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the other afternoon, after school, i stayed back to finish my art project. i've done it before so the teacher just gets me to lock up when i go. anyway, i was standing at the desk and someone hugged me from behind. i naturally figured it was my boyfriend so i let him feel under my skirt. he got me hot and pulled down my undies and bent me over the desk. we had sex right there and although i was kinda scared we'd get busted, it was so good! but then i turned around and it was my good mate, ross. he'd said hi when he first got there but it sounded like my bf. i was major shocked but it, like, made me realise how hot ross is. i now have a major thing for him and we've slept together a couple of times.
i just dont know what to do about my bf. we've been together for four years and he wants to marry me and stuff. but it's just not the same with him anymore. what is the best way to break it off with my bf? i really need advice.
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So you 100% have your mind set on it breaking it off with present boyfriend? If so, you should tell him the truth. Honesty is the best policy. As for Ross, you can not just hve sex with him becuase you think he is someone else. That was uncalled for, especially in school! If you want to be in a serious relationship stay with your boyfriend. If you want to be with Ross just to have fun and sex, you need to break it off. That is so mean to break it off with your boyfriend because Ross is great at "doing it". Take a breath and slow down. no matter what you do though ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH!!!! That's all you can do it situations such as these, you will get into more trouble if you lie and get busted for it later. Howver if you really love your boyfriend stay with him, I can not stress that enough. Ross seems like a back-up for whenever your bf isnt around and thats not fair to either of them, but whatever your doing, you need to do it fast, becuase if either of them find out about the other one you will lose both of them!
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Well, that was interesting. Anyway...
I personally think you are into a relationship at all anymore and probably should not be in one. That is if you are in an exclusive relationship. But I am guessing that your current boyfriend would not appreciate the fact you were having sex with another guy.
So I think you should probably just tell him that you are no longer interested in being with him exclusively because you are still young and want to experience other things. Tell him you really enjoyed the time you two were together but it is time to move on. Most of the time, its best just to be completely honest. And since the two of you have been together for so long, you know eachother well enough to understand where these feelings are coming from. Good luck
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Umm...you didnt even look at him once while all that happened? That seems kind of sketchy...Sound like a sense from a cheap porno or something.
But anyways, you're just lusting over him and you need to stop and think if it's worth it. DO you wanna have fun or do you wanna stay in the serious relationship? You seem pretty young so you probably want to have fun. If that's the case, either break up with your boyfriend or tell him y'all need to slow down by ALOT. Even if you're in a relationship for four years, there's no need to be thinking about marriage at a young age. You can decided whether to tell him or not...I'd tell you to but it's all on you. As for Ross, stop having sex with him because if you don't stop he'll always expect it and will come to you every time he wants it which might actually cause you to continue your cheating and possibly cheat on any future boyfriends.
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