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i wont to die :'(
so there is this boy i like in my school he knows i like him but he dosnt like me. i have liked him for about a year now an this girl in my year lets call her C, the boy really likes C and last year i think asked her out but it only lasted about 2 weeks i think because C ended it she didnt really like him she is one o them girls who is a right slut who all the boys love and last night the bot left a comment on C's facebook saying i love you there not going out with each other like but as soon as i saw it a filled up with tears and ran to my room crying and nw i feel like kiling myself it sounds abit mental i no but i feel like he is the only thing keepin me alive and knowin that he will never like me hurts me so much what shall i do ?
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Okay I realize you really love this boy but he has already told you he doesn't like you like that. Its better that you move on theres a lot of other fish in the sea. I know you feel hopeless and right now he seems like the guy you want to be with but there is no reason for a boy to make you feel like you want to kill yourself. No man is worth that much. I know a couple who has been together for about 4 years who just broke up and thats depressing but the fact is you never dated this guy. You may be hurt and the thought of him not being with you or not wanting you is making you sad. You need to move on and maybe talk to someone to because you shouldn't feel like killing yourself over a guy. He's not worth it and you need to just be you!
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I think you're overreacting just a bit. Just because he doesn't like you right now doesn't mean he won't ever like you. He probably just hasn't realized how great you are. If he doesn't ever realize it, then that's his loss.
You shouldn't want to die though just because someone doesn't like you. Not everyone in this world is going to like you and the sooner you realize that, the better. You can't be everyone's crush, or best friend. You're bound to be someone's enemy eventually.
Anyways, just get over it. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I'm sure you can do better than this boy. This whole situation isn't exactly a good reason to kill yourself. It's just a boy. Stop being dramatic.
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as iv grown up iv learnt one major thing....boys always come and go.in your present moment you thing your life has ended because your totally inlove with this boy that loves someone else so you have no will to live because you think hes the only thing keeping you happy, well once youv over come that path and you get over him your going to look back and think "oh man what the heck was i thinking"right now it might be hard to imagine but yes you will get over him and you know something else?another boy is going to come by and your going to think "hooo DAMN i want him"and then hes ganna say "ohmama shes fine i want her" and your both going to fall inlove with eachother and get married and maybe have babies etc but before that you need to just believe this guy at the moment is just not into you.he doesnt have to like you its part of those things in life you need to overcome,so what you do is just move on and then the right boy will find you and hell want you and treat you amillion times better than this boy ever will.youll look back and think i cant believe i wanted to die over that other guy "ewww vomit what was i thinking" seriously
trust me
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This sounds so extreme and honestly, a bit over dramatic, if you need a boy for happiness then you aren't living your life properly. get help! you honestly can't say you want to kill yourself over a guy.. you don't need to worry about this boy and what to do with him you need to worry about your mental stability.
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