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how do i break up with him?
i just started dating this guy about 6 days ago and i dont like him anymore. the truth is i dont like him because hes like really fat and ugly. plus we never get to see eachother beacuse he lives about 45 minutes away from me. i want to break up with him but im not a mean person at all (although it does seem like it cus of the reason i sont like him) i dont know why i went out with him in the 1at place. ive only seem him once and i dont know when im gonna see him again. but i just need good reasons to break up with him without being mean. i need more than just we dont get to see eachother much but... i do feel bad by saying that so please dont make comments that are mean to me.. im not a mean person at all.
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I understood your question very clearly, but maybe my answers were a little too mature for you. you are probably looking for advice more simple. it seems like you are confused in dealing with guys period. There are alot of ways you can say things without being rude, you said you wanted to get rid of him i was just trying to tell you some things so that he would want to break up with you. sorry if i didnt give you the advice you wanted, maybe you wanted a more simple answer.
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Basically the first reason you gave is really shallow, I'm not gonna lie. But I guess if you don't find him attractive and that really matters to you then you should end it of course because it wouldn't be fair to him. I would say to be honest about the distance thing, but don't bring up the physical problems because that is all you need to do, give the kid a complex about himself! No, that wouldn't be nice at all.
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If you know there is definately nothing at all between you then there is no use in dateing him!! So you need to dump him in the nicest possible way so you wont hurt his feelings!! As much..Well tell him you never see him and you dont think it will work out that way!! You never know hw might feel the exact way!!
~*Hope i could help you at all*~
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Well you've only been dating for 6 days, so I really don't think that he's going to be hurt by your wanting to dump him. I think you'll be able to say something young like "I don't think we really work. I never get to see you, and I don't think this is a healthy relationship."
Good luck with that one.
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just tell him that you dont want to be with him anymore. trurst me yourr gonna feel much better after its all over
i think we've all been in this situation and its plainly better to get out of it before he gets to obsessed with you
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Hey,
REASONS:
1.) I never see you.
2.) I think I'm starting to move on.
So, you could IM him and be like (w/o being mean)
Hey,
Listen..I'm really sorry, but I don't think this is working out for us. I mean, I never see you so I think I'm starting to move on. It's hard to get together since you're 45 minutes away. And I trust you and all but who knows if you're cheating on me? It's just too complicated. I'm really sorry and if you don't want to be friends, I understand.
-(your name here)
Hope I helped..good luck & let me know how everything goes!
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i was in this situation before.i went out with him for 2 weeks i wanted to break up with him the first day we started going out i pretty much jsut used him to make another guy jealous which i feel awful for doing but i was young and didnt know any better.Anyway,i think you just tell him that maybe its not such a good idea to go out because how you guys are just so far away and that it will be too hard for you guys to see each other alot and that your not really ready to handle a relationship just yet.Honesty is always the best way to go.You dont want to say too much because it will seem like you staged it and too rehearsed.The guy i mentioned to you about it was half a fib and half the truth, it was because of "my grades" thats why i dumped him and he didnt believe me.Guys dont like liars.So jsut tell him the truth (just not the part where you think hes fat and ugly because thats just plan mean) Hope i could help!
♥ danielle
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This is simple!! I think the reason why you dated him in the first place is because you feel sorry for him. I am the type of person that does not believe in long distance relationships..So you can tell him that you dont think it will work out because you guys are to far apart. It is a simple way to tell him it is over without being mean!!
~*Good Luck!!!*~ And I hope my advice works for you!!
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