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What should I do?
Back in November, I met this guy at a party, and I felt like I connected with him right away and we grinded. However, we were having a random conversation about hook-ups and he said he doesn't hook up because he doesn't want his parents to find out. I'm depressed, whatever. But he asks for my number and screen name and we talk. He calls me more often than I call him. Recently, we've been talking even more and I still like him. Now flash forward to Saturday. A mutual friend pulls me aside and says something along the lines of "I think he likes you, but he's weird. You have to take it slow. But when he mentions you...you can just tell." And I get the sense that he likes me too, as does everyone else. This mutual friend wants to "torture" him by telling him that he spoke to me without telling him what I said. So...what should I do? Should I wait for him to ask me out or say something myself or just wait?
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Keep talking to him, but don't wait. Ask him to go to the mall with you, or to see a movie. Or to go out for coffee or lunch. Ask him out if you want. It'll be easier on him, because he seems shy in promoting a relationship.
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never wait. sometimes waiting isnt the best thing. to me its seems like hes likes you, but hes a little nervous about a relationship. the next time you talk to him on the phone or online, you should mention the idea of you and him together or something along those lines, whatever your comfortable with, and if he says that he agrees, go more in depth with it. if your friends think that he likes you, and you think that he likes you, he probably does. so maybe he is too shy to say something, i think you should be the one to make the move.
good lluck!!!
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Well I think you should defenitly keep thalking to him find out what he likes and then be what he likes then he will come to you!!
If for some reason he doesnt ask you out make a point to ask him if he still doesnt like hook ups!!
Definatly Let him know you are interested!1
~*I hope I could help*~
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If you want things to change, from just calling and talking on the phone/aim then you might want to tell him yourself. He might react quickly. But if you let him talk to you, he might be really slow about it and not know if you like him so he might never ask you. I would try telling him in person or bringing up the subject if you want things to progress/differ. Hope this helped
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