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this is a long story but i got 2 give background info!
so a week from saturday i was at shool (its like jewish church) and i saw this boy and had my ffriend entroduce us because she knows him from baseball. usually i have nno problem talking to boys but around him i got so nervous. i couldent say three words so i walked away. then this saturday i saw him at the park so i went up to him and asked him if he wanted to go to a party that night. he said sure and so i asked for his # and said id call him with the details. he gave me his cell # and i texted him that night and gave him all the details. he actually came and i came about a half hour after. when i got there i asked him if he wanted to dance and he said sure. we danced for a while until he had to go. he was talking to one of my guy friends and said he wanted to kiss me. but i wasnt ready for that because i didnt know him. so before he left he leaned in to kiss me so i gave him a kiss on the cheek. and while we were dancing i told him i had a huge crush on him. but some people were talking that i wanted to make my ex jelous. but i couldent care less about my ex. the boy i was dancing with, he has the most amazing eyes and hes so nice i just want to be with him. but i think im scaring him off. i dont want to play games and wait until he texts me or whatever. he knows i like him. and yesterday i texted him twice but he never answered. and today he texted me back and i was like im nvr gnna c u again and hes like i gtg do hw now bye. so now i dont know i dont really want to lose him but im pretty sure he just wanted to hang out for a night. i could handle that though. i just want to know your opinion about the situation thanx!
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well it seems like you have a huge crush on this boy and that its not gonna be easy to get over him. like many of the other people said, he may have been using you for that one night. boys are like that, he may say that he hasnt danced with a girl before but he could be lying to make you think that hes so innocent. on the other hand, you could possibly be intimidating him. if he hasnt had a girlfriend before and he knows that you like him hes probably nervous about the whole thing and might be confused. i think that you should lighten up with the whole texting thing and give him a little space. if he really likes you and wants to persue a relationship or some kind, then he will come around on his own.
good luck!
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Sounds like you are having a bit of trouble..I understand you didnt want to rush things!!
If he did like you like he said then he wouldnt have sent you the txt. Casualy ask him what is wrong and see what his answer is tell him how you feel. Dont let your feelings bottle up inside until its to late!! Maybe if you tell him how you feel he will tell you how he feels and you might find out what was wrong. Sounds to me like you both like eachother and if he thinks you didnt want to kiss him he might not wanna talk to you because he might think you dont like him!!
{What you need to do is tell him that you thought it was to soon to kis him and that you wanna get to know him better and after you get to know him then you can kiss him!!}
Sorry it was so long i hope i helped you in any way!! Good luck!!
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It seems to me like you are rushing into this way too fast. I mean you just met him a week ago-ish and you already feel like he's your soul mate. Men and men and some men just want what is convenient for them at any given time. And what was convenient for him at that time was you. I seriously do not want to seem harsh but it's the truth. To me it just seems like it was a little fling i guess you can say. And i personally think you sound like you deserve better than him. Anyway I hope thing's work out for the best :)
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aw poor babe this sucks. i would stop texting this boy. you chased after him, he probably dosent like you. he sounds like a jerk. since your never going to see him again, i would forget about him. there are nicer people in this world. its time to get over this boy. it was one night of having a good time. thats all
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Hey,
I think he was just using you for a kiss, if he's never going to see you again, then he doesn't really care about you :(. You could have scared him off sending him all of those text messages, I wouldn't text him anymore or try and contact him in any way.
Good luck..
-Jam
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