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well,to start off,i was dating my ex for about 10 months and we broke up coz of how he treated me.i dont know y i love this guy so much even if he treated me bad.i know there are tons of reasons that i should have hate him and i got no reasons to love him but yet im still in love with this guy.i dont really know if this is right.whenever he would text me and he wants me in his place i would definitely go.i so hate myself for being like this..is this really wrong? (link)
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No, hunny, it's just how girls think. If he was your first love that is completely normal because your first love will ALWAYS have a special place in your heart. However, since you did not stipulate that I will not assume that but all women think they need a man in their life, you, with your ex boyfriend. You just feel like you need a place, you want to feel loved and you think that's what you are getting from him when you aren't. Do not get back with him if he didn't treat you right. Women just need a place in life and they always think that their place is with a man, because wether you were treated right or not, you felt secure with him and that's why you crawl back. Now, in conclusion, he doesn't love you, he just wants you back so he can mess with you some more, maybe your just a toy to him, who knows his intentions but I do know, he doesn't love you if he treated you improperly the first time!
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so there is this boy i like in my school he knows i like him but he dosnt like me. i have liked him for about a year now an this girl in my year lets call her C, the boy really likes C and last year i think asked her out but it only lasted about 2 weeks i think because C ended it she didnt really like him she is one o them girls who is a right slut who all the boys love and last night the bot left a comment on C's facebook saying i love you there not going out with each other like but as soon as i saw it a filled up with tears and ran to my room crying and nw i feel like kiling myself it sounds abit mental i no but i feel like he is the only thing keepin me alive and knowin that he will never like me hurts me so much what shall i do ? (link)
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This sounds so extreme and honestly, a bit over dramatic, if you need a boy for happiness then you aren't living your life properly. get help! you honestly can't say you want to kill yourself over a guy.. you don't need to worry about this boy and what to do with him you need to worry about your mental stability.
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Hi,
I am a 17f. I am graduating this year (Yay!) and for grad, I am hoping to make my own dress. I have made dresses/clothing before and so I really want to make my grad dress. I want one that is red, sort of tight fitting at the top with poofy layers of fabric on the bottom. I love details, eyelets, laces, strings, accessories! If you know of a dress pattern or just a dress in general (It doesn't have to be red) that is fun, flirty, flowy, and cute... please share :D Thanks!
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hi there, i make my own clothes as well, i made my first dress not to long ago, i wore it to picture day at my school and people commented on it left and right. the style is a bubble dress, there is elastic at the bottom so it suctions to your legs and flows over so it looks like a bubble. i love the style, i think it is very flirty and fun. go to youtube.com and look up 'how to make a bubble dress' that's what helped me! i wish you the best of luck!
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ok i met this girl about a month ago and she's really cool we talk everyday and we really want to hang out with each other i think i might like her but her last break up was really bad and she's pretty like i'm done with guys but i'm willing to wait but how will i know when the time is right? (link)
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Ok buddy. You seem like an amazing person waiting for her, that shows alot of your character. If her last break-up was bad then you need to show her you can make everything better. When you see her and she looks upset do anything and I mean anything top put a smile on her face. Right now, I bet she is usually keeping to herself, like she isn't going around and flirting or being like she used to and that's normal for a girl to go through that after a bad break-up. You'll know when the time if right when she comes back to normal and starts smiling more and more everyday. You probably love to see her smile so do anything you can to get that on her face. Just listen to your heart and you'll know when the perfect time comes!
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I met her when I was in my first job... I liked her..she was 4 year elder to me, though it was not a problem, initially we both were friends and then she changed her job and moved to a place where her family was residing.... after a year I also got a job near that place and I went to her home.. it was friendly environment at her home.. and then I realized that I loved her, so told her about my feeling... she responded positively...
I shared everything about me with her and she did the same... but in between she suddenly reduced communication and one day on her B'day I sent a bouquet to her.. and she was angry ... I didn't got why she did so?
She usually speak about her some colleague in her new job and I was worried that if this was reason for her reduced communication.. She told that this is not case and she was busy with her work.... One day I came to know that she told me her very basic thing wrong. her B'day was not on the date she told me...
I was quite annoyed about this thing and I told her, later I came to know from her friend that she usually speaks with her friends that I had made her life hell, and at same time she was communicating with me that she was telling her room partner that "how Good I am"!!!
This was enough for me to stop everything... she was dating some other guy at same time... I was in trauma of emotions ... I didn't got what was my fault....???
its already 3 months now we have not communicated... I came to know that she is dating someone else now... I was really depressed , that why people play with others feeling?? why??
I loved her and given her chances... I did my best for our relationship... Now parents are asking me to marry.... But now I am feeling cheated by her actions and its hard for me to trust any one... what should I do ????
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Just becuase of one wrong thing that happened in life is making you not trust anyone? That's wrong. You should not let one problem in life keep you from trusting anyone or matter of factly liking another girl. I know it will be hard to move on but a girl like her is troule and she knows that. She just toys with guys hearts, in my opinion, her boyfriend is in for some trouble. But hey, you need to move on. You seem like a good guy, so you need to find a good girl that can treat you right, it would be nuts to still think it was your fault or whatever your feeling because to me she is not worth it AT ALL. "don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game" you need to stand up from the horse you just fell off of and find a newer, calmer, nice horse that won't throw you off! Hope I helped
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i keep getting purple lines down my knuckles and have no idea what it is;
i am also getting red blotches with really pale rings round them.
I am only young and at first i let it pass but now it keeps coming back and looking at my knuckles make me feel sick.
Soo; does anyone know what it could be.
It is probably something pathetic and me just taking it to far
but BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY ;)
thankss...
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I'm really not trying to freak you outt, but at age 7 I was diagnosed with Lymes Disease. Every year around the time I was diagnosed I get red blothches EVERYWHERE! It's part of the disease. Purple knuckles sometimes is a symptom of anxiety. Hope I helped.
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is there a way you can make your hair grow faster? (link)
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Not really.My hair naturally grows fast. I dont think I do anything "special". I use blow dryers, curling irons, I eat fatty/sugary foods and my hair is really long and still growing. I dont want to tell you yes because I think there isnt. However, my aunt did take pills to make her hair grow. There is something in the pill, a cousin to benzoyle and it helps the folicls within the hair to widen causing more hair to come out at once. The pills are chewy tablets and no lie, they work! My aunt's hair grew 5 inches in two weeks! Hope I helped!
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im not really sure what promise rings are..can anyone tell me? (link)
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my promise ring is on my left ring finger signifying purity. it was given to me and mine means i have to stay pure until marriage. there is other kinds out there though. boyfriend and girlfriend could swap promise rings to be true to one another and not lie/cheat to eachother. it all depends on the giver of the ring.
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the other afternoon, after school, i stayed back to finish my art project. i've done it before so the teacher just gets me to lock up when i go. anyway, i was standing at the desk and someone hugged me from behind. i naturally figured it was my boyfriend so i let him feel under my skirt. he got me hot and pulled down my undies and bent me over the desk. we had sex right there and although i was kinda scared we'd get busted, it was so good! but then i turned around and it was my good mate, ross. he'd said hi when he first got there but it sounded like my bf. i was major shocked but it, like, made me realise how hot ross is. i now have a major thing for him and we've slept together a couple of times.
i just dont know what to do about my bf. we've been together for four years and he wants to marry me and stuff. but it's just not the same with him anymore. what is the best way to break it off with my bf? i really need advice. (link)
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So you 100% have your mind set on it breaking it off with present boyfriend? If so, you should tell him the truth. Honesty is the best policy. As for Ross, you can not just hve sex with him becuase you think he is someone else. That was uncalled for, especially in school! If you want to be in a serious relationship stay with your boyfriend. If you want to be with Ross just to have fun and sex, you need to break it off. That is so mean to break it off with your boyfriend because Ross is great at "doing it". Take a breath and slow down. no matter what you do though ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH!!!! That's all you can do it situations such as these, you will get into more trouble if you lie and get busted for it later. Howver if you really love your boyfriend stay with him, I can not stress that enough. Ross seems like a back-up for whenever your bf isnt around and thats not fair to either of them, but whatever your doing, you need to do it fast, becuase if either of them find out about the other one you will lose both of them!
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well i did an online thing and this one dude like told me the date i would get married and he even gave me a name..i just found that to be kind of rediculous, bc how would you know the name of someone you know? but i dont know.
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I don't want ot be mean or anything but in my opinion I think psycics are phony. He made up a name and lied to you. He sucks.
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does anyone know if psychics really work? because there are a lot of things i would really love to know about myself. and i cant think of anyone else to go to besides someone who could possibly know the true answer to my questions i wonder about.
usually id rather like to be suprised about something happening, but im almost nineteen years old; never had a serious boyfriend. the longest relationship ive had was about 2 weeks. (it in middle school, so it didnt even count). and i just want to know if there is someone even out there for me..people say 'everyone has that someone special for them'. but each single day, im finding that harder and harder to believe.
it could be that i just havent met him yet, but what if i already know him and i just dont see that spark between us? i dont want to pass up an expierence when it has to do with true love. i want it so bad.
i could sleep soooo much better every night knowing that im going to be waking up the next day for a reason.
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Ok you might not believe me, i would really like you to though. I know a physic, she is an aquantince of mine and she really works. I asked her if I will ever get into a fight with someone and she said yes and I did with my neighbor. I also asked her what this one girl would be wearing tomorrow and she told me the exact outfit! I went to school the next day and she was wearing EVERYTHING that she said she was. It creeps me out but just knowing things about my life and others makes me less....umm sub conscience.
Hope I helped! < Alli!
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what do i get for my boyfriends birthday??I wanna be really super creative.. any ideas??
im gonna make him a birthday cake and depending on what mood im in i might make him a web page dedicated to him. i really love this guy and i wanna make his birthday wonderful! so i need help as soon as possible please and thank you. (link)
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Ok well if you really want to make it special you should do something together, just the two of you. Definatly don't invite friends over becuase he might not think that is too special. Maybe you can pack a picnic or something and set it out somewhere that he likes, then you will have a picnic somewhere special and then maybe watch the sunset. It seems far fetched but it's romantic! Hope I helped!
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Okay, so you know that one song that that girl sings in the preview? well i need the lyrics and the song where can i get the WHOLE thing? (link)
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Ok. Well since it is in a preview the whole song might not be made completly yet. As you know it will be on the show so most likedly you will have to wait until the show comes out to get it. You can try googling it by typing in Camp Rock featuring Jonas Brothers or something along those lines. I 95% sure though that you will have to wait till it comes out. Hope I helped!
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How long does mono stay in someone system? K so well i kissed a guy the other night we only knew eachother for a couple hours so like i didnt know him that well and stuff, and like as dumb as this sounds but like im scared that i might get mono and stuff cause he is a big flirt and i bet he kisses a lot of girls so anyways i dont know if he has ever has had mono, but how long does it stay in someone's system? and like what are the odds of me getting it? if like he everr had, even though he likes out and he was tottaly drunk...so i dont know...
so yeah just answear this questin haha how long does mono stay in someone's system? (link)
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This may not seem the right answer in the beginning but I will get to a reasonable answer. There is a big mess of woods in my backyard. I like climbing trees and such one day when I was about four a deer tick got inside my system and 2 1/2 weeks later I was diagnosed with Limes Disease. They had to draw blood and everything. I am 15 now and my tonsils are swollen up like tomatos and they think my Limes Disease interfered with my throat. So they took out 3 tubes of blood and tested me for mono. The test results came back negative. So I didn;t have mono but I got filled in on it anyways. The symptoms are swollen tonsils, coughing, wheezing/hacking (etc etc). If you have one of these symptoms then you 75% chance you have it. If it turns out that you do have it it will stay with you forever. Bad as it sounds it wont be as bad becuase it wont need treatment or anything. You prolly wont even knwo you ahevb it I forget I have Limes Disease sometimes. Well I hope I helped and I hope you dont have it though.
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whats a good quote about talking to an old friend? like i just talked to an old friend and i realized how much i changed, i need a quote for my profile about it (link)
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My friends and I are always retards together and we are like I just shaved so we feel eachothers legs and stuff so I put in my profile "A good friend will feel your legs after you shaved" tehe my friends and I are funny together I don't know how close you guys are but that's what I have.
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my sweet 16 is casual cause i didnt wanna wear heels and a dress. but now i dont know what to wear. even though its casual i need to dress to kill. HELP ME FIND AN OUTFIT. please dont just send me a website to a clothing store. i need examples. like a full nice outfit. american eagle, hollister, wet seal, whatever the site is. please and thanks. (link)
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Sweet 16's are hard to plan for. I went through alot of them thought like my neighbors and stuff. They were all dressy though so I know quite th oppoaite. If it is very casual you could do skinny jeans, flip flops, and a pretty blouse similar to a dress but not.
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okay so i play volleyball and i love it. but i hate the little shorts u have to wear cause i hate my legs. and like im embarresed to where the shorts like to the point where when i do wear them i want to start crying. sometimes i will. and like i dont know what to do about it cause i hate feeling like that. help? (link)
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ok I dont really know what to feel uncomfortable about. are they hairy, pale, fat, twiggy? If they are hairy: shave them. If they are pale: sit outside..get them some sun. If they are fat: do some leg excersizes like leg kicks in the air or ummm 6 inches they are very good you hold up your legs in the air six inches above the ground for one minute. It hurts but it works. Well hope I helped!
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i think i was pregnant and then lost the baby, but how would i be able to tell?
like i go my period and everything, but it was different than normal. i'm not spotting but like, my period is just DIFFERENT.
and should i bother telling my boyfriend? i feel like he should know but i dont want him to get mad at me or get nervous about having sex again.
we used a condom, have every time. it just broke while we were using it. (link)
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You should go to a doctor because if you didnt lose your baby yet then your baby needs the help it should get.
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Alright, so I would like to have a bigger vocabulary. I would like to be able to speak with big words, and know what they mean. Does anyone have any sites or any ways i could learn bigger words? Please and thanks! (link)
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my friends and i don't really use big words either. So we made a joke about it. When one of uses a big word, we yell "BIG WORD!" and give each other highfives. This is a great way to have fun with your friends and increase your vocabulary to the next level. If that doesn't work play some scrabble with a wise family member. You'll be amazed at the words you will learn! Have fun!
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a few days ago i found out that this one kid who i used to be best friends with is a virgin, and everyone said he wasnt. but he told my one friend he was, and he said that the only girl he would ever wanna do it with is me. well, i turned him down a while back. and we havent talked since. everyone thinks he likes me, and thinks i should talk to him. but im like scared. i dont wanna get hurt again, like i did, the last time we stopped talking. i mean, i just got over that a little while ago. and its been a year almost. i just dont wanna feel that hurt again.
what should i do? i really miss him though.. (link)
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I feel that you should talk to him and say look I miss you like crazy...but i got hurt alot and i dont wanna witness that again. it hurt me to much to leave you and not talk to you. then you will talk and maybe become friends because if you miss him do the right thing and talk. then you should say I hear that you would only wanna DO it with me. If you are ready tell him that you wanna DO it but if you are not tell him you need to wait because you feel that you can not hold a responsibility that big. In the bible it states that your body is a sacred temple of our Lord Jesus Christ and anybody who has sex beofre marrige is hurting the Lord meaning you are letting people in his temple.
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