|
trust?
okay people tells me secrets and stuff but at the same time they question me if they can trust me because i dont tell anything that much or tell them a secret why is that?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I think in this day and age, people assume that if they tell you something, they expect to get something out of you.
But just keep doing what you're doing.
As long as they know that they can trust that you won't spread the secrets around, I think you'll be just fine. :]
I hope this helped!
]
that doesn't make any sense at all. you actually do sound pretty trust worthy because you DONT tell secrets to people you just keep them. usually people who gossip to you will gossip about you. & if they are willing to tell other peoples secrets to you they are most likely telling your secrets to other people, so these people aren't making too much sense in my oppinion :)
]
Hey. Well, everyone does this. Maybe they feel less safe telling you secrets becuase you don't tell them any. I mean, maybe I'm just a bad person, but I feel safer when telling someone a deep secret, if I know that they have told me one. That way, if they were to ever use it against you, they have something on you, also.
So, maybe you could try telling your friends minor secrets like "last night, my dad didn't know I went to the mall with you, and I borrowed $5.00 from him without him asking." Or, you know, something minor like that, before you get to telling them secrets that are really important.
Just know, everyone has this problem, it's not that you aren't trustworthy, it's that your friends are smart, and cautious.
Hope I helped.
]
Hey, its normal. Everyone says that. They just need the secruity of knowing that they can trust you.
]
well,
people tell me that all the time. its becase you dfont tell them your secrets so they wonder why they should tell you secrets. its like if you dont trust them why should they trust you. you know? in my opinion thts so dumb becase what does you trusting them have to do wtith them trusting you? its just dumb but yea thats why they always say it.
]
More Questions: |