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it's complicated.
anyway, first things first. i'm sort of... ugly. my nose is too big, it's uneven and almost witch-like. i have one of the most pointed chins i have ever seen; it almost goes past my nose when i smile. my smile is ugly too, it's not right.
i'm not looking for an answer like surgery or whatever.
it's just that my looks could seriously affect my opportunities in the future. right now, i have my circle of friends, and everyone knows me and my personality. but i leave for university next year; i'm afraid that my looks will be like a hinderance to my making friends, i'm shy until i get really close to the person before i become myself.
i dunno. i'm probably the most hideous woman i've ever seen.
was there a question in there? there was. i hope this doesn't get deleted... i'm seriously worried about it.
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You should not care about what you look like. Really I am not saying this to you because it is the best thing that i can come up with or something i am telling you his because itis true LOOKS DONT MATTER! If someone hires you because you are pretty then thats not the job for you anyway. Somone shouldn't hire you because you are pretty. Looks come from the inside...the real beauty is in your heart. You think you are ugly because nobody thinks themselves are pretty they always find somethihng wron with them. The most prettiest and popular girl in my school doesnt like her nose and everybody tells her she is beautiful. Oh and if you don't make friends because they think you are ugly then they wouldn't be good friends anyways. Nobody is perfect, everybody finds something wrong with themself! Don't worry...just live life to the fullest.
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alright well it may seem clichè to say this, but looks really aren't that important! and i understand that you're probably worried about not getting oppurtunities because of how you look.. maybe jobs, for example.. but if someone wouldn't take you because of how you look, i wouldn't want to work with them anyway. maybe try wearing some makeup to take the attention away from your not to glamorous features! now don't plaster your face up like a clown, but wear some nice eye makeup and a little blush.. some subtle lipstick of lipgloss will also take away from your smile, if you really think its that bad. you can also practice smiling in the mirror! if you do it often, like whenever you have nothing else to do, just look into a mirror and smile until you like it! then just practice going in and out of a smile and soon it will look great! another thing you can do is look online for some makeup tips, because when applied properly you can really do alot with it! don't worry about missing out on things, anything you miss out on because of something you can't help can't be too great anyway ♥ i hope i helped!!! =]
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Listen, beauty comes from the inside. looks fade away and eventually everyone is ugly, and all that is left of them is their personality. you seem like a person who's got a great personality, so consider yourself lucky. because whether you realize it or not you got the better half of the deal...you got something that never fades.
and about college, it will not be a hinderance to you making friends, most college students are mature enough to see beyond looks. I'm sure you will have just as many friends, maybe even more than you do now. all you need to do, is have a little more confidence in yourself, and be proud of who you are. :)
good luck!
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hey, well let me just tell you that its not always the looks that matter. guys and girls both look at the personality of the person before they become friends with you. because honestly who wants to have a friendship or a relationship with a stuck up bitch? im sure your not ugly at all. if you want you can give me a picture of you and ill tell you honestly. i wont lie just to make you feel better. inner beauty is more important.
IF YOU HAVE AN AIM SCREEN NAME GIVE IT TO ME AND THEN I WILL I/M YOU. I DONT LIKE TO GIVE OUT MY SCREEN NAME PUBLICLY.
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well, if you wnt to as a graduation present you can ask your parents for a nose job or chin job. Because it can affect your self confidence but you should talk to your parents/gaurdians about it.
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ok listen imma 15 year old girl and im gunna tell it dont matter about outter beauty cuz everyone beautiful in there own way and its inner beauty that matter the most.. so when you are around people .. just be yourself and dont worry about apperance .just be yourself and have confidence in yourself .. when u look in the mirror just look there and say im beautiful and i dont care wat anyone says .
here imma tell you something i have this friedn that is soooooo prettty its unreal . but she has a bad personality shes a big bitch .. so she dont hang out wit nayone really and all the guys dont like her cause of her bitchyness and then they start to like me . cause im not a bitch and im not fake im myself all the time cause i have inner beauty
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