earlier today some friends, my boyfriend, and i met up at someones house to hang out, and when we left, me and my boyfriend walked down the street because we live pretty close. on the way he had his arm around me and he was like stroking my shoulder and the sleeve of my shirt fell down like 2 inches, i hardly even noticed. he apologized and i could tell he felt like it was a big deal and felt awkward but it was nothing. on the phone just now he said it was awkward and i told him it was fine no big deal and he doesnt have to worry about it, but i could tell he still was uncomfortable. hes always been kind of shy but i mean we hug and hold hands and such all the time so hes not THAT shy. does anyone know what he means in thinking its awkward?
He probably feels akward thinking maybe he thought that you think he was like trying to take your shirt off or something.
Maybe you should just leave the topic alone for a while, let him realize on his own that it wasn't a big deal. Then later on let him know that you didn't care, maybe even act like you forgot about it.
tootsierollsweet999 answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 7:01 am: OO trust me your lucky. he's shy and it seems like he doesnt want to take advantage. Yeah he's the kind you can pass out drunk and wake up and not be worried because he wouldnt do anything. Okk off subject sorry dont worry about it be like really it was nothing I even kinda liked it and joke about it to make him feel better so he doesnt feel like a complete idiot.
He's a gentlemen no problem :)
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khadiya answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 1:16 am: You just said it. Hes shy. He was prepared for that. He didnt want you to think that he did it on purpose, or he was trying to make a move.
Just dont worry about it anymore. Because if you keep bringing it up he will feel worse about it. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
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