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Ummm no love life.
Is it sad that I am 16 and never had a boyfriend? I feel stupid walking through the halls seeing all the couples and knowing that I have yet to experience that. Please let me know if I'm pathetic.
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It's not pathetic. I'm 16, and I've only had two serious boyfriends. Usually, some girls don't get a boyfriend for a while. And it's completely normal. Maybe the guys are shy, or maybe you're shy. Maybe you're too quiet & they feel like they'd be intimidating to you, or whatever. Don't be in such a hurry for a boyfriend. Guys aren't everything & Mr. Right will come sometime. Besides, you've had all this time to observe them, so you'll probably know all the types of guys & who to stay away from.
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Well i feel so stupid half the time because I dont have a boy friend and i have only had like 3 in my whole life!! This one girl even called me a lesbian over that!! It is really hard and i so understand how you feel!! I bet you are really pretty and guys want to go out with you but you dont seem interested..So here is what you need to do..Let the guys know you are avalible and let them know that you are interested in them and if they dont come to you well then you go to them get your first b/f!! Then that will lead to more you are well on your way and i really wish you good luck
~*Hope i could help in any way!!!*~
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its not sad! ive never had a boyfriend either. and you shouldnt be sad or ashamed of it! guys are complicating believe me ive been through alot. i bet the reason is that your really pretty and you intimidate guys, they think that they will get turned down if they talk to you or ask you out on a date because they think they arent good enough for you. be outgoing if your not, it really helps thing out alot! more guys will see that your not intimidating and that your easy to talk to and fun to be around. just wait a great guy will come around i know everybody probably tells you to wait and i bet you get sick of it because i know i do all the time but i realized that you dont have to be worrying about what is my boyfriend doing right now, is he talking to other girls is he cheating on me, does he really love me? you can enjoy life and a guy will come when you least expect it ♥ your beautiful on the inside and out and dont let ANYONE TELL YOU DIFFERENTLY!
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of course your not pathetic. you could be one of the best girls in school and not have a bf. the thing with boys is, they go after the girls who are easy, not even bothering to go after the ones that are actually worth something. (now, im not saying that all GFs are sluts) and while they're going after the easy ones, the good ones are all walking around wondering whats wrong with them. thinking that they're fat, ugly, too clumsy, or just plain wierd when the truth is, they are the most wonderful girls in the whole school. put this into concideration and let me know if your view on anything changes. ( just think about it. there's probably a guy that likes you right now but is just to shy to say anything) i hope i've helped.
~Nikki <3
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you are NOT pathetic. many people are the same way, you just would never know because all you notice is the girls WITH boyfriends, not the girls without. the right guy just has not come along yet. trust me, your turn will come sooner or later. =]
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NO! NO! You aren't. It's completely normal. Look harder- there ARE OTHER SINGLES OUT THERE! Just let things happen as they come along- don't look too hard.
I had the same problem for a while. Really, it's ok.
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nah ofcoarse not!
what makes you think that your pathetic?
it might be a good idea to start looking around for guys in your playing field so that you can have that kind of a relationship, but just because you dont have a boyfriend doesnt stamp annything on your forehead that sais 'loser'.
start talking to some of your friends to see if they cant hook you up. nobody ever got annywhere by sitting still. no, you arent a loser, but being in a realationship IS really fun and sad to miss out on.
hope i helped
luv emi ;)
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