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I use to have my Front Hand-Spring and back walk-over but i cant do my back walk-over any more and i cant land my front handspring. Now i can only do them on a trampoline. How can i be able to do them again. also anytips on getting my back hand-spring and back flip ( i can do those on a trampoline too ) Thanks =) (link)
in previous years i was in competition for gymnastics and had the same problem. for landing your front hand spring just sretch your arm muscles a lot. try making a couple attempts to up beat music and make sure to push off your hands with all your power. also with landing your back walk overs try doing a couple of back bends in a row and get back to posistion without comin back down, after that put your right foot ((or left)) in front of the other and gently fall back into backbend....you should be abe to kick over if you have had the expirence.


Ok, so a while back,i asked if my bf was cheating. I found out he isn't, but my friend really likes him. She is my friend, and she knows i LOVE him to DEATH, but she dosen't get it. She wants him, but he can't stand her because she is always flirting! He dosen't know how to get her to leave him alone, and neither do i. How do i get her to understand he is MINE and not hers? ♥Please Get Her Away From Him♥ (link)
Honestly...
this girl your calling your friend doesn't seem like of much of a friend to me.
if you truly love your boyfriend stick to him. and if this "friend" of yours doesn't get off your back about him. dump her. you deserve way better. you dont need the stress of having to deal with a building relationship alongside a "friend" trying to steal your boyfriend.
if you dont want to loose her try talking to her about important he is to you and hopefully she will understand =]


Ok well for the past month i've been having a really difficult time falling asleep. Even if i am really tired i still can't seem to fall asleep, nothing really is on my mind either, nothing bad has happened nor am i stressful. Everytime i try to fall alseep i tend to feel sick or something, i don't know what is wrong with me, ohh and i don't want to take sleeping pills, my mom won't let me, she says then i won't be able to fall asleep by myself. Ohh and i sometimes fall asleep but it's only in the morning time, since it is still winter break for us, i want to fall asleep, so i won't be tired for school. Does anyone have any tips to try falling asleep better? Ohh and i already try counting sheeps and counting down from 100, it doesnt work. Thankyou if you help me! I'm so its long! (link)
a couple of years ago i suffered with insomnia ((sleep disorder)) and i thought it was going to ruin my life.
its simply easy to get rid of.
my dad told me one night to just sit in bed with everything turned off and to just stare at the wall. you will get so bored you will suddenly fall asleep! i thought it wouldn't work in a MILLION years but it actually did.
also i learned myself that trying to sleep at the bottom of the bed or sideways helps too! maybe some change could be the cure.
atlest it was for me!
keep me posted
=]


okay so here how it goes down, me and this boy have been talking for about 1 month and a half now. for the first month i had a boyfriend and once i broke up with that kid me and him got closer and we decided to wait a week till we go out. which would have been new years. but 2 days before new years he found out his dad is making him move to puerto rico for 4 months. so when the first came around we decided not to go out. but everyday we hang out and we get closer and i fall for him more and more as each day passes. he is leaving the 12th and i wont see him for 4 months. i dont want to get hurt when he leaves but i think its to late now. what should i do? (link)
Okay,
during the summer a boy i had been crushing on went to argentina for 3 months!
before he left i thought it would be then end of the world, but it wasn't.
i made sure i kept in contact with him.
not CLOSE contact but made sure i would be able to atleasat email him.

so when your guys leaves to puerto rico make sure you say goodbye to him to leave a good last impression and make sure you can keep in contact =]
when he gets back home, make a point you want to see him.
things will feel better than ever.
best of luck =]


So I have been singing for years. You know.. for fun? Nothing serious so I don't think I'm a good singer.

My friend, I always thought had a better singing voice & she's in theater .. gets the lead parts and singing parts.

So I go to her for advice about singing and I told her how great she was at it.

Well, she sang something for me & sent it to me in a wav.

And it isn't her best singing.. at all.. she was out of tune and i dont know how to respond to her. it's not her best work.. but she wants an answer.

I can send you the link and maybe you can come up with something nice but helpful to say ?

it's not horrible.. i just don't know how to say that needs some work on it.. because I'm not a great singer. I'm a bit flat so.. if I tell her or imply how she's not that great.. it would be kinda stupid? Because I'm no better than her.

Help?
She's going to sing at her theater but i don't want her to embarrass herself or get hurt.. (link)
Well if you HONESTLY think that she isn't doing her best work...i would deffinatly tell her how you feel.
She's your friend so its better to let her know in advanced that it sounds bad, becuase if you dont it can hurt YOU and HER in the future.
and if shes a true friend she will thank you for your honesty, and maybe even save her from quite a bit of embarassment.
=]


I cry alot lately. I cannot stay focused on one thing. I often forget what I'm talking about. I hate the city I live in more than anything. I would do absolutely anything to get out of here. I can't stand half of my "friends". I don't have anyone that I can trust or talk to about my problems or whatever. I'm sick of boys. I haven't ate NEAR as much as I used to. I talk to my self alot, I know that's weird.. but true. I day dream alot, about things I wish would happen. I don't feel like doing much of anything anymore. I sleep more than I used to. I never think about suicide or ANY thing at all like it. But I don't know what's wrong with me or what to do. Should I go to a doctor, psychologist, counselor, etc? Or is there something else that can help? Ergh, please help.

If it helps; I'm not fat (i weigh 110) or ugly. I'm popular around my school. I'm 16 years old.

Recently, I made a HUGE change in my life. I used to drink alcohol, party alot, do things I should have never done. But now, I don't drink, cuss, go to parties, nothing. I attend church 2-3 times a week. I pray daily.

Could this have anything to do with it?
-ps; sorry this is so long. (link)
Recently i had gone through the same problem. When you suddenly feel you have no one there for you or to talk to?
My advice to you is to look at the bright side of things, their are people in this world who would die for you. Sometimes when i feel alone i turn on my music ((happy jams are what i would call them)) and imagine im the people in the music videos. You say you day dream a lot but nothing is wrong with that...i do it all the time. Don't put your health in danger its NOT good. just let all the problems drift away cuz they are probably not as big as you think they are alright?
but if it continues i encourage you to see psychologist. =]
Best of luck




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