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im so confuse
well,to start off,i was dating my ex for about 10 months and we broke up coz of how he treated me.i dont know y i love this guy so much even if he treated me bad.i know there are tons of reasons that i should have hate him and i got no reasons to love him but yet im still in love with this guy.i dont really know if this is right.whenever he would text me and he wants me in his place i would definitely go.i so hate myself for being like this..is this really wrong?
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well im a boy my self and it it probly means that he want female companion ship
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No, hunny, it's just how girls think. If he was your first love that is completely normal because your first love will ALWAYS have a special place in your heart. However, since you did not stipulate that I will not assume that but all women think they need a man in their life, you, with your ex boyfriend. You just feel like you need a place, you want to feel loved and you think that's what you are getting from him when you aren't. Do not get back with him if he didn't treat you right. Women just need a place in life and they always think that their place is with a man, because wether you were treated right or not, you felt secure with him and that's why you crawl back. Now, in conclusion, he doesn't love you, he just wants you back so he can mess with you some more, maybe your just a toy to him, who knows his intentions but I do know, he doesn't love you if he treated you improperly the first time! <><God Bless
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Women every day think that their role in societies involves being with a man, and being in love. Love is such a strong and magical thing, and hard to come by. Obviously this guy isn't in love with you.
I don't know if he hurts you physically or sexually. But your situation sounds like you just need to cut him out of your love life!
So many of us get into bad relationships, and we basically have to learn from our mistakes.
Which is why I am not telling you that its normal to love the guy you shouldn't, or love without reason, but its rather a part of the whole experience of finding that one true love.
I have dated ALOT of duds, but if I had it to do over I wouldn't change a thing because its shaped me to who I am today.
If you think he might be changing then you may want to get back together with him. But if you see no point, no future to a relationship with him then find someone else. My momma always told me there are plenty of fish in the sea. What my mamma didn't know was that I was one of those fish, waiting for my catcher.
So just wait you'll find someone else! Don't get into a bad relationship with no future, things WILL not fix over time!
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