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My parents are fighting every second day my mum has wanted a divorce ever since but she dosnt divorce him because they come bac to tlaking again but he hits her sometimes and i dont want her to divorce him even though he hits me and her but i love them both i couldnt stand them being apart and tell me its wrong to hit a women seriously please i just want to get the idea of divorce out of my mums head all i ever do is cry =[?
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Your mom needs to get a divorce as soon as she can. You love your parents, and the thought of them together but your dad is hurting both of you, physically and mentally. Is this how you want to remember your childhood? Seeing your mom get hit and you yourself being abused? The safest thing would be for both of you to get out of that type of household.
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hitting a woman is definately wrong. in some states, you can be arrested for spoue abuse. the best thing you can do is comfort your mother, while your dad isnt around. and stay out of it when they fight, just go to your room and dont say anything. just do whatever they tell you. my parents do the same, and thats about all you can do. you just have to let them do their thing and not be involved in it.
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honey your mom needs to get a divorce. I know its hard to understand but physical abuse can go too far. A man, has NO RIGHT to hit a woman. Your mother deserves a divorce. I know its a hard thing to imagine being apart, but hitting can lead to so much more. I had a bf that hit me, he almost killed me. I know you love him, but you have to think about your mother too. If you love her, do you really want to see her get beat up? All you ever do is cry? I am sure she cries a lot more behind closed doors than you can imagine. And if he hits you, thats even worse. Love speaks through actions NOT words. You need to talk to a teacher or neighbor. I didnt want to leave my ex either, but you know what, it was him or me. You need to see it like that too. He could end up flying off the handle and taking your mother away permanently , you dont believe that I am sure. But when it happens, there isnt turning back. When someone is gone they are gone.
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