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i'm kathleen.i'm thirteen years old.
i've been through alot.
i'm absolutely nothing special, and you'll find i'm nothing that will amaze you.
i have trust issues.
i hate many things, such as animal abuse, and labels.
i'm a vegitarian, and i don't drink milk.
i sometimes talk alot, sometimes i'm really quiet.
get to know me: kathleenxsaidd- AIM.
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Hey. I'm 13, female. I was wondering, becuase I don't have any gym access, or really a place to run most times, how could i lose alot of weight, say 10, 15 pounds, by the first day of school?
Today is July 30. I need to lose this weight by September 4th.
How can I do it?!
plus, i can't go running, i live on the highway, and have no where to run. i do have a trampoline though, if that helps.
Hey guys. Ok so my friends and I wanted to throw a huge party this summer and invite like 30 or so kids. We were supposed to do it at my friend Melissa's house because she has a pool but now it looks like we can't so we'd have to have it at my friend Rachel's and she has a big backyard but no pool. So my question is, how do you entertain 30 kids? Sure there would be like music and stuff but a pool is the only big thing we could think of. We wanted to do one of those big water slides but I don't think rentacenter has them. Does anyone have any ideas?
13/F ♥
HI KELLLI :DD.
I KNOW ABOUT THIS PARTY[;
no, rent a center doesn't have them and they're expensive. but i'll bring water balloons if you and rachel want me to.
i can get like ALOT. like, 100 or more? we can do games and such with those.
and i can like bring the hose from my backyard lmao and we can play water games and stuff with that. or i OMFG, WE CAN BUY A KIDDIE POOL.
lmao, i already have one!
IM me or call me or whatever becuase i have like a ton of ideas, i just couldn't help you two because i have no money.
fourteen / female
Background: For the past two years of my life, i've had really bad social anxiety. Becuase of it, i've had to switch schools to an alternative school. I wasn't going to my regular middle school last year, I was skipping out of class and I did that for about five months until someone intervened.
The next month I was in my new school. It had very different kinds of people, and it was more diverse as far as race went. It made me feel a lot more comfortable. When I was going through this hard time, I lost a lot of friends. I only have three really good friends now, and because I switchced schools and they have other friends besides me, I don't get to see them a lot.
My parents think that i'm becoming a recluse and I won't ever leave the house because of my anxiety. I spend a lot of time on the computer/in front of the TV, and my parents see something wrong with that and seem to think i'm anti social, when i'm really not.
I don't hang out with my friends from my new school because all they really do is hang around and smoke and go party, and i'm not into that.
My problem: My parents want to send me to boarding school. While I do have some issues, I don't think it's anything that can't be solved where I am.
It's not just that they want to send me away, it's that they've already picked a place for me to go, and i've been accepted. But we still need to get money from my public school in order for me to go. But all that aside, if my parents decide I don't have to go, I don't go.
I've talked with them and explained all of this, i've improved my behavior around the house, and tried to put reason behind all of my actions. But neither of them seem convinced.
Going away to boarding school would kill me, and they don't understand.
How can I convince them not to send me away?
Hey. Well, the way I see it, this issue is more simple to solve then you feel it is. All you have to do is tell your parents that you do in fact have friends at your newer school, they just like to do things in their spare time that you aren't into doing. Tell them that they are in fact good friends, they just are into things that you aren't into. Tell them that you miss your friends from your old school, but you never get to hang out with them becuase you live a ways away from them.
They should understand, after you have explained all of this.
Good luck.
ok well i have swimmers ear and i have had it for about 2 weeks. i havd it for about a week a 3/4 and then my dad was like "well i dont think you have it any morre so i think you should go swimming. so i did, now it hurts so bad and my dad wont let me go to the doctor. he says its just an earche. all he does is make me take some tylenol but it still hurts, what can i do?????
thanks in advance
Hey. Well, if your dad won't let you get ear drops, or you can't for whatever reason, if you get a washcloth and put really hot water on it for a long time, and then put it in a ziplock bag, you can hold it to your ear (try to lay on it, with the hurt ear faceing towards the bed, couch, or whatever you're laying on).
It helps loosen the wax, so that the water may in turn fall out.
Also, it will hurt, I'm not gunna lie to you, but, you should grab your earlobe during and after the process above, to try to move the wax, helping the water get even closer to falling out.
However, DO NOT stick Q-tips in your ear, that's REALLY dangerous, just as a warning.
I hope you feel betterr! Trust me, I know how bad swimmer's ear hurts]:
ok well this is kind of been upsetting me for a while. Everytime i try to ask a question about my lovelife on here, everyone gives me the same answer to a question i was never asking. I'll be asking about something like becoming more closer to my boyfriend or how to show him my emotions without hiding them and ill say i love him alot or something and thats why i want to be more open towards him and in every advice im given, people always tell me im not inlove. In responses im always getting "He's just a crush so don't worry" or "Your to young to be inlove". I don't see how someone can be to young to be inlove, its like saying a child doesn't love his mum because he's to young to understand what it is. Ok i started to think "what exactly IS love?" and i googled it and got this answer "a strong positive emotion of regard and affection". So according to the dictionary, i AM in fact inlove. Its just these people who think that age does make a difference. I can understand that most people think teenagers are just hormone driven and that because while we are going through puberty and we start to feel more for the opposite sex or the same sex in some cases that we are just overwhelmed by these emotions and mis-judge it as love. It's not like i write all over my school books "I LOVE [NAME]" or in my msn name or anything like that, i just constantly have this inner warmth when i think about him or hear his voice or when hes cuddling me. I feel like even though im growing up people still treat me as a child for believing that im inlove. Theres only a select few of people i know who understand how i feel and i just need to know how people can think that someone who hasn't exactly had a lifetime of experience can be wrong about being inlove? Am i thinking stupidly? Should i just not even try a relationship until im over 20? Im so confused about everything and people are making me feel like im not inlove and im starting to grow distant to my boyfriend because of it. Please help.
Hey.
Well, what people tell you here on advicenators isn't fact. It's just their oppinion on a subject.
Here's the deal : some people meet the person that they want to, and will spend the rest of their life with as young as when they're three.
It starts with you knowing this person for a long time, getting comfortable around them, realizing you like them, and the bond grows from there.
I agree, I'm thirteen and people have told me all the time I'm not in love. The thing is, I know how I feel, and noone else does. It's the same with you. By what you tell us, you really like, even love, this kid. However, since we aren't you, we can't feel exactly how much. If you think you love someone, chances are you really do. Don't listen to whatever anyone else tells you, becuase the bottom line is, you're the only one that knows for sure.
I hope this helped.
im 13. i love scary movies its mainly what i watch. i saw the scariest movie of the year just now. im so fuckin paranoid im shaking so badly i cant even see straight i dont wana be alone i think ill die tonight by rape or torture HOPEING NOT!. what can i do!?!
Hey.
Try to put yourself in the actor/actresses position. If you imagine what it was like to film the movie, and how the producer must have created these scenes, it will be less scary.
Also, try to watch the 'bloopers' by googleing or youtubeing them.
If you watch the actors mess up a ton of times, you'll realize how fake the movie was.
Hope I helped.
I want this necklace that this girls wearing...
do you know where i can buy one like it and how much does it cost?
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y97/chunk7812/ilovecarbs.jpg
Hey. I'm not sure, but I think that girl is wearing a Tiffany neclace.
You can get them at a jewlery, or tiffany store either around your town or at the mall.
They are expensive, from what I hear, make sure you have over $100.00 just to be safe.
Hope I helped.
its on the radio alot it goes something like
i still hear your voice.....
then its like
everytime we touch... something
i reach the sky
do any oneee knowww
it's called
"everytime we touch"
it's by cascada.
it goes like this:
I still hear your voice, when you sleep next to me.
I still feel your touch in my dreams.
Forgive me my weakness, but I don't know why
Without you it's hard to survive.
'Cause every time we touch, I get this feeling.
And every time we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.
'Cause every time we touch, I feel this static.
And every time we kiss, I reach for the sky.
Can't you hear my heart beat so...
I can't let you go.
Want you in my life.
Your arms are my castle, your heart is my sky.
They wipe away tears that I cry.
[Everytime We Touch lyrics on http://www.metrolyrics.com]
The good and the bad times, we've been through them all.
You make me rise when I fall.
'Cause every time we touch, I get this feeling.
And every time we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.
'Cause every time we touch, I feel this static.
And every time we kiss, I reach for the sky.
Can't you hear my heart beat so...
I can't let you go.
Want you in my life.
'Cause every time we touch, I get this feeling.
And every time we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.
and here's a link to the music video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZK0GmiSMNGI
Hope I helped.
hey its kelli. i was reading one of your answers and i was like thats so kathleen. but i love it that you dont give a shit and ur totally honest and don't feel the need to tie it up with a pretty bow. Anyway, I love youuu ♥ kelli
lol well, i'm not gunna lie to them.
if you don't wanna hear my advice, then don't go around asking for it :P.
what question?
Ok i weigh like 180-190 pounds and really dont have much of gut but anyways can it be possible to lose a lot of weight if you eat nothing but water and excercise by doing sit ups, crunches, and push ups every day? plus im gonna teach myself to skateboard so thats included. if so, how much weight would i lose? i'm planning on doing this for my whole summer vacation and yes i know it's kinda hard going with nothing but water but i've done this before and i only lasted half a month since i ended up constipated but now its gonna be even tougher my goal is 3 months which is like 90 days!
Hey. Well, most likely I will get a bad rateing for this, but we're talking about your life, and I think that might be a bit more important than a rateing. So,
This is honestly the dumbest thing you could EVER do. People NEED food, that's the way it works, whether that's what you want to hear, or not. Too bad. If you've done this before, and STILL want to do it again, especially after what happened to you, there's a problem here.
You need a doctor, becuase you are going to become anorexic. THAT'S NOT COOL.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anorexia_nervosa
http://www.mamashealth.com/anorexia.asp
http://www.nami.org/Template.cfm?Section=By_Illness&template=/ContentManagement/ContentDisplay.cfm&ContentID=7409
^^ THAT'S WHAT IT IS.
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^^ DO YOU WANT TO LOOK LIKE THAT?! THOSE PEOPLE ARE SO GROSS.
This, as I see it, is what's happening to you. You aren't fat, most likely never have been, and more than likely never will be.
If you want to lose weight, go nuts. But, do it in a MENTALLY STABLE way. EAT right, EXERCISE, and don't always think about it.
good luck, and please, please, PLEASE, get some help, before you end up looking like that. It's down right disgusting. I'd rather be HUGE then look like that.
only answer this if you've read the clique books by Lisi Harrison.
Well, i'm 14/f and massie block is like, my idol. i have brown hair, brown eyes, but i'm not super skinny. i'm like 5'3" and 109 pounds...but i have a charm bracelet like hers and a really good wardrobe. i mean, i don't wear anything that's not a designer (and i don't call abercrombie or anything a designer, i'm talking juicy, lacoste, burberry, dior, tory burch, etc). anyway, i'm saving my money and by the end of the summer i should have about 800$. i don't know if i should get a down comforter and a bunch of new clothes, or get my sidekick professionally studded purple, or get a bunch of new shoes, or a prada messesnger. what would be the most massie thing to do?
hey. well, the sidekick idea seems more 'massie' to me. she usually buys things that aren't needed and such, before things that would be more useful.
i would get the sidekick, if not, all the shoes and such, then the down comforter. hope i helped.
How can I get taller?
Any foods in SPECIFIC I can eat to help a little?
hey. well, i only know one thing that will work, which will probably get me a bad rating, but whatever.
anyways, orange juice is supposed to, i've never tried it, becuase i wanna be short, not tall, but people have told me they drink orange juice to get taller.
also, milk, but if you knew what was in milk, you wouldnb't drink it. haha.
earlier today some friends, my boyfriend, and i met up at someones house to hang out, and when we left, me and my boyfriend walked down the street because we live pretty close. on the way he had his arm around me and he was like stroking my shoulder and the sleeve of my shirt fell down like 2 inches, i hardly even noticed. he apologized and i could tell he felt like it was a big deal and felt awkward but it was nothing. on the phone just now he said it was awkward and i told him it was fine no big deal and he doesnt have to worry about it, but i could tell he still was uncomfortable. hes always been kind of shy but i mean we hug and hold hands and such all the time so hes not THAT shy. does anyone know what he means in thinking its awkward?
Hey. Oh wow, you're so lucky.
Most other guys would be all over you right about now.
But he doesn't want to take advantage of you, or disrespect you.
He probably feels akward thinking maybe he thought that you think he was like trying to take your shirt off or something.
Maybe you should just leave the topic alone for a while, let him realize on his own that it wasn't a big deal. Then later on let him know that you didn't care, maybe even act like you forgot about it.
Good luck.
Im 16 and my dad died when i was 8 and my mom recently got married to a guy who used to be in the army. I have two sister and now i have 3 step brothers. He is like way strict and his kids are like perfect angels but me and my sisters have never really been raised that strict and for lack of better words are pretty wild. my mom never really punished us for things( ive never been grounded and ive never ahd a curfew) and now this guy is trying to control us and take over our lives. What should i do?
Hey. Sorry to hear about your dad]:
Well, you could tell your mom that you aren't used to, and don't really like the way that her new husband it running things. Tell her that you aren't used to being raised so strictly, and it really bothers you how your life has completely changed, all too fast.
You could even tell him this directly, if you feel comfortable enough. But in my oppinion, the easiest way to deal with this would be to have your mom talk to him. Try to name specific rules that bother you, and when your stepdad has tried to use them on you. Be sure to be polite and flexible, and if the conversation starts to make you angry, leave for a little while and come back when you're temper has restored. Patience is basically key.
Good Luck.
how do i do my hair like this?
http://s2.photobucket.com/albums/y7/waioluaiai/?action=view¤t=978716890_l.jpg
Hey. Well, she has layered and angled hair.
Plus it's curled.
Don't use hairspray, it's bad for the enviornment, you're contributing to glabl warming.
Use and organic one that doesn't harm the enviornment as much, or use gel.
Also, use a straightener to curl your hair, becuase you want big curls.
Side part it, leave it poofy.
It probably won't come out looking exactly the same, she has her hair done by professionals. But it should come close.
Good luck.
you know how you can search videos on youtube? i was wondering if you could search usernames...if so how?
Hey. You just type the person's username into the searchbar that you would type in the name of the video, and all of that person's videos will pop up.
Hope I helped.
How can i convince my parents to let me get a trampoline? i need help
Hey. Well, if the issue of them getting one is safety, you could tell them about the option of getting you a trampoline that has a net.
If the issue is money, you could try doing jobs so that you could pay for atleast half the cost of one.
Hope I helped.
I'm a bit "out there" and wacky, and I like doing weird stuff to my hair.
Its about halfway down my boobs, brown, and straight to sometimes wavy.
I want to do more things to it...
can you give me ideas?
I already do spiky side buns, Princess Leia buns, pigtails, side braids, hair up with chopsticks and of course just parting it differently.
Any other ideas?
Hey. Well, you could get some type of highlights in a fun color.
Since you have brown hair, though, I wouldn't get pink. I know someone who dyed the underpart of her hair pink, and once it faded, it looked gross.
You can also get temporary hair dyes and such, that last for about a week or two, and then just fade out.
Also, you could get different cuts and such, but then if you don't like them, you're stuck until your hair grows out.
Hope I helped.
okay people tells me secrets and stuff but at the same time they question me if they can trust me because i dont tell anything that much or tell them a secret why is that?
Hey. Well, everyone does this. Maybe they feel less safe telling you secrets becuase you don't tell them any. I mean, maybe I'm just a bad person, but I feel safer when telling someone a deep secret, if I know that they have told me one. That way, if they were to ever use it against you, they have something on you, also.
So, maybe you could try telling your friends minor secrets like "last night, my dad didn't know I went to the mall with you, and I borrowed $5.00 from him without him asking." Or, you know, something minor like that, before you get to telling them secrets that are really important.
Just know, everyone has this problem, it's not that you aren't trustworthy, it's that your friends are smart, and cautious.
Hope I helped.
Hello. My sister and I have the same boring survey on our myspace. It's been on there for a long time. I've seen a question on here before where someone wanted some websites where they could find tons of surveys to put on their myspace, but I can't seem to find it. I'm sure a lot of you guys have a myspace so if you have any websites I could go to please let me know!! Thank you so much to anyone who answers :)
Hey. You could try http://www.quizilla.com. It has all kinds of quizzes.