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Hey i'm Kaitlyn!! I am a girl.. I am 5' 8..I play basketball and Softball. I love to give advice! I am here for anyone so ask whatever I will try my best to answer your quetions! I am in middle scool and i am single!! =)

E-mail: kaitlyn_jones72@yahoo.com
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Age: 13
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So my cat won't eat her wetfood. She eats her dry food perfectly fine, and I have tried every suggestion my Vet told me, but nothing worked. Yet I heard (from a friend) that if cats don't eat their wetfood they'll die or something? I do find it somewhat ridiculous but it worries me. Is that true? If so, what can I do? If not, any suggestions to help my cat eat her food?

thanks (link)
Thats not true some cats are just really picky some like wet food some like dry there is nothing wrong with that!! If it like dry there is nothing wrong with him he just likes wat he does just like humans!


hey how do you tell if a guy loves you and what are some ways to get him to tell you that he loves you ? (link)
One way you can tell is the way he acts around you!! His body languge is a big part of how you can tell without asking him...like if he is always looking at you or if he sits or stands real still around you but if he isnt that shy then their are other ways...like if he flirts with you or you can ask his friends is an easy way or ask him yourself.

Hope I helped at all!

~*Kaitlyn*~


where can i find a plain myspace layout (thats all one color, preferably yellow or light blue) that has arial font writing? thankyou! (link)
Well I got mine at Kaitie's Layouts there are some pretty ones there!!


Hi,

I am a home daycare provider. I have been taking care of a 2 year old, Mikey, for almost 2 years now. I NEVER call in sick, I am very dependable. The only time in almost 2 years I have EVER called in is when I had to be hospitalized for 3 days. And even then, I got a back-up sitter so the parents didn't have to miss work. I am cheap too. $100 a week for a 2 year old is unheard of! I am very loyal and loving to all of my daycare kids. I have grown very attached to Mikey, I love him as if he were my own.

I am a very passive person. I let people walk all over me and I know it. I never say what's on my mind, in fear that I will lose the kids or cause an argument. But in this case, I have had it!

I have my own child, who is very sick right now. He needed to see a doctor yesterday. I understand that being a daycare provider means that you have to be dependable, and I am. I put the daycare kids first and waited to take my kid to the doctor until all the other kids were gone to take him to after hours care.

I discovered that my son has strep throat and an ear infection. Strep is very contagious!

Trying to do the right thing, I called all the parents and told them that my son had strep. Being that all the kids were here yesterday anyway, they were probably already exposed. I told the parents that their children are more than welcome to attend daycare, but I just wanted to make the parents aware that my son does have strep. I made it abundantly clear that it was THEIR choice whether they wanted to bring their child to daycare or not.

According to my contract, I am to be paid whether the child attends daycare or not unless I have 2 weeks notice. If I call in sick and cannot provide care for their child, then they do not have to pay.

Mikey's mom called this morning, FREAKING out on me. She says that she cannot find another sitter on such short notice, and if Mikey doesn't come today then she isn't paying me...blah blah. She totally made me feel like I was screwing her and leaving her optionless. I explained AGAIN that it was HER choice to bring Mikey or not to bring Mikey, that I was open and already had other children there. She rudely said she would call me back and hung up on me.

She calls back and rudely says she has absolutely nobody to watch Mikey so she is gonna stay home with him. Before I could even say OK or I am sorry, she hung up on me again!

At this point, my blood is boiling. She has no right to get an attitude with me or to hang up on me. I have always given her child love and I have always respected her. I do not deserve to be treated this way.

But being the passive one, I let it go. Then I saw that I had a voice mail. I checked the message and it was her. Again, she is saying I don't know what to do....this is ridiculous....If Mikey doesn't come I am not paying you, I will not pay for 2 sitters...Blah blah...then rudely slams down the phone.

First of all, if the measley $20 is an issue, all she had to do was talk to me about it. In the contract, I am entitled to it. But I am such a push over that I probably would have waived it because I felt bad.

Secondly, I never told her Mikey could not come. I made that very clear more than once that this was her choice.

So my question is, how do I handle this? I am so angry with her that I wanna scream. How dare you talk to me like that and then hang up on me? I would never do that to her and I don't deserve that. Should I offer to waive the $20? I would have anyway. Should I put her in her place and tell her how I feel or just let it go?

I am really upset about this! I love Mikey and want to continue caring for him, but I know this is going to turn into an arguement if I bring it up.

What would you do???

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Well you really like having Mikey, but there is nothing you can do your son has strep!! Its not your fault and she didnt need to take it out on you! But you should try to talk with her before she hangs up on you tell her you would like to say something then stand up for yourself tell her its not your fault and there is nothing you can do!! I hope i could help!


hey, well this past week ive been having like a million dreams a night. like about stupid stuff too. like last night it was about me in a grocery store dressed up as a skeleton, chocolate chip muffins, and me peeing and then having to pee again right after. yeah random right? whats wrong with me? this has been happening to me for a week and its totally freaking me out. (link)
I am not completly sure but the kinds of dreams you have depend on either what you last eat before you go to bed or how hungry you are when you go to bed! Sometimes you have bad or weired dreams because you are stressed sit back and relax and get all thats on your mind off and right before you go to sleep think of things that relax you and make you feel calm! I hope i helped!!
~*Kaitlyn*~


how do i put a picture or icon as a caption on myspace? (link)
When it pops up after you have uploaded it..in the place after set as defalt there is one and it says add caption i have captions on all of my pictures!


People have told me that I've changed and I'm looking pretty now. I used to be really very nerdy and unattractive and now I've changed the way I dress and my looks. I'm really happy about the way I look now.

People do look at me on the streets now, but the guy that I like doesn't seem to notice at all and he is just so unaffected. Majority of the people around me are kind of affected except for my close friends and THAT guy. NONE of them said anything bout me changing and I personally think it's something that is damn pretty obvious! But I don't receive any compliments whatsoever from them.

But I guess I'm just not pretty enough for him. He only notices really hot girls and I guess to him I'm just an average plain looking girl who has no effect on him. I always plan what to wear and people (except for my close friends and THAT guy) tell me I look good. I mean really, what's up with that?

It really breaks my heart to see him smiling and acting shy in front of really pretty girls and just talking to me like a normal friend. All these just makes me feel that whatever I've done to myself is just hopeless. I just feel so sad everytime after I meet up with him. (link)
If he doesnt seem to notice you how about you make him notice!! Go up to him and talk to him!!
Then he will notice you all the time!
And he will wonder where you are and want to see you more often!
As for your friends if they are truley your friends they would notice expesually if you are differnt then before!
Ask thier opinion on how you look ask them if they like your new hair style or a new outfit!!


~*Hope I help in any way!!*~


Is it sad that I am 16 and never had a boyfriend? I feel stupid walking through the halls seeing all the couples and knowing that I have yet to experience that. Please let me know if I'm pathetic. (link)
Well i feel so stupid half the time because I dont have a boy friend and i have only had like 3 in my whole life!! This one girl even called me a lesbian over that!! It is really hard and i so understand how you feel!! I bet you are really pretty and guys want to go out with you but you dont seem interested..So here is what you need to do..Let the guys know you are avalible and let them know that you are interested in them and if they dont come to you well then you go to them get your first b/f!! Then that will lead to more you are well on your way and i really wish you good luck
~*Hope i could help in any way!!!*~


16,female....

i'll try to make it as short as i can!!..

this guy liked me, we would hangout and stuff then he went out with another girl and then while he was goin out with her he would always say i like you more than her and then i was like why are you even going out with her then?? your stupid! and he broke up with her and hes like i only went out with her because i thought you liked this kid. and i was like nooo! so then he still liked me (i know he did alot =) but he was younger than me so i was like ehh..hes so cute though but then one night he got really mad at me for like no reason and said he never wanted to talk to me so i tried to make things better..and i was like why are you being like this, i heard you were talking crap about me and he was like F*** that i dont talk about you AT ALL. and i was like haha wow alright and he was like why are you even talking to me and i never said anything back but i MISS HIM. ive tried to like other guys, i try and not see him (he goes to a diff school) but i ALWAYS want to see him but its so hard now that he like hates me and now he is going out with another girl and i think he can do SOOO much better everyone thinks she is ugly even all his guy friends and everyone is like they are so not right for each other and it doesnt help that i dont like the girl and i saw his parents and i was talking to them and im like so you know he has a girlfriend and they're like nOO WHO?! and the dad is like i thought you were his girlfriend ;) and im like nooo =( but they love me! and they thought we were going out and i just hate seeing him with another girl. i wish he would just talk to me because ive tried but hes so mad for a reason and wont talk to me. all his friends think im hot they said and want me and him to go out! my good friends were like he just got mad because he liked you soo much and didnt think he could get you. and his cousin and his other friend were like did you guys really go out? and im like NO! who told you that? and they're like oh he did! so he told people we went out and like did stuff and then i saw his older brother one time and hes like how are you and my bro do you still like him and im like i never said i did and he just smiles so obviously he liked me or whatever but i just dont know now..it hurts me to see him and have him give me bad looks and i will go up to his friends and say like hey!! like last night we saw them at a hockey game and he was sitting by his girlfriend and me and my cousin walk up and im like hey bob!hey nick! hey tony! all his friends and then i never said anything to him because he would just start saying why are you talking to me and he gave me the ugliest look like why the hell are you over here and someone pushed him and his girlfriend together and im like haha wow!! but at the end of the game i was talkin to his friends and he was like right behind me talking to his girlfriend and her friends and then he like ran right into me and i dont know if it was on purpose or someone pushed him but he looked at me and then he still talks to my cousin and he came over by us and talked to her but wouldnt look or say anything to me. what should i do? i hangout with other guys, and i cant get over him! even though he is acting like this i just wish he would say i still like you and things could be better.... (link)
Well Seems like he liked you and then didnt!!
He has a g/f yes but is he picturing you as that girl does he wish that was you>? Well you cant really tell...he might be tring to make you jelious..you never di dany thing to him and he got mad!! maybe he was tired of you not liking him!! heres what you need to do ask him why he got so mad tell him how much you wish you were that girl tell him that you wish he was your boyfriend not the other girl he may feel the same way tell him you want one more chance to make up for what ever you did try to work things out best you can!!


i just started dating this guy about 6 days ago and i dont like him anymore. the truth is i dont like him because hes like really fat and ugly. plus we never get to see eachother beacuse he lives about 45 minutes away from me. i want to break up with him but im not a mean person at all (although it does seem like it cus of the reason i sont like him) i dont know why i went out with him in the 1at place. ive only seem him once and i dont know when im gonna see him again. but i just need good reasons to break up with him without being mean. i need more than just we dont get to see eachother much but... i do feel bad by saying that so please dont make comments that are mean to me.. im not a mean person at all. (link)
If you know there is definately nothing at all between you then there is no use in dateing him!! So you need to dump him in the nicest possible way so you wont hurt his feelings!! As much..Well tell him you never see him and you dont think it will work out that way!! You never know hw might feel the exact way!!
~*Hope i could help you at all*~


i hear people saying that people who love you look at you a certain way... what way is that and can you tell?? (link)
You can tell or atleast I think!
If they are constantly staring at you with a certin look on there face then you know something is there!
If you aren't sure he has a certin look and you dont want to make it look like you are staring at him then look when he least expects it!
~*I Hope I could help!!*~


I'm going snowboarding like without a friend tomrrow, and i'm kind of hoping to run into a hott guy. however, im so bad at like making the first move to talk to him. especailly while boarding if hes with friends. Whats a good way to aproach him, or even make him want to come to me? (link)
Well let them notice you give the guy a sign let him no you are interested in him. If he doesnt make a move then you should! All you have to do is start a convo.!! Then you will be talking in no time!!!
~*Hope i helped!*~


this is a long story but i got 2 give background info!
so a week from saturday i was at shool (its like jewish church) and i saw this boy and had my ffriend entroduce us because she knows him from baseball. usually i have nno problem talking to boys but around him i got so nervous. i couldent say three words so i walked away. then this saturday i saw him at the park so i went up to him and asked him if he wanted to go to a party that night. he said sure and so i asked for his # and said id call him with the details. he gave me his cell # and i texted him that night and gave him all the details. he actually came and i came about a half hour after. when i got there i asked him if he wanted to dance and he said sure. we danced for a while until he had to go. he was talking to one of my guy friends and said he wanted to kiss me. but i wasnt ready for that because i didnt know him. so before he left he leaned in to kiss me so i gave him a kiss on the cheek. and while we were dancing i told him i had a huge crush on him. but some people were talking that i wanted to make my ex jelous. but i couldent care less about my ex. the boy i was dancing with, he has the most amazing eyes and hes so nice i just want to be with him. but i think im scaring him off. i dont want to play games and wait until he texts me or whatever. he knows i like him. and yesterday i texted him twice but he never answered. and today he texted me back and i was like im nvr gnna c u again and hes like i gtg do hw now bye. so now i dont know i dont really want to lose him but im pretty sure he just wanted to hang out for a night. i could handle that though. i just want to know your opinion about the situation thanx! (link)
Sounds like you are having a bit of trouble..I understand you didnt want to rush things!!
If he did like you like he said then he wouldnt have sent you the txt. Casualy ask him what is wrong and see what his answer is tell him how you feel. Dont let your feelings bottle up inside until its to late!! Maybe if you tell him how you feel he will tell you how he feels and you might find out what was wrong. Sounds to me like you both like eachother and if he thinks you didnt want to kiss him he might not wanna talk to you because he might think you dont like him!!
{What you need to do is tell him that you thought it was to soon to kis him and that you wanna get to know him better and after you get to know him then you can kiss him!!}

Sorry it was so long i hope i helped you in any way!! Good luck!!


Back in November, I met this guy at a party, and I felt like I connected with him right away and we grinded. However, we were having a random conversation about hook-ups and he said he doesn't hook up because he doesn't want his parents to find out. I'm depressed, whatever. But he asks for my number and screen name and we talk. He calls me more often than I call him. Recently, we've been talking even more and I still like him. Now flash forward to Saturday. A mutual friend pulls me aside and says something along the lines of "I think he likes you, but he's weird. You have to take it slow. But when he mentions you...you can just tell." And I get the sense that he likes me too, as does everyone else. This mutual friend wants to "torture" him by telling him that he spoke to me without telling him what I said. So...what should I do? Should I wait for him to ask me out or say something myself or just wait? (link)
Well I think you should defenitly keep thalking to him find out what he likes and then be what he likes then he will come to you!!
If for some reason he doesnt ask you out make a point to ask him if he still doesnt like hook ups!!
Definatly Let him know you are interested!1
~*I hope I could help*~


where can i listen to whole songs for free i no yahoo.com and aol.music.com but what others (link)
You should get limewire basic!! It is free download and then free music simple and easy!!


13/f. i loved butterflys 2 years ago and have never had a boyfriend so my mom said i was a lesbian. and she wasnt joking or anything. now i like black and dark colors she says im gothic and she says goths like peircings~i have had both my ears double peirced for about 4 years~and now since she says im gothic which im not she took all my earings and made me take out my earings to make them close up. she reads my diary and makes sure about wat i do or think or anything my friends do or just everything and makes sure i do nothing bad. so one day i wrote in my diary 'mom since your reading this and i no you will leave me alone i hate you i always have u give me no space' i got grounded for a month and she told every1. she doesnt have to read it and espesially not tell my whole family and cusins. its my diary shouldnt it be private? did i do sumthing wrong or what? (link)
I know how you feel about this whole thing!! My mother always reads my diary until lately!! I found a really good hideing spot where no one can find it!! And to keep her from calling you names and such its simple just talk to her tell her how you feel about her jumping to conclusions..If you dont want to have a chat with your mother then just forget about what she says. You are what you are and you know what you are so if she says something not true dont let that bother you!! Just ignore it! And if your family members think you are these things straighten them out tell them its not true that you arent those things!!

~* I hope I have helped you at all*~


So there's a boy (obviously.)
We're pretty good friends. Joke, have fun, talk a lot, etc.
We're even LAB PARTNERS, (My teacher makes it so that you have to BOTH pick that person, otherwise you get matched with someone that doesn't care.) if that says anything. (Ha, ha, with the *chemistry* jokes.)

We have a lot in common, including the fact that we're both really shy.

I really like him, but I'm not sure if he feels the same way.
Do I say something?

(15/f) (link)
Well I think you should find out if he likes you. Since your shy get someone to ask him for you. You have lots in common so start a conversation to let him know you have tons in common if he sees that you guys are alike then you are on your way...dont be afraid to flirt make your feelings known if he knows you like him he can very well like you back!!
~*Good Luck I hope I have helped you in any way!!*~
Another good way to find out if he like you is by the way he acts around you I hiope that help any??




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