my personality. but i leave for university next year; i'm afraid that my looks will be like a hinderance to my making friends, i'm shy until i get really close to the person before i become myself.
i dunno. i'm probably the most hideous woman i've ever seen.

was there a question in there? there was. i hope this doesn't get deleted... i'm seriously worried about it.

ok listen imma 15 year old girl and im gunna tell it dont matter about outter beauty cuz everyone beautiful in there own way and its inner beauty that matter the most.. so when you are around people .. just be yourself and dont worry about apperance .just be yourself and have confidence in yourself .. when u look in the mirror just look there and say im beautiful and i dont care wat anyone says .

here imma tell you something i have this friedn that is soooooo prettty its unreal . but she has a bad personality shes a big bitch .. so she dont hang out wit nayone really and all the guys dont like her cause of her bitchyness and then they start to like me . cause im not a bitch and im not fake im myself all the time cause i have inner beauty

Q: theres this boy and hes been going to my school for like 3 weeks and he is like a thug boy and my best friend really likes him but i do to and he is such a flirt with all of us.i just cant get him out of my mind. he hangs out with us all the time but he has a girlfriend. And just the other day he asked me out when he had a fight with his girlfriend...i said no but deep inside i was thinking yes! so if he asks me out again what should i say? also i dont wanna hurt my homies feelings

ok welll first you should find out how long him and this girl been goin out .. and find out if it is seriouse.. and if it is thne dont get involved wit him more thne being just frined cuz it will cause alot of drama for you ..and if your friend likes him .. then you guys shouldnt really bother wit him cause you and your frined might get inna fight . but do wat you think is right .

goood luck

Q: i got a kinda big problem here. my friends suicidal. she says every1 h8s here wich is true and its all bcz of freekin drama and catty fights in my skool. but heres the thing. im pretty sure shes kinda tryin 2 get attention? because my other friend said they were gonna kill themselves and now hes in therapy but he got tons of attention and he made a code 4 it. so now my other friend hoo says shes gonna do it made a totally similar code. and they were gonna do it the same way. so im like wtf its so freekin the same!! and so she says her life is over and theres no point of living. how can i show her ther is a point in living? she says she only has 4 friends that like heer but thats like lucky u no? she has 4 bffs thtt luv her 2 death and thats not enuf 4 her and i got no clue how 2 show her that its not how many friends u have as long as they care about you and how do i make her not do it? im so so worried about her bcz she says shes gonna do it this weekend and maybe 2morow andserously no i cant please please please anythin will help

well you gotta tell her that dont need anyone that dont need her .. the people that are there for her now are the people worth living for .. adn fuck wat other people think .. cause the only people you need in your life are the people that need you .. and u need to wake her up and tell her there a hole lot of things to live for .. it beeta to have less friend then alot cause there are to many people that are all drama .. so tell her not to worrry thing will get better and if that dont work then u have to tell a teacher or parent she might hate you but its for her life.

Q: my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months today. this weekend we are going to his cousins house and there will be no adults. i am a virgin but i think i am ready for sex. how do i know if i am or not? do i know at all? should i do it?

people say that when you are ready for sex you know it. but honestly i dont believe u can be ready if you are inlove wit this guy and want him to take your virginity then you should go for it..if you think he is the right guy. but im gunna tell you it hurts like hell at first but when you do it whit someone you love its great .it feels so right . so0 dont be scared everything will be ok just make sure he raps his willy ...

Q: so i have been in love with this guy for a month now, im totally crazy about him. i want to make the first move and show him how much he means to me and get us to finally be a couple officially. he is 21 and im turning 18. what can i do to show him how i feel and make the move on HIM? i need something VERY good. thanks.

i can understand makin the first move is kinda weird but usally a guy likes it when a girl makes the move if u really love him just dont think of anything just go wit the flow if you walkin by him hold his hand give him a hug and look him in the eye and im sure the kiss will just come ..and if you wanna move more then that .. you gotta make sure you are ready and he is to . but dont rush thingsz cause you dont want to get hurt . so try and tek thingsz slow if u wanna have sex wit him just tell him or laydown while makin out wit him and feel up on him adn once you got that down you wont be scared or worried to do anything more..

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ok im a perrty cool person but . yet again i have my ups and downsz .. im good at givin advice all my frineds come to me for iit .. so fi u got ? i got answers so ask away ... xo0 `1