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I have no idea what is wrong with me.
I cry alot lately. I cannot stay focused on one thing. I often forget what I'm talking about. I hate the city I live in more than anything. I would do absolutely anything to get out of here. I can't stand half of my "friends". I don't have anyone that I can trust or talk to about my problems or whatever. I'm sick of boys. I haven't ate NEAR as much as I used to. I talk to my self alot, I know that's weird.. but true. I day dream alot, about things I wish would happen. I don't feel like doing much of anything anymore. I sleep more than I used to. I never think about suicide or ANY thing at all like it. But I don't know what's wrong with me or what to do. Should I go to a doctor, psychologist, counselor, etc? Or is there something else that can help? Ergh, please help.
If it helps; I'm not fat (i weigh 110) or ugly. I'm popular around my school. I'm 16 years old.
Recently, I made a HUGE change in my life. I used to drink alcohol, party alot, do things I should have never done. But now, I don't drink, cuss, go to parties, nothing. I attend church 2-3 times a week. I pray daily.
Could this have anything to do with it?
-ps; sorry this is so long.
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no worries. i know just how you feel. congrats on giving up the party life. what you need to do is to try and confide in the person you trust with your life. Tell everything and try and open up a bit. It should feel good to let it all out. Usually, if you dont have a friend that you totally trust, try your counselor. they are there especially for this kind of thing and they make sure to keep it private. Hope i helped!
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The doctor is a god idea, bt here is another one
YOU ARE BORED AND DEPRESSED FROM BEING BORED!!!
You stopped doin everything cold turkey.
You distance yourself from your friends because they do the stuff that you recently stopped doing.
Go to a party, have fun. You dont have to drink or anything like that to have a good time. Get out and go on a date with a friend guy, you just need to get out and have a little fun. Your not eat because like i said, your depressed.
Keep me posted k?
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OH MY GOSH YOU SOUND JUST LIKE ME!!!
You might have what is called Seasonal Affective Disorder. It comes from not being exposed to sunlight and things like that. You also could be deficient in a certain nutrient that your body needs.
I'm getting a complete physical exam (with blood tests,etc.) to see what's wrong with me. I would suggest that you do the same- because there could be something seriously wrong that's physical.
I know that feeling of "I don't want to do ANYTHING I'm just going to sit here and mope and cry for no reason.". It's the worst thing ever- but it's been improving.
Are you getting regular exercise? Because your body might be low on endorphins (hormones that are relased through exercise in case you didn't already know).
I hope this helps- and let me know how it all works out. (really i want to know because i'm going through the exact same thing)
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Recently i had gone through the same problem. When you suddenly feel you have no one there for you or to talk to?
My advice to you is to look at the bright side of things, their are people in this world who would die for you. Sometimes when i feel alone i turn on my music ((happy jams are what i would call them)) and imagine im the people in the music videos. You say you day dream a lot but nothing is wrong with that...i do it all the time. Don't put your health in danger its NOT good. just let all the problems drift away cuz they are probably not as big as you think they are alright?
but if it continues i encourage you to see psychologist. =]
Best of luck <3
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