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Last Update: February 20, 2008
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OK, a couple of weeks ago my mom and dad got into a fight and my dad like spazed like litterally. And he threw a plate, bowl, and pack of cds at the wall. now, when my dad gets mad, I am scared of him. And I have lost some respect for him. What can I do to forget what happened? THanks!!! (link)
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How many times has this happened? Because it sounds like its the first time. I can understand the loss of respect. But you might want to think about it some more before you jump to conclusions. If this happens all the time then my advise would be to try to seek help for your father. Some people have a problem with learning how to control their anger.
If this is something that rarely happens or the first time - do you know what they were arguing about? It could of been that he has been under alot of stress. Fathers tend to hold their stress in so as not to upset any other family members. We all at some point boil over. I dont know one person that hasnt thrown a fit about something. My advise is to sit down and talk with him about you feel. Let him know that it scared you. And try to work out a way of communicating before it gets to that point. ex. one night a week or every other week, the family sit down together and talk about whatever has bothered them. You might find that it will bring a big relief for you and your family. All of you will see even more how much support you can give each other just to have someone to listen.
I hope I have helped you. I would love to hear back from you on how it goes.
Thanks
Tiffany
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Well, my problem is that I can't let myself get close to anyone really emotionly. I feel like a put up a sheild to hide who I really am. I want to know how I might be able to let myself express me for who I really am. And this also affects me being able to get close to anyone in a relationship sort of way.
Any Ideas? (link)
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I believe that before you open up to someone else first you need to figure out what has happened in your past to cause you to feel this way. And then face it. Once you can get past that and open up to yourself then you can open up to somebody else. I dont believe that you could open up to someone else if you dont understand the reason behind it.
Good luck
Tiffany
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15/f. Ive never inserted a tampon before but Ive tried a couple times a long time ago. I just feel really uncomfortable doing it and feel like it wont work, or itll hurt. I sort of feel like somethings wrong with me and i will never be able to use tampons. this isnt good because im a sophomore on varsity basketball so its hard with practice and games constantly and a competitive level where you need to play hard 24/7 (with pads..) someone help? (link)
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I believe most everyone goes through this the first time. I know i was scared to death the first time i used one. I to thought it would hurt. For me it didnt hurt but it was extremely uncomfortable. But once i got use to it now to me pads are uncomfortable. I suggest going to one of the sites that the others listed but know that you are not alone. It doesnt mean anything is wrong with you, it can be scarey doing something for the first time but alot of times what seems scarey at first really isnt that bad.
I hope i have helped your confidence in any way.
Tiffany
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if your bf of one year physically hurts you..like kicks you in the leg..punches you in stomcach..throws you on the ground..pins you down..grabs you by the jaw..you get the picture..well anyway if that happened to you..and you have been together for a year and nothing like that ever happened..what would you do? would you forgive him? after how long? would you make him get help? i mean..we've all done really dumb stuff before...
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he= 18/m (link)
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The thing you gotta think about is this. Are you willing to stay in a relationship that you get abused. And are you willing to risk it happening again. There are so many people out there in the world that go through this same thing. And at first im sure they dont think it would happen to them or they believe the person when they tell them it will not happen again. And then they get told the same thing the next time and the next time. If they know they can get away with it and you still be there then what would stop them from doing it again? You can find someone that truly loves you. Someone that would never do anything to hurt you. The kind of love that you deserve and want. My advice would be to definetly leave him. If he has hurt you, you are better off without him.
I wish you luck.
Tiffany
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