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I can't get over it..
OK, a couple of weeks ago my mom and dad got into a fight and my dad like spazed like litterally. And he threw a plate, bowl, and pack of cds at the wall. now, when my dad gets mad, I am scared of him. And I have lost some respect for him. What can I do to forget what happened? THanks!!!
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How many times has this happened? Because it sounds like its the first time. I can understand the loss of respect. But you might want to think about it some more before you jump to conclusions. If this happens all the time then my advise would be to try to seek help for your father. Some people have a problem with learning how to control their anger.
If this is something that rarely happens or the first time - do you know what they were arguing about? It could of been that he has been under alot of stress. Fathers tend to hold their stress in so as not to upset any other family members. We all at some point boil over. I dont know one person that hasnt thrown a fit about something. My advise is to sit down and talk with him about you feel. Let him know that it scared you. And try to work out a way of communicating before it gets to that point. ex. one night a week or every other week, the family sit down together and talk about whatever has bothered them. You might find that it will bring a big relief for you and your family. All of you will see even more how much support you can give each other just to have someone to listen.
I hope I have helped you. I would love to hear back from you on how it goes.
Thanks
Tiffany
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