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so i like two guys...
i like these two guys, one of them is my really good friend, the other one is mh friend but i don't see him very much and i don't really see him outside of school. so both of them have girlfriends... which really sucks. the one that i'm really good friends with has a really happy relationship... they're soo cute... so he's off limits... but he's a huge flirt and he makes moves on me and stuff... and it's really hard for me to not come back at him and flirt right back. so how can i keep my self control when it's sooo hard to do with him? and the second guy is even more of a flirt! and i really like him, and i think he likes me. but he's with another chick, i really hope they break up... which is totally messed up, i know! so forgive me for asking this but is there anyway that i can get them to break up so he's avalible? and if you're going to tell me that i should just get over him or something like that please just don't say it.
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Well for the first guy that you like with the amazing relationship, since hes a big flirt, maybe he just wants a " peice. " because i mean if he liked you then he would break uhp with his girl and be with you, you know ? you just cant make someone like you so honestly distace yourself far away from him as you can. because trust me i know its hard not to flirt back with someone who you have feelings for. i know you heard it so many times but there ARE other fishes in the sea, ones who have the same feeling that you have for them. you just cant break uhp something that two people have, thats life. There are ways to break two people uhp but im sure that after its done, you will feel like a horrible person. really, i dont think that you could live with what you done because i know i couldnt. i mean what if they did break uhp ? how are SURE that he will go right to you ? would you want to see either of them unhappy ? just have patience and you will see that you`ll find a boy who you can have a great relationship just like the two boys that you know. i really hope i helped.
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well your very right about the first guy you talked about...you should just leave that alone, if hes happy, dont endanger his relationship. about him flirting with you, you dont have to ignore it and i know that us girls cant really help flirting back with a guy we think is cute but try and keep it to a minimum and if he tries to make any moves on you, thats where you need to be the bigger person and stop it. as for the second guy, breaking them up isnt the best idea but if you really want to, flirt with him back as much as you can and maybe he will like you more then his girlfriend eventually if they arent too serious. I wouldnt really say anything to break them up because that will just cause drama. but keep hanging out with him. if they have been together for a while just dont try it.
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