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a few days ago i found out that this one kid who i used to be best friends with is a virgin, and everyone said he wasnt. but he told my one friend he was, and he said that the only girl he would ever wanna do it with is me. well, i turned him down a while back. and we havent talked since. everyone thinks he likes me, and thinks i should talk to him. but im like scared. i dont wanna get hurt again, like i did, the last time we stopped talking. i mean, i just got over that a little while ago. and its been a year almost. i just dont wanna feel that hurt again.
what should i do? i really miss him though..
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I feel that you should talk to him and say look I miss you like crazy...but i got hurt alot and i dont wanna witness that again. it hurt me to much to leave you and not talk to you. then you will talk and maybe become friends because if you miss him do the right thing and talk. then you should say I hear that you would only wanna DO it with me. If you are ready tell him that you wanna DO it but if you are not tell him you need to wait because you feel that you can not hold a responsibility that big. In the bible it states that your body is a sacred temple of our Lord Jesus Christ and anybody who has sex beofre marrige is hurting the Lord meaning you are letting people in his temple.
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There are two things you can possibly do in this sitution:
1) Never talk to him again
2) Talk to him and try to patch things up
I think it's better if you should do 2). I mean, you never know what could start if you guys talk again. You know what you would be missing out if you guys dont talk, your just going to remain on missing him, and frankly it doesnt seem like your too happy by doing that. I say, talk to him and try to rekindle that friendship again. Yes, you may get hurt, but arent you hurt right now? This happened with my guy friend as well, and what i did was give him some time, then tried talking again. I did it slowly, like saying hi one day, then the next week, asking how he was. In moderation, you get what i mean? After that, he was the one chasing after me =D. I thought our friendhip was over and i really did miss him so i tried it out and now our friendship is going good. It just toke time. If you need any more help on conversation starters or anything, dont hesitate to post in my inbox. Good luck:)
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